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Gold Course for Qualified Parents.
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Baby is going to school! At this moment, mom and dad are both happy and nervous. You can often see the scene of the baby crying and not letting the parents go at the entrance of the kindergarten, and the parents are distressed and overwhelmed.
Qi Yuanli, deputy chief physician of the Department of Psychology and Psychiatry of Guangdong Provincial People's Hospital, believes that parents can make some preparations before the baby enters the kindergarten to relieve the anxiety of the baby.
First, familiarize yourself with the environment in advance。Before the baby enters the kindergarten, parents can take the baby to the kindergarten to play, so that the baby is familiar with the environment in advance. Don't mention the matter of going to kindergarten first, let the baby play to his heart's content, and at the same time guide the baby to observe how the children in the kindergarten live happily.
Second, tell a story. Babies love to listen to stories, so parents can make up stories to tell the baby, so that the baby feels that the kindergarten is a place where many friends grow up happily together.
3. Play with children of the same age. At home, the baby is cared for by grandparents, parents, and this relationship is unequal, and the baby is more likely to be self-centered. Therefore, provide more opportunities for your baby to play with other children, not only by inviting other children to play at home, but also by taking your baby to other children's homes often.
Let the children play together by themselves, even if there is a dispute like grabbing toys, try to let the child learn to solve it by himself, parents can guide the baby, so that the baby can learn to share with others, and gradually experience the fun of playing with peers.
Fourth, learn the rules in advance. After entering the kindergarten, the baby will begin to live a group life, and for some naughty babies, it is also important to familiarize themselves with the rules of the kindergarten in advance. Mom and dad can first communicate with the teacher to understand some of the rules of the kindergarten, and then guide the baby to tell the baby what can and cannot be done.
After the above four steps, the baby is no longer a stranger to kindergarten. On the first day of school, the baby started crying again and refused to let Mom and Dad go. In fact, this is due to the fact that the baby spends most of the time with his parents and has an attachment to them, fearing that his parents will not come back if they are gone, which is the so-called "separation anxiety", so parents should not worry.
In this regard, Dr. Qi suggested that parents can let the baby make their own small gifts, such as paper cranes to give to other children, and make friends with other children, so that with the company of other children, the baby will happily go to kindergarten. When the baby comes home, you can ask them to tell the story that happened in the kindergarten, and encourage the baby more, saying things like "the baby is very brave" and "the baby is great", and communicate with the baby more.
I believe that through the efforts of Mom and Dad, the baby will be happy and happy to go to school!
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To let parents see the dynamics of the child's day in the kindergarten, please believe that the class teacher and the child, will perform great, please let the parents go, the child can grow better, the teacher and the parents to maintain more communication, so that the anxiety of parents will be relatively relieved.
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As a teacher, you can comfort parents like this, you don't have to worry so much, because we are now kindergarten conditions are very good in all aspects, and the baby will come to the kindergarten will be taken care of by all our kindergarten teachers, in life, the baby is completely reassuring to you, we take care of it very well, and our kindergarten teachers are also very strong, our teachers are also very caring, can learn in the baby's kindergarten life, give them the best education, Let them be very happy, very happy to grow up here, so you don't have to worry and anxiety so much, you can let the baby experience for a few days, see what kind of feeling we bring to the baby here, if the baby is very happy, you can let the baby continue in our kindergarten, only then you can know that what I said is indeed true, you say, can it? I believe that we must be the best, and will make you and your children happy and happy.
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