What s it like to have a friend who often asks you to borrow money?

I asked a few times a month, I lost my gambling money for various reasons, I didn't have money to pay my salary in business, I borrowed it once and asked to pay it back, as if I owed him money, as if I said upstairs I felt that I had raised a son.

Normally, unreliable borrowers will not have it if they borrow it once, and they will not have it often, and they must not get used to it. But good friend, I will definitely help when I need to help. Who doesn't have a turnover time, if they can, they won't be willing to borrow money.

Every day I think about what excuse I can have, because a dormitory person is embarrassed to say anything, I may be too weak.

Anyway, I don't like such friends, in the end, I am so short of money that I often borrow money from others, and you can borrow it, and you still pit it according to one person.

I really want to curse! Borrow money from me at every turn! If you are short of money, ask me to borrow it! It used to be good to say in one place, but now the two are 108,000 miles apart! Also borrow from me! Didn't you say that you have a lot of friends? Borrow money, as for me, someone who doesn't have a job yet?

Sometimes I feel like a rotten egg, being targeted by a fly and sucking hard every day. Probably that's how disgusting it feels!

As soon as my college roommate is, it doesn't matter if you borrow money, you will pay me back if you borrow it! It's disgusting to borrow money and not pay it back, and to borrow it many times.

It feels like it's troublesome, a friend of mine just goes out without money and always asks me to borrow money, but it's also a little money that should be emergency, usually the same day or the next day to pay me back, sometimes you can borrow me several times a day, it's annoying.

Disgusting! The key is that if you borrow it and don't pay it back, you can't borrow a hundred or half a year, and you come to borrow money every three or five days, and I'm so annoyed that I'm going to die if I can't do it.

It's like raising a son, and he treats you as an ATM all day long to take money from you, and the disgusting thing is that the son can't beat his son if he doesn't pay back the money, which is very unhappy.

There is a concept in psychology called the loss effect, and studies have found that the pain of losing something is twice as great as the joy of getting it. In other words, if you lose 100 dollars, then you will have to pick up at least 250 dollars to balance the damage you have suffered inside. The loss effect is nothing more than a human nature.

When those people borrow money for a long time, they will feel that the money is their own. So, when you need them to pay it back, they feel like they've suffered a huge loss. Psychologically speaking, they are very resistant to paying back, especially the one with a relatively large amount, which is tantamount to making them suffer like cutting off their flesh and mending sores.

They must have a strong sense of self-discipline to overcome this nature, but most people borrow money often because they are not able to manage themselves financially, which essentially means that they are a very undisciplined person.

We can conclude that asking the borrower to repay the money is tantamount to making an undisciplined person self-disciplined. What is self-discipline? The essence of self-discipline is to kill a decadent self with your own hands, which is originally a very difficult thing, which is why many people borrow money in real life and do not pay it back.

If you cherish friendship, then it is best not to have any financial dealings with your friend, especially not to lend him money, because the person who borrows money often will most likely not pay it back.