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Insult is not shocked, and the opposite is flattered and humiliated. Lao Tzu's "Tao Te Ching" said: "Favor is the bottom, if you get it, if you lose it, you are surprised, it is said that you are spoiled and humiliated."

Favoring is despicable, being favored makes people feel particularly happy, and losing favor people often panic and feel uneasy, which is called pampering and humiliation. Lao Tzu also said: "If you are frightened, you will be in great trouble."

Lao Tzu warned future generations - those who strive for fame and fortune attach great importance to the honor and disgrace outside the body, even far more than their own lives, that is, they forget themselves.

Ji Xianlin: Don't lose your conscience when it's the hardest.

The 96-year-old Mr. Ji Xianlin has been teaching at Peking University for many years, and has deep attainments in linguistics, cultural studies, history, Buddhism, Indology and comparative literature, and has studied and translated Sanskrit works and many classics in Germany, Britain and other countries, and his works have been compiled into the 24-volume "Ji Xianlin Collected Works".

Mr. Ji Xianlin is admired not only for his knowledge, but also for his character. He said: Even in the most difficult times, he did not lose his conscience.

During the "Cultural Revolution", he secretly translated the Indian epic "Ramayana" and completed the book "Miscellaneous Memories of the Cowshed", which condensed a lot of human thoughts. His book is not only a portrayal of his life, but also a reflection of the history of Chinese intellectuals in the past 100 years.

Award speech] The wise are happy, the benevolent are long-lived, and the elderly do whatever they want. The former red-clothed boy, and now the white-haired gentleman, have been left for ten years in the cold window, and the cowshed has a lot of miscellaneous memories. He has a conscience and writes moral articles.

A cloth cloth, words and things, deeds are qualified, poor and lowly, and pampered and humiliated.

Today, a friend's QQ signature is "Pampered and not surprised."

During the Tang Dynasty, Wang Xiaojie and Lou Shide were ordered to engage Tubo in the Surokhan Mountain, and the Tang army was defeated. The emperor was very angry, so he dismissed Wang Xiaojie as a commoner and demoted Lou Shide to the former state member Wai Sima. Lou Shide was demoted from the prime minister to such a low-level petty official, and he didn't care, that is, once, he was signing the official government.

Pampering and not being shocked means that no matter how pampered or humiliated, you don't care; It is used to describe not being tempted by personal gains and losses.

During the period of Taizong of the Tang Dynasty, there was a person named Lu Chengqing, who was honest and honest, serious in his work, and practical. He thinks that as a **, the main thing is to be loyal to the country, and he doesn't care whether his official position is promoted or demoted. He first worked as an examiner wailang, and later became a scholar Zuocheng, and finally served as a waiter in the military department, because he always told the truth, offended the emperor, and was demoted to be a Sima of Jianzhou.

When Jianzhou Sima, Lu Chengqing didn't feel the fire at all. Later, the imperial court transferred him back to the court as the secretary of the criminal department, and Lu Chengqing was not particularly happy about this. When he was critically ill in his later years, Lu Chengqing's sons and daughters called to the bed and instructed:

Hall"After I die, the funeral must be simple. Even if you wear this garment, it is.

I think, people, even if you are in a low valley, as long as you look up at the starry sky and continue to work hard, you can eventually bloom into a brilliant time.

The world is complicated, and it is better to face it positively and let yourself not be shocked.

Many of life's troubles stem from the fact that we blindly compare ourselves with others and forget to enjoy our own lives.

What others have, I will also have, even if I spend all my savings;

If someone else uses it, I will use it too, even if it doesn't mean much, I don't care about ......Once the idea of comparison comes to mind, man becomes a slave to desire.

Always staring at other people's lives and using others as a reference will only make you anxious and affect your normal life.

People don't fight, and they are relaxed. Blindly compare, it is better to retract your eyes to yourself and find exclusive happiness.

Everyone's life is difficult to learn as much as it is inevitable that something bad will happen:

If we had the sea in our hearts, we wouldn't lament a few drops of splash.

When a person chooses to take a step back, the horizon will open up and the pattern will open up more and more.

Your emotions are your cultivation and conduct.

The real power of a person is that he does not lose his temper in front of things.

The tone is calm, which can dissolve anger; Smiling is the key to reducing anxiety.

Original:

What does it mean to be flattered? Pet for the bottom; If you are surprised, if you are surprised, you are surprised, it is said to be flattered and humiliated.

Note:

Frightened: As if frightened.

Lost: that is, out of favor, translated as humiliated.

Translation:

What is flattering (both being favored and being humiliated is like being frightened)? To be favored is a despicable thing; When you are favored, you are like being frightened, and when you are humiliated, you are like being frightened.

Release:

Although a gentleman seeks humility, he is not willing to be humble. If you are not frightened, you will be driven by cattle and horses, and if cats and dogs are willing to be humble. Therefore, the gentleman does not set up a name, thinking that it is a true technique; and do not do dirty karma, thinking that it is a way to disgrace.

It is based on the cloud of "Caigen Tan": "If it is filthy, it will be a cluster of flies and gnats, and if it is fragrant, it will be invaded by bees and butterflies." Therefore, a gentleman does not do dirty karma, nor does he make a name. It's just that the vitality is clear and the corners are not revealed, which is a comfortable nest for holding on to the world. ”

To put it bluntly, it has a two-skin face.

The skin inside will cry, laugh, get angry, and beg for mercy, but the skin on the outside does the opposite.

For example, your leader criticized you, and you were angry, but on the surface, you said, "The leader is right, I was wrong, I should, I will find a way to atone for my sins." "Such people will be taken seriously, you see.

Don't be complacent about your successes, and don't be depressed about your failures!

Don't be happy with things, don't be sad!

It means to maintain a steady state of mind.

It is not to be happy with things, not to be sad ...... oneselfBe at peace! Don't care about gains and losses, take fame and fortune lightly!