What happened to those who don t like to socialize?

said that he was a little afraid of people now, and he had to reconcile with himself first.

Whether it's out of other people's cuteness or hating others, making others angry, fighting with your husband and looking for a girlfriend, fighting such a friend bully the soft and afraid of the hard, don't need it, rely on others for charity every day, is it embarrassing.

I'm the one who doesn't like to socialize, I don't know how others are, but I'm currently three or two friends (really those are very iron), occasionally eating and chatting together, complaining about life, occasionally lonely, daily solitude, but this kind of life gives me enough time to do my own thing, I don't have to think about others (just don't deliberately think about those who socialize for the sake of socializing, not real friends), I don't have to cater to others, of course, this also gives up part of my entertainment life, But it also taught me to find happiness on my own (writing, fitness, studying, reading, playing games, you can also pull your friends to open the black). Finally, to paraphrase an old saying, low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude.

Those who can get along with themselves should have a good life, and those who don't like to socialize and are troubled by this are probably having a miserable life. The most important thing is not to get along with others, but to get along with yourself. In addition, not being social and not being good at social interaction are two different things.

Some people don't like to socialize, but in order to get something, they can pretend to be social. Some people want to socialize, but are not good at it, and always mess up. If you really think clearly that you belong to people who "don't like" socializing, you can generally reconcile with yourself in the end.

Either pretend to integrate into the social network and leave yourself some alone time after obtaining resources, or firmly reduce social interaction to give your mind more space and make your own trade-offs. I probably understand what you mean by socializing, fame, profit, care, and so on. Most of these things can actually be obtained by your own efforts, but the process may be a little more difficult than others.

Even if you can't get it, as long as you can adjust your mental balance, who says that there is no fun in the days of poverty.

First of all, humans are social animals, so the need to socialize is certain. Some people have been busy with their own affairs, they have their own ideas, and they have been putting their ideas into practice, so they don't have time to socialize. In the end, these people have a good chance of becoming good people.

Some people may have social phobia, and it is difficult for him to accept socializing with him, these people I think they are not born with a lack of social love, but it is related to his experience, that is, heart disease, how can you recognize more aspects of yourself if you don't get rid of heart disease, so, in the end, if this kind of person can't get out, it will become a person who doesn't fit in our eyes, I can only wish them to come out, I don't want to write about the consequences. People still need to live with positive energy.

There are many things that need someone to help you with, but it just so happens that this person is the kind of person you are "not interested in" and has no friendship, let alone asking someone to help you. So in most cases, I don't ask people for help. But if you have a lover, will you definitely help yourself with some innocuous little favors?

Well. No explanation. Social or not, lies in yourself, obviously it is so tiring to interact with others, why do you have to force yourself, in order to be happy in the future?

I think that happiness is the same as rice, so when you are hungry, will you buy rice and noodles because it is cheaper to buy them the day after tomorrow? It's impossible, I think it's as important to be happy as eating, and it's impossible to give up the feelings you have in the future. But if someone uses a special case to make a bar, such as studying painfully now, then I am happy if I don't study now, how can it be counted as more painful in the future?

Well, I have nothing to say. Learning a survival skill is a one's choice, and socializing is certainly included. I really can't socialize with people who aren't interested and pretend to be happy.

What I can do is to find people I am not interested in and share my interests, and cut into the exchanges. If not, I'm very sorry, we only talk about interests, not feelings. I'd rather be an exchange of interests than trade my feelings for anything.

The above is all my personal concept.

and my boyfriend are very social. It's not that I can't, it's that I don't want to. It's really going to be hidden here.

I can't stand my friends, and they happily ask me to go to various parties, but I'm really distressed. Because of this, we are all worried about the future wedding, we are not worried about the number of people coming, but worried that marriage is a happy thing, but many people get together to talk about things that we are not interested in, which will make us very unhappy. Although I didn't go any further, I basically decided that I would get married in the future and would not hold a wedding.

There will be wedding trips, we will invite three or five friends to dinner, and we will invite friends who occasionally pass by our city to have a small gathering at home. But there will be no special wedding. My husband is better, he is annoying, but he can pretend to be very happy socializing.

