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The two of them, since graduating from college, have gone their separate ways, and then in recent years, there have been fewer contacts, after all, they are not in the same place, and it is normal to not contact often.
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Eight, that's eight, all eight of us are in the same city, just make an appointment to have a meal and go shopping or something, it's very happy, but fortunately we are in touch.
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Not a single one, it's all in the past.
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My best friend and I only keep in touch two or three times a year, and we have been inseparable in college for less than four years, sleeping on different floors of the same bed, and now we don't usually keep in touch.
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There is only one, because we are close friends and often play together, so we have a good relationship and will always be in touch, but we rarely see each other.
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A dormitory occasionally contacts, and if you have a better game, you can also contact it occasionally, and there is really no contact at all about anything else, and I guess I can't even call the name.
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We're all married and have children, and we basically don't contact each other, and even if we do, there's nothing to say, so it's better not to contact, I think that's good.
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There are only two or three college classmates who have contact with me, they are the most ironclad relationship, no one else is in touch, there is nothing to contact, I feel very sad, classmates, I don't even have contact.
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Just one, because we are in a city, we will often eat together, and no one else is in touch, in fact, there are not many friends, one is enough.
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There is really no one, and the six of us have had a good relationship for four years, but when we graduated, we were all strangers.
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After graduation, classmates will not contact each other. There is no set answer to this one. It depends on a number of factors.
Not all students will contact after graduating from college, and even students with good relationships will gradually stop contacting after graduation because of their busy things and so on. Sometimes you will feel that in the future work, life, etc., you will contact some universities, and you are not too familiar with them at all, but you are just a one-sided friend. The so-called classmates who can be in touch with in the rest of your life are just the ones who need to intersect in your work and life.
Everyone's life trajectory is different, the university is not like your junior high school and high school, it is located in a city or a province, and the university is friends from all over the world. As soon as you graduate from university, you will go your separate way, and some people are not necessarily engaged in the work of their own major, and college seems to be a temporary rest stop in life, and after a few years, they will continue to move forward in different directions from this starting point.
After graduating from college, there may be an annual reunion of the same key, and you will find that as the number of years increases, the number of class reunions will become smaller and smaller. And those who often gather are also people who mix up a world in their own careers and have the right to speak. And some people are like mediocre or bad mixes, almost never participate again, and will gradually leave this circle of classmates.
Just like those who organize class reunions now, they are usually the past class presidents, or the current leaders and the like.
In short, after graduating from university, will the students be in touch with each other again? The key depends on the circle of life you are in, there is no intersection, there is no common language, and even if you meet, there is nothing to say.
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Will be in touch with roommates.
There are three stages of college roommate contact:
Stage 1: Within one year of graduation, frequent longing period.
Within a year of graduating, everyone is faced with the ...... of finding a job and changing jobsTherefore, everyone communicates with each other more frequently, and the topic of communication is which job have you changed?How much do you earn?I often talk about the time I spent in college.
At that time, the class group was also very lively.,Of course, it was a QQ group at that time.,Almost every day in the group can reach thousands of messages.,Think about it at that time, it really feels like a long time.。 This is also the stage when everyone contacts most frequently after graduation.
The second stage: about five years after graduation, the emotional flat period. Blindness.
But in the group, everyone posted more about who got married and who gave birth to ......There are more ** problems such as marriage and childbirth, and less ** for college life. This stage is what I call the emotional lull, because many roommates are already reluctant to take the initiative to speak in the group. There are almost no messages in the group every day, and at most there are only two people chatting, about a dozen.
The third stage: about ten years after graduation, the period of nostalgia.
Around 10 years, a 10th anniversary party is usually held. Through this gathering, although the whole class did not gather, many members of the class came. When everyone got together, everyone stopped talking about work, but more about the college days and the interesting things that happened in the university.
