Should such a child be forced to learn to swim?

Haha, I understand your psychology. In fact, you made a mistake by teaching by example and setting an example. How do you act as a role model as a parent, you do it yourself, you don't have to force him, he chooses for himself.

Some people are slow to open their minds, but it doesn't mean that this person is stupid. It's just that the thinking is different, the way and method of understanding the problem are different, and the channels are different. It's also called personality, always remember one thing:

Children are always right. If you want him to realize himself, especially if you teach him something, you can wake him up, and you can't keep talking about it. If you find a favorite sport and practice it desperately, it will invisibly drive him.

This type of child is mainly a lack of self-confidence, a steady grasp of things, and not easy to fail. If you force him like this, even if he fails, he will not learn a lesson, but blame it on external pressure. Some people open their minds late, others early.

Yours belongs to the former. Suggestion: You husband and wife should choose one exercise first, and don't put the blame on grandma.

The responsibility is yours, and so are the happiness and unhappiness.

Imagine if you were asked to do a job that you didn't want to do for a long time and you were pressured to do it. What will your mental state be like? Upstairs is right.

You don't have to swim to exercise your body and hone your will. I think you have to nurture his interest first. Interested him.

Let him do it himself. I'm not very good at expressing it. I'd like to tell me about how I learned to swim.

I didn't go to elementary school and started schooling. I didn't want to learn to swim at all. My father used to take me fishing.

Take me to the beach to play. I saw a lot of children playing in the water. And I can only play on the shore.

There is a little envy. Later, my father took me to the sea. Go fishing with his friend's fishing boat.

After going to the deep sea. See a lot of novelties. Suddenly, I wanted to learn how to swim.

Then my father tied me with a rope and threw me into the sea. It took a lot of time to learn. I think it would be better if he was interested and he wanted to learn on his own.

Your task should be to nurture his interest.

So, please try to give up for a while, and wait for your son's new school and new learning to get used to it before asking him to swim, which is counterproductive. As for what you said about your son's thinking about problems and things, he always thinks from a negative perspective, and likes to carry his own burden and put pressure on himself, it may be that when adults educate him, they invisibly tell him the bad side, he belongs to the sentimental type, it's okay, enlighten him more, take his son to do sports outdoors on holidays, adults also participate in it, and take him to the children's park ordeal camp to play.

Actually, I don't think you have to swim if you want to train your kids. Let's be honest. Even running is exercise.

If you go out for a run for half an hour every day, you can exercise and promote the father-child relationship, and if it is a long time, it can also exercise his will. That's just my opinion.

I think it depends, if you're in the city, it doesn't matter, but if you're in the countryside, you have to learn, because you can't control the water in the countryside, learn to play more games, and play insurance.

Yes, because swimming classes have professional instructors who can not only encourage children but also be able to teach swimming skills.

Yes, the swimming class is gradual, and you can slowly overcome the psychological problem of your child's fear of water.

Should let the child insist on learning to swim, for the physical fitness can be improved, my child has been learning to swim in Yue'er Bay for a year, and now there is a great improvement, the answer you can, I hope it will help you.

If the conditions allow, it is okay to learn, and it certainly does not hurt for the child to have one more skill, but this is all without affecting learning and resting.

Learning to swim is good for the body, but you can't ignore your child's thoughts, there are pros and cons.

When children reach a certain age, many parents will have the idea of wanting their children to learn to swim, after all, swimming can not only exercise their bodies in daily life, but also learn one more survival skill. However, the problem that some families will have is that their children will be afraid or even very resistant to learning to swim. At this time, some parents will ask, should their children insist on learning to swim?

What should I do if my child resists learning to swim?

First of all, when children learn to swim and are afraid or even resistant, parents should express their understanding in a timely manner, so that children feel that parents can empathize with them. Secondly, parents should ask their children why they are afraid of swimming and resist swimming, maybe something bad happened to the child in the process of learning to swim in the past, which left a psychological shadow, and parents need to fully communicate with their children. Finally, in the process of learning to swim, you can give them more encouragement and love, and accompany them more, and give them a sense of security, which will relieve anxiety.

If the child is very scared or very resistant in the process of learning to swim, parents can decide whether to stick to it according to the severity of the situation. Most of the time, it is normal and common for children to have fear, but if it is severe and persistent, then it is best for parents to listen to their children's inner wishes and not force their children.