After breaking up, your ex boyfriend still contacted herself, do you want to block it?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-08
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    His every move can easily affect you, which can only show that you still care about him, or that you still love him, as for how to deal with the relationship with him, whether to block or not, it just depends on how much you are willing to pay for this person you care about or love? There are not so many rights and wrongs in life, just how to choose your happiness will be a little more.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Ignoring him is the best way, and even to show that you are doing well, let him regret it, think of you when he is frustrated, if he has a new goal, he will definitely leave you behind, he is just lonely and tired, the more you ignore him, the more you seem to be less valuable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It depends on how you broke up, if you have no feelings for each other, and there are no other factors, if you have serious things to contact, it will be dark if you talk about it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If I am blocked by the other party, I will pull, and if you don't pull, I won't pull. can be friends, it's basically hopeless to get back together, are there really people fighting for a person to be able to fight against their three views these days? Change 3 views or not change your wife?

    Don't be funny, but ordinary friends can still do it, but they shouldn't be able to talk, but they don't black, they don't harass, and they say hello during the New Year's holidays, after all, the deal can't be done, but benevolence and righteousness are there.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    After a breakup, how terrible is it to be in contact with a dead person as if he were dead?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Breaking up is a difficult and solemn decision, and it will not be so dragging after separation, because since you choose to break up, you should clean it up, and both parties should heal their injuries as soon as possible and start a new life, otherwise, it will only prolong the pain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It depends on whether you want to get back together, and if you don't want to, delete it. After all, if you love, that person's dynamics will still affect your mood to some extent, and I don't want someone in my circle of friends to keep reminding me how painful it was during that time of falling out of love, and I want to start over. Saying that you respect your heart, I just want to hehe, life is so long, everything follows your heart, what do you have to live?

    Chicken broth is good, but it's not necessarily practical.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It must be deleted, because: I can't stand the person who used to love me the most to treat me as a chatter and one of the spare tires.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is necessary to black, move forward, stride forward, and move forward is an important philosophy that every living organism should learn, but in China, they forget to teach you, TV dramas, movies, songs, and keep hinting that a person who recalls the past and a person who misses the old is a good person, but they deliberately forgot to tell you that a person who strides forward .........is a capitalized, brave, happy person!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I must have loved you, but I also want to get rid of you in a hurry.

    It is really a normal phenomenon to be deleted and blocked after a breakup, but as the party who is blocked and deleted, you will start to panic and rack your brains to remember that you have done something wrong, which will cause the other party to block you.

    Because the method of blocking and deleting is aggressive, it means that the other party does not want to see any messages about you anymore, and at the same time, they also do not want you to see messages about him, so they want to cut off contact with you through the subjective way of blocking and deleting.

    From a psychological point of view, the shelf life of love is about three months, and after three months, it belongs to the burnout period.

    In the process of running-in, there will inevitably be a lot of quarrels, and the emotional foundation is not very solid, so during the run-in period, if you don't manage the relationship between you well, don't know how to communicate, don't know how to understand each other, and don't know how to empathize, then often the final outcome is to block and leave.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For many sisters, the question of whether to delete all contact information after breaking up is a tricky question, everyone has their own opinions, and there is no complete right or wrong. But what I want to say is that there are some situations where we don't need to delete the predecessor's, as for which ones, let's take a look!

    1. War breakup.

    Both parties once felt that the relationship had come to an end, but the state and mood between the two people were rational. Then delete the other party at this time, it is better to leave a friend and future contacts.

    If he is a leaker who is better than you in every way, even if you are not with him anymore, the kind of self-motivation and self-control in him can still affect your progress.

    In the same way, those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, if the other party is extremely scum, then it is not within the scope of our discussion of shouting.

    2. Breakup due to external causes.

    The reasons for this kind of breakup are basically due to the disagreement of the parents or the obstacles of the long-distance ideals of the two places.

    The breakup is just forced to fail, and the relationship between the two parties still exists, so don't delete the blocked ex in this situation. The reason for your breakup is not that you really don't love each other, but that you can't love each other for the time being.

    It is better to keep each other, after both parties have a certain economic foundation and living conditions, your future will become foreseeable when you will meet again, and your love will be more precious at that time.

    3. Emotional breakup.

    Emotional breakup, also known as emotional exhaustion breakup, is not that two people have no feelings, but both parties are not very good at communication and expression, or express their love too much, and do not think about each other's feelings to cause a breakup.

    In fact, you trust each other and rely on each other, but you are carried away by the current mood, and you must not be excited to delete the hall and rot him at this time, which will only deepen the estrangement and misunderstanding between you.

    Maybe you want to test your importance in the other person's heart through this way. But what the other party thought about was that both of them were like this, and they didn't know how to deal with the war, but used the breakup to consume my patience and trust.

    The result is often that one party chooses to compromise, but there is a negative mood and estrangement in the heart that is difficult to eliminate for a short time, even if you don't break up this time, it will become the fuse for the next breakup between you.

    In addition, if you break up, you also come out, and you like a new person, it is better to advocate or delete, don't let the previous person's miss evolve into the next miss, this is my responsibility, but also the respect for this "newcomer".

    The end of the relationship does not start with you deleting him, or he deleting you, but when you are sick and sad and he is indifferent, you send a message to find him, but he does not reply for several days, at this time you will find that there is just one more person in your list.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After all, you've had a relationship before. He won't be so ruthless and keep blacking you out. Even if the average person is blocked, but occasionally he will pull it out to see the other party's dynamics, if he really doesn't care, he may delete it, if he deletes, he is worried that he may never be able to add it, so in fact, deleting is more ruthless than blocking.

    He won't be so ruthless and keep blacking you out. Ordinary people even if they are blocked, but occasionally blind things will be pulled out to see the other party's dynamics, if he really doesn't care, he may delete it, if it is deleted, he is worried that it may never be added, so Chi Zhan is actually more ruthless than blacking.

    How long have you been breaking up with your ex?

    Teacher, I ask you a question, in your experience, after my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, he found me to get back together, I didn't agree to the fiber, and the relationship between ordinary friends ruined Lu Liquid for three months, and then I felt bored, so I asked me to talk about things, I deliberately postponed, and then he blocked me, may I ask the teacher in this case, will it be a lifetime.

    Judging from your description, I don't think he will block you for a lifetime, Chang Zhengyan is just angry and blacks you out, because your behavior may disappoint him, so he blacks you out in a angry situation, and he will secretly pull you out and watch your dynamics, because he is looking for you to get back together, which means that he still has you in his heart and still cares about you.

    On my side, there is nothing to be done with my brother and Qing in my envy, and it is impossible, I just feel that he is quite naïve to block me, and I don't have that to sell carefully, I don't contact him at all, he blocks me like this, I want to see if I can block it for a lifetime.

    He won't block him for a lifetime, he will secretly watch your dynamics.

    When he didn't block me, he had something to look for me, and it was not easy to make it, he saw that it was not good, and I was blocked, which was just right for me.

    It can be seen that you have no intention of getting back together, and he may also feel that there is no hope of getting back together, and he is angry and blacks you out.

    How long have you been apart?

    I don't have any ideas, I just feel that he is naïve, I don't bother him at all, there is no need to block me, he is so whole, I want to see if he can block me for a lifetime, pull me back, I have to beat him, I am really, I am on the same bar with him, he should be very impulsive and reckless when he blocked you at that time, he is angry.

    The day he pulled me back, I asked him not to make a sound, I didn't hit any of them, he couldn't live a lifetime, I could.

    Oh, he blocked it and pulled it out again, and it will be pulled out, not for long.

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