Everyone s help is urgently needed! Money issues between me and my boyfriend!

It should be the reason why the two of you have different views on money.

There are two views.

Yours is more inclined to pay even if your boyfriend and girlfriend or even your husband and wife go out to eat.

If he is really as rich as you say and loves you more and more.

He should be more inclined to that.

I feel that since the relationship is so close.

Then what's yours is his.

Because you are also his (here is not the meaning of treating you as an object, but the meaning of his own person) to his ex-girlfriend's **.

You're being too harsh.

His past emotions are also his experiences.

Part of him.

A part of him that he can't give up, you weren't his girlfriend at that time, so there's nothing wrong with that relationship.

Even if he promised you not to associate with her again.

In fact, this "promise" should not be quite correct.

And that emotion is known to you.

So. At this time, it is even more important to be generous and tolerant.

And give him space.

Otherwise, what else can you show this quality in?

Only you and his love are better than the one he once had.

to make him forget the woman.

That's what you're aiming for, right?

But your observation, attention, and careful eye will not do that.

Let him care more about you and make him love you more, which is also your goal.

But it can only be achieved by being better to him, making him feel more sorry for you.

It's not something that can be achieved by being more cold to him.

At the same time, I feel like you're having some selfishness.

Money like rent.

Not much though. But not much.

Now that you already have an income.

You shouldn't be so careful.

Has he ever used his money for you.

Will you have to accept him to pay the bills for both of you?

When you come, will you become an AA system or eat soft rice?

Or maybe my guess is wrong.

You can talk to him sincerely.

If you really want to manage an emotion.

There's a lot to talk about in the future.

Create one from now on.

Sincere, to the point of conversation.

It's not a good thing.

It's better than having a big problem in the future, don't you think? After all, you have also put emotional time and mental energy in it, don't give up easily.

On the question of borrowing money.

Whether it's true or not.

Trust him this time.

Because you deserve half a year and you have no reason to trust him once.

Next time, if there is one.

Evidence. Let's face up to the problem.

The question is too long.

No one wants to take a closer look.

It's a good idea to talk! Let him speak his truest thoughts! Talk about your romance! See how much love she has for you! Combined with your own thoughts, you will know what you want!

According to the analysis of the situation you provide, it is difficult to say that there is no problem with his quality, it is recommended that you observe his usual words and deeds, remember the amount of money in your wallet if necessary, try him, and you can find out if there is a problem with his quality.

I also have a question with my boyfriend about money, so I just feel very bored after reading it, I don't know where to start, and I'm embarrassed to ......

He doesn't really love you at all, my bf never wants to spend a penny on me, I can't rush to pay the bill every time I eat, he has to pay me back, even if I go on a trip, he has to give me money, he is really selfless dedication to me, just... I may not be able to walk with him in the end, and we will be in harmony.

If you're going to talk about a couple, you should be on both sides of the story, right? Although it's not an AA system, but I went out to eat with my boyfriend today, maybe he invited me to eat, and I will invite him to eat another day, which is a natural thing, but borrowing money is okay, but it's not good to steal it, my boyfriend borrowed me more than 5000, and I didn't care too much, but if a man can't forget the woman in the past, and will hide something from you, then this man may have a little flower. It's best for the two of you to find a time to talk about it, don't let him hide anything, and you can't be too anxious and irritable to treat him, so that he won't talk about it.

Or find time to talk about it in a harmonious mood, many knots are not good for themselves, since it is a couple, share a little, if you feel that his love for you is not real enough, then the long pain is better than the short pain. It's up to you.

If you still measure feelings in terms of material things, I think it's an unsuccessful relationship, although it's a real world now, if you give up love, you have nothing, tell yourself, cherish everything you have, because beyond that, you may have nothing!!

If the man doesn't have money, but he still works hard and works hard to make money, then it's not his fault, if not, then you can give up, the lazy person will make you regret it for the rest of your life!

If you want, of course it's better to be with him, love is worth more than anything!

If your family is good, why don't you come up with material things to support him? If he is willing to be motivated, you will be very happy together In fact, sometimes don't be too realistic, don't take material things too seriously!

Hehe, let's put it this way, do you think he's self-motivated? If he is self-motivated and willing to work hard to make money for you, even if he makes very little money, it can also mean that he is also a good man! He accepts your help, which is not the same as relying on you, not the same as eating soft rice!

Just like you're investing!

Then you think like this, if you don't have a pleasant life together, break up and stuff! People don't do that nowadays!!

If you choose to be with him, you have to face difficulties together.

Endure hardships together. If you love him, don't abandon him.

Don't abandon him for money.