The premise is that he knows that this social interaction must pretend to be happy, and if it is not necessary, he still will not pretend to be happy. After all, ......It's stressful to make money. I am more self-conscious, casual, I will be very enthusiastic when I am interested, I will not hear if I am not interested, I really can't hear it, and selectively ignore it, that is, my ears hear it, but my brain chooses to pretend that I don't hear it, and I forget it in a few seconds.

How we are doing, purely from our own point of view, I am very happy. It's very comfortable to be surrounded by things that you like.

Social interaction refers to the communication between people in society, and it is the social activities of people who use certain ways (tools) to transmit information and exchange ideas in order to achieve a certain purpose. From the psychological analysis, people crave happiness, fulfillment and satisfaction, and social interaction can meet this need. Any person who is mentally sound and eager to progress will re-examine themselves and understand themselves in the midst of social failures.

If you suffer from failure too often, you will feel frustrated and doubt yourself. If you suffer a failure in social interaction and you are eager to change, but you don't have the ability, then you will look for a way, of course, the process of finding a way is difficult, you need to try again and again, and some methods may not make much progress if you try. But once such a person has withstood the polish of time and the experience of setbacks, and found a way, he will often become a god in the social world.

Ernest Hemingway famously said: Everyone has to suffer setbacks in the world, and many people grow the strongest where they are broken. People who don't like to socialize often don't really like to socialize, but have a fear of socializing, and the reason for the fear is because of their lack of confidence in themselves and the influence of many negative emotions.

These are very easy to treat.

I don't like to socialize, it's good to get together alone, out of sight and out of mind, classmates get together, fellow villagers get together, it's nothing more than that you mix well, she mixes badly, you have a luxury car, he doesn't, your children are successful, he doesn't, you have grandchildren he doesn't, you have money he doesn't have, you have a few houses he doesn't have, in short, it's a comparison, the good is proud, the bad is angry, there is really no need to participate. Have fun.

warning. This is a waste fish who doesn't like to socialize. I'm troublesome for socializing, so I basically raise mushrooms at home except for necessary circle contact.

It's just that I don't know what happened to those people who don't like social interactions, and I can't do anything with you and me in the end. However, even people who don't like to socialize are actually ordinary people, and the things they experience and the people they come into contact with will affect a person. The final appearance is also uncertain, with the body's internal metabolism, the self-renewal caused by the external environment is also changing from moment to moment.

Socially unsociable? It's just a label, and it's set up as a person, how it should be or what it is, and a condition can't find a result. Either die at home, or become very good.

I don't like to socialize. I don't have many friends, but I never have to think about interests when I have something. Warm and heartwarming.

Other people I don't know may be happy to have a lot of friends, but I prefer to leave effective time for important people, such as family, such as good friends, even alone is better than being lonely after a group of people. So there are few friends but warm, and I am content.

Some people enjoy being with friends, while others enjoy solitude. Those who come according to their own hearts will at least live calmly in the end, regardless of their achievements. But people who are used to being lonely go to socialize, and people who like to socialize go to Qinggao, and they will end up a little crazy.

I don't like to socialize. Encounter those who are not right. A person with a very bad heart. My heart is clogged.

He has achieved great success, some have become painters, writers, some have become engineers, accountants, and tax accountants.

Everyone has their own favorite way of life, how they feel comfortable and how to live, there is no right or wrong, and not interfering in the lives of others is the greatest cultivation of people!

It's nothing, it's still alive on this earth.

It's more comfortable to live with. Of course, online social gimmicks don't count!

I also like to be alone, but I can also adapt to group life, I can get along with people in the office, I can have group activities, I can eat and chat with relatives, I can do it, what if I don't like to socialize, I think it's good, not socializing doesn't mean disrespecting people.

I don't know what the criteria are for socializing and not socializing, most of the time I prefer to be alone, but I often have dinner and chat with three or five friends, but I don't like to go out shopping or even travel with them, probably because I am lazy and don't like sports.

The purpose of social interaction is "useful", and if it is "useless", who will spend that effort, so most people are in groups.

It doesn't matter how many friends you have, what matters is how many real friends you have? The ancients said well, it is enough to have a confidant in life...

I'm at home with my kids now.

How it should be, how free, how good.

No time to socialize.

