Just broke up. Seek help. Just broke up, should I find one as soon as possible?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-04
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    How do you say this kind of thing, I think everybody is like that.

    To paraphrase a literary phrase, that is, when you have it, you don't know how to cherish it, and you regret it when you lose it.

    If you really love her and want to be nice to her, then you should be cheeky and chase her back.

    Unless you are not in love, true love is deep, otherwise I don't believe that she will not be impressed by you, time will tell.

    But if you feel guilty about her, then disperse, I don't think she can stand to be hurt by you again.

    In fact, one more thing to say, leaving you is not necessarily the best, and being with you is worth cherishing

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You men are like this, you don't cherish it when you're there, you still want it when you're gone, I think forget it, you won't be any better to her if you chase it back, it's just that you're used to her all the time, and suddenly it's gone, you're not used to it, let her go and let yourself go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Can you get it back just after a breakup? I just broke up, and I have to get back the love I missed, and I can't get it back.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It is difficult to give a definitive answer to this question. Because everyone's situation and feelings are different, you need to decide according to your own feelings and circumstances.

    For some people, it takes a period of precipitation after a breakup to adjust their emotional state and life state, and to move on from the feelings of loss and pain. During this time, they may self-reflect and examine the reasons for their failures, and make rational plans for their future lives and relationships.

    For others, they may want to find a new relationship as soon as possible to fill the void that was lost. This approach is also understandable, because everyone's pursuit and need for love and life are different.

    Whichever path you choose, you need to understand your emotional state and needs and follow what you really feel inside. At the same time, you also need to respect the feelings of yourself and others, and not cause too much harm and distress to yourself and others. The most important thing is that whenever you start a new relationship, you need to look at and deal with your emotional needs rationally, and don't make irrational decisions because you are ahead of the curve or follow the trend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Just broke up, you need to adjust your state, think about what you want, and then look for someone you like.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    1.Respect the other person: Whether it is the party who made the cliff breakup or the party who was broken up, you should respect the other person's decisions and feelings. If the other person has expressed their desire to end the relationship, we should respect their choice and not ask or force it back.

    2.Accept reality: It is very important for the party being broken up to accept reality.

    Although there will be psychological difficulties and pain, you need to learn to face and accept the fact of the breakup, and adjust your emotions and mentality as soon as possible. At the same time, don't resent each other, let go of grievances, and change your mentality.

    3.Find support: When you have a cliff-breaking breakup, you need to find support to ease your inner emotions. You can talk to relatives and friends, psychologists, clergy, etc., and reduce harm and stress through counseling and **.

    4.Reflect on yourself: No matter who has made a cliff breakup, you should calm down and reflect on your words and actions after the emotions are out of control. It's an opportunity for growth and introspection that can help us understand ourselves better, improve ourselves, and make better decisions.

    In short, although a cliff-like breakup will bring us some damage, we can learn and grow from it, adjust our mentality, find appropriate ways to solve the problem, and finally pick ourselves back together.

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