I think to spread it out and say what your boyfriend thinks? Just tell these things one by one, and ask what happened to that scarf? In this way, your boyfriend will not feel that you are holding everything in his heart, but, remember not to be in a hurry, listen to how he explains, so that you can rest assured, if he is looking for excuses to explain clearly, I believe in this relationship, you have no nostalgia.

There are a lot of things that you can't keep if you want to, especially feelings!

"How to say what you mean in your heart" is to be able to say your usual dissatisfaction, this is a method of communication, you have to tell him to do everything to take into account your feelings, unless he no longer cherishes your feelings.

I didn't expect that your boyfriend is not an ordinary "cheap bone", judging from the above things, he enjoys doing the things he usually hates, no man should give a woman a sense of security, his character is unlikely to change, you had better be mentally prepared for this.

You said that you were sorry for him for breaking up, why? In the future, he is likely to do something sorry for you, there is a saying called "light bones", which means that he is excited when he sees something he is interested in, and he can do what he wants.

You also said that "he is usually okay with you" through your description, it is not difficult to guess that his "goodness" to you is just lip service, nothing substantial, and it is in vain to make promises and principles to this type of person, because they will only rely on their own preferences and do not take into account the feelings of others.

As a woman, don't be emotionally carried away by "feelings", and don't expect him to change his shortcomings after marriage or even longer, (no matter how good he promises) to be clear about what he wants.

I don't think you should think on the bad side, he is also to deal with the relationship, without a good relationship, how can he be promoted? How do you make him sit more securely? Since he didn't go too far.

Don't think too much about it, I dare say, if you continue like this, your lover will break up. You do your best, you can do it.

Speak slowly and bluntly, saying that you are jealous and feel uncomfortable.

How are you feeling right now?

Do you think he behaved in any way?

If it's normal, don't speculate, maybe there is a reason for it.

If it's abnormal, you have to be careful.

I think it's best to ask him.

I think the woman did it on purpose.

I don't want to watch it anymore, he obviously doesn't like you very much when you bear so much pressure for him, what's there to be nostalgic for, find someone who knows how to cherish you, and if your boyfriend doesn't respect you, you see it and immediately express your position, don't hold back, you may not be able to stand it when you break out on earth one day, hehe.

Be sure to speak calmly, tell him about your confusion and helplessness, and ask him what he wants to do. Let him understand that if he cares about you, don't be entangled with other women, and if he has no confidence in your relationship, then tell him that there is no possibility of turning back when he lets go.

Let's calm down, let go of the burden and talk about it.,Since you're a lover, there's no need to hide it.... …If you don't say it, it's always a knot.... …No one knows ......Find a time to have a meal ...... a room

Note: He's just your boyfriend, don't be so unclear about money when you're not married, even if you're married, you have property justice, not to mention it's just a boyfriend, just ask him for money, there's nothing embarrassing, he is not embarrassed because he doesn't pay back. What's more, there is also money you borrowed from your friends

Although I don't listen to it much, I suggest that you listen to what Ye Wen has to say, it will be very helpful to you

I wish you happiness

You tell him that 1,000 of the 5,000 you lent him belong to a friend, and that your friend's grandmother is sick and needs the money urgently, and asks him what to do and see what he thinks.

Let's just say it, explain the reason, I don't think the average person thinks like you say, or he's not a good man, let alone not married yet, that's the best

You can decide whether to re-lend it to him or to him, and if you borrow it, you have to pay it back, and you don't need to pay it back if you give it. Before, my boyfriend was in a hurry, and I gave him 50,000 yuan at once, and when I gave him the money, I said it was for you, and you don't have to pay it back. He insisted on paying it back, and a year later he returned it to me when he had the money, and I got angry when I didn't want him, and finally I took it.

My boyfriend is really good. I love him so much.

Many times this is a meat bun beating a dog, the so-called emergency does not help the poor, such as similar life-saving money, maybe you can, you can estimate the rest.

The other party does not repay if there is no IOU.

It will not have legal effect.

It is advisable to weigh the pros and cons.

If not, borrow less.

After all, if you don't borrow, you will feel sorry for it.

The girlfriend should use the money to help her boyfriend choose the boyfriend for the purpose of borrowing money, and it is better to get the consent of her parents, so that even if you are married, her parents will like you very much.

If you think you must be his future wife, you should.

Of course, you need to pay it back, after all, you are not husband and wife yet, and if the woman wants to help the man, then the last IOU.

Men don't mention it, women don't pay attention to it. Men mention, women have to go through the consent of the family! If there is any formality, it is up to the parents to decide.

Men are good-looking, and so are daughters. She's afraid that you'll look down on her. Have a good talk with her.

After getting married, I lent him money, and now I have to make an IOU to borrow.