Perhaps the reason why everyone has passed the year of establishment is that everyone misses and cherishes their school time more and cherishes their friendship with classmates more. Everyone feels that the friendships made during college are the real ones.
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Maintaining nuclear contact with your college classmates is a personal choice, and whether or not it is necessary depends on your values and needs for those relationships. There are a few things to consider:
1.Friendship and emotional support: Keeping in touch with your classmates allows you to maintain friendships and receive emotional support. Sharing each other's life experiences, growth, and challenges strengthens relationships and provides emotional support to each other.
2.Career and academic opportunities: Staying connected with your classmates may help with career and academic opportunities. They may become your career network, sharing employment opportunities, industry information, and expertise.
3.Social activities and memories: Keeping in touch with classmates can lead to some social activities and group memories. You can organise a party, a dinner together, or attend an alumni event together to reminisce about your time at university.
However, interpersonal relationships are a two-way street, requiring effort and shared interests from both parties. If you find that the connection with certain classmates is not deep or has no common topic, there is no need to grudge to maintain the connection. The most important thing is to keep in touch with those who are meaningful and important to you, rather than blindly reaching out to all your classmates.
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Summary. 1. This question is that everyone has a different answer, and it is not uniform, because some people have never even studied in college, so they don't have college classmates.
1, this question is that everyone has a different answer, and the field is not uniform, because some people have not even studied in college, so there are no college classmates.
2, then it can be seen from your question, well, in fact, the more this person grows up, the more troubled he becomes, that is to say, it is not that he is a college classmate or the best relationship with the classmate, but those who were in elementary school or even kindergarten in childhood are the classmates with the best relationship.
3, whenever in the dead of night, people will always recall when they were children, or carry to say that they will occasionally recall the small hair that grew up together when they were children, I was bright and carefree, although the clothes were not the best, but at that time they were indeed innocent, the most respectful and happy fastest.
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One of the saddest moments I had in college was the moment of separation after graduation. In particular, after studying and living together with my roommates for four years, we went to class together, went to self-study together, ate together, played sports together, and played together.
College is not as good as junior high school and high school, and at that time we will definitely know our classmates. We live in a group, work in a classroom every day, and come into contact with that group of people every day. And for such a long time, we will always know each other.
But knowing these people doesn't mean that we will get acquainted with them, everyone still has their own games. Because of the difference in personality, there is a deviation in ability. Therefore, introverts are often silently in the corner to be a quiet beautiful man.
For those who have a warm and cheerful personality, he may know all the people in the class, but there are only a few really good friends.
But when we get to college, it's different, because we only choose people who can play with them, and we don't even say hello to those who can't. Therefore, the relationship during college is a kind of spontaneous finding, and this kind of feeling will be more profound.
Some people may not even be able to name all the classmates in college, only know the ones in their dormitory and those who are more familiar with the class leaders, and they can't figure out who the others are.
Because college is not as close as in high school, there will be no special roll call, nor will there be a discussion of so-called knowledge points, but only those friends who have similar interests.
I haven't been in touch with my high school and junior high school classmates for a long, long time, I still have a lot of contact when I first went to college, and I will get together during the holidays, and then my classmates will get married and go to make a share of the money, and then I feel a little bit of a taste, I usually don't contact, as long as I contact you, I have something to ask you, all kinds of things, all kinds of trivial things, if you don't do it well, you will offend people immediately.
I have no contact with my ex, I don't have a current one, and I don't plan to look for it again, maybe I'm disappointed in men, and I think it's better not to look for it if there is no suitable one. >>>More
We hardly keep in touch during the winter and summer vacations, and I think we are just roommates living in the same house, not girlfriends.
Yes, because I still believe in breaking up peacefully, even if I can't be lovers, but because I'm too familiar, I'm still friends, and I'm all in this life.
I said that my boyfriend may be busy with work now, which caused him to not contact me for 20 days in a row, do you believe it, I think it's ridiculous to say it, I must not have taken it to heart.