At present, with high social pressure and a fast pace of life, overtime work has become the norm for many office workers, and many people are doing "996" work. When I came home from work, I was very tired both mentally and physically, and I really didn't have the energy to have social activities such as eating and singing with my colleagues and friends. Over time, many people will gradually form "habits" and become afraid of socializing, which is where social phobia arises.

Real social costs are high.

In addition to the convenience and speed of information transmission, the biggest advantage of online virtual social networking is that the cost of social interaction is low, that is, it saves money. All you need is a mobile phone and Wi-Fi, and you can chat with friends without any extra costs.

Real socialization is different, friends meet, have a meal, watch a movie, sing a song, have a coffee, ......All of this increases the cost of real socializing. Therefore, out of the consideration of becoming a thief, many people will choose virtual social instead of real social networking.

03: The need for self-protection.

For many post-90s and post-00s, it is too difficult to meet a new friend, and it takes a long time to get along with each other before they can confirm that the other party really has the same interests as themselves and has no malice towards themselves, so that they dare to open their hearts and truly accept each other as their friends.

Low-quality social is not as good as high-quality solitude, now the society has been difficult to find the kind of mutual ditch sincere friends, sometimes solitude to their own spiritual comfort is often better than socializing, because now many people prefer their own world, social pressure, has made everyone do not love to socialize away from Chunjing social, so many people now hold that socialization is an indifferent complicated program, rather than trying to integrate others, it is better to concentrate on creating their own world, after all, human beings do need to live in groups in society, But psychologically there is no grouping, it is really difficult and possible for people who really understand themselves to exist, after all, their parents sometimes find it difficult to understand themselves, and it is not excluded that there is a gap between the times, so only they understand themselves, and it is the best way to solve problems alone at this time.

Contemporary young people are reluctant to take the initiative to socialize for the following reasons.

1.Abandon unnecessary low-quality communication, believing that many new relationships are unnutrient and shallow before they are counted.

hierarchical. A lot of socializing and communicating will only be in vain, adding to your own mental stress.

2.Active socialization requires a lack of time-consuming questions and money, and life is currently stressful. Young people are also less willing to do too much social activity. Now in the information age.

Information changes so quickly that most of people's social activities are not too distracted.

3.And if you don't want to go, there is not much need to pursue low-quality social activities.

Thank you Wang!

A large part of it is because of Cong Zi's social interaction now, he pays more and more attention to the handling of interpersonal relationships, and it is becoming more and more complicated, not everyone wants to participate in the handling of this interpersonal relationship, because in the handling of interpersonal relationships, he consumes too much people's energy, and if he can't adjust this energy well, it will form a kind of internal friction, and even a heavy burden on his own psychology.

So now more and more young people will choose not to socialize, and even not take the initiative to socialize There are certain factors, because in this kind of impetuous atmosphere, a lot of social interaction will be particularly unnecessary, it is not like before, because of the current social it is more advocated is more than the style or more diversified of this form, not only face-to-face offline chat can also choose to chat online, so no matter what form of socialization, in fact, in the final analysis, one of the bottom layers is to emphasize socialization, It must take energy and energy to carry out or take care of the infiltration of this relationship, but if you don't take care of this relationship, it is actually easy to have a disconnection of the relationship because it is not taken care of or maintained.

Therefore, this kind of social interaction takes a lot of time or energy cost to operate, causing many young people to be tired of coping, so it is also a popular saying at the moment, that is, effective social interaction and ineffective socialization, the so-called ineffective social is the energy spent and a certain time cost, but a relationship can not be maintained or maintained, then this is ineffective socialization, and it is a waste of their energy and mental consumption, so many people may not take the initiative when choosing to socialize, which is also the reason. And the tiredness brought by social interaction is not the kind of physical form of tiredness, but the mental level of tiredness, sometimes even falling asleep or playing some other things, that is, hobbies, etc., this kind of divergent mental attention, etc., may not be able to adjust this kind of fatigue spirit, so many people will feel that social interaction is very tired.

Of course, on another level, the reason why social interaction is tiring is because it is very difficult for people to be aware of it when they control this scale, so they worry about how to think about maintaining this relationship, or how to carefully maintain this relationship, and Slemakher once mentioned that the maintenance of a human relationship requires cost and energy, so in this case, I will definitely feel tired.