Is the wife really someone else s good? Why are other people s wives good?

Because I have read Hu Yinmeng's autobiography "The Incredible Life", judging from the text alone, this is definitely a wise woman. But in her short marriage to Li Ao, there is a detail, Li Ao said that he couldn't imagine that a beautiful woman would be constipated one day, sitting on the toilet, and her face was flushed. Another time, Li Ao asked Hu Yinmeng to cook pork ribs, Hu Yinmeng took them out of the refrigerator directly and threw them into the water to boil, but was ridiculed by Li Ao for not knowing how to thaw them first.

The above story confirms the view that "the wife is really someone else's good" from the side, because everyone always has a good image in front of outsiders, well-dressed, and wise-minded. That's just one aspect of what we're seeing.

But people are multifaceted, and it is impossible for a person to understand everything and do everything very well.

When a woman is married home as a wife, her husband will definitely see her ** sleeping posture, cooking is not delicious, or she is not good at housework.

If you get along for a long time, you will see the ordinary side of a person. No matter how powerful a person is, when he takes off his armor, he is also an ordinary person. <>

At this time, when I went to see other women, I felt that the other party was very good. Because the other party showed the best state. Those images of chickens flying and dogs jumping only remain in their own homes.

Or even though we know the bad side of each other, we will also find it cute because it is different from the wife in the family after all. <>

We are always fantasizing about a good life, looking forward to a beautiful woman, ignoring that a person cannot be able to do everything, everything is good. Most of the women who stand alone outside will not do housework when they come home. A woman who keeps her family in order will have less energy in her career.

When you get along with your wife for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be some small frictions, small bumps, and the shortcomings of both parties will be slowly exposed.

What should I do if I get married and have nothing to say? Wives are all someone else's good? Is it true?

Because you see other people's wives are packaged in terms of dress and personality, and when you see your wife, she is the most authentic and simple, and no matter what shortcomings you can easily find, you will think that other people's wives are good! Actually, no, you have been with your wife for a long time, of course you know everything, including his good and his bad, you know everything, and you don't fully understand other women, of course you don't see his bad, so you think other people's wives are better than your own wives, and there is a gap between people, you are idle and your wife is not good, so if he compares you to Bill Gates, then what else do you have to say? Be a person to see the good side of others, not just when they make a little mistake and chatter, you should encourage her more, you should pay more attention to his details about you, sometimes you will inadvertently find some surprises.

Also, this can't be compared, don't keep comparing others, this will never be compared, if you have children, don't compare your children with other children, it hurts people's self-esteem.

And when others look at your wife. I think your wife is better than others. This is a psychology that has always been bad.

Do you dare to tell her in front of your wife? If you do, she'll die of grief. Since you don't think your wife is better than others, why are you still together?

It's better to go directly to someone else's wife. Right? In fact, people are like that.

There will always be an imbalance in the psyche. I'm obviously good enough. But I always feel that it is not enough.

At this time, your heart will become more and more greedy, and you will become more and more disgusted with your wife's badness. The wife is to love, not to compare with them, if you love it so much. Why don't you go find a young lady?

Have you ever thought about it, beautiful hands, they don't wash dishes, and they have beautiful faces. Most of them are supported by money. Good looking figure.

Most of them are piled up with time.,Gentle character.。 Most of them are hurt by their husbands, who are more talented than your wife. You may not be able to handle it.

Younger than your wife, you may not be able to accept her willfulness.

Why are other people's wives better? Are men like that?