How did you meet your ex? Will you be in touch with your ex?

The first time I met him was when he transferred to our class in his junior year of high school, he wore a white T-shirt and shorts and a pair of yellow hole shoes, I didn't feel much about him at the time, I don't remember his name, I only know that he uses the same pencil case as me, he likes to eat three plus two, and he will also eat it for me after we get to know him.

The first time I saw him in the machine hall, I saw him handsome, and I went up to tease, and the next day I was absent from class and ran into him, and then I ...... on the third and fourth daysCrash into it every day. I went to eat after the machine together, every time I invited him, I listened to what he said, said where to go, said to eat whatever he wanted, he was very willing to get along with me, and then it was cold and he said that the dormitory heating was not enough so I took him home to live.

I drank with my friends and went to gastric lavage, and then I met my ex when I was in the hospital with gastric lavage and saline. After that, they slowly got together.

I remember the scene of the first day I met my ex. In the restaurant, he told his colleague at the time"This girl looks pretty nice"said his colleague"Yo you like it, don't you? "

My ex existed in my WeChat for a long time and found out that there were mutual friends, so I chatted twice, because they were close to each other, he liked to play games, and I liked it too, because of the common hobby came together, and then they have been together like this.

My ex was introduced to my mom because she wanted to help me improve her English, and she was the child of my mom's best friend. Saying we met when we were young, I don't even remember it. It's just that my mom didn't expect that.

I have a good memory. The first time we met was when he was called over by another colleague and glanced at me by the way, and my predecessor met for the first time in the hip-hop association, chatting against the wall.

Ex, the first time we met was in June, there was a heavy thunderstorm, we chatted for a long time in a fast food restaurant, the rain stopped going home, the sky was high and red, especially beautiful, and the heart was also very beautiful, almost every date between the two of us would rain throughout the summer.

My predecessor went to the UK for a high school summer camp, and the international students I met in the UK were together because of fate, and then ended again because they didn't have fate.

After the sports meeting, on the way out of the school gate, I looked back and wanted to find someone, but I didn't find it for a long time, I turned my head back in disappointment, lowered my head and prepared to walk, as if someone had just greeted me? Looking up, someone was really looking at me, 1 second, 2 seconds, 3 seconds"hello～"(It's because of the new classmates, so I don't know much about it), he said with a smile"You don't even say hello to me when you see me" "...Sorry, didn't recognize it"(Am I too upright, hahahaha) Then I chatted casually while walking, and then started chatting, and then we naturally broke up together.

When I came home for the New Year, I was invited to dinner. Then, he kept explicitly hinting that his family asked him to find a girlfriend this year and get married. After eating, pay the bill, grinding. So, my sister paid the bill, and then left, my ex, my first love, this person. I've finally become a scum all these years!

When I was in college, I rented a house with a few classmates, and he was the youngest of them, and he returned from Australia to see my classmates, and then I fell in love with each other at first sight in a state of oily and sleepy eyes just after I brushed the night. It has been entangled for exactly 14 years now, and it is estimated that it will take another year to have a final result.

I met at a friend's birthday at dinner, and he was sitting next to me at that time.

I met in the summer of 2017 when I got my driver's license.

If it were me, I wouldn't be in touch with my ex.

Once you break up, you will immediately delete QQ, WeChat and other ways that can be contacted. They all broke up, what are you still contacting, are you so short of friends? Since they all broke up, the dolls, bracelets, cups, etc. he once gave were all thrown away or given away.

As for the photos taken together, they were all deleted.

If you are determined to do something, you will stick to it. There is no meaning of nostalgia, life is always forward-looking, and the past is over. What are you doing when you still keep in touch? What should I do if I keep it? Is the lotus root broken?

As long as you can confirm this fact, don't think that you won't be sad if you break up. Since you are sad and sad, then you should shop, you should cry, you should cry, and you should do what you have to do. Life is too short, don't grieve yourself.

Just be brave and get through this stage. I'm a girl, but my answer is unbearable!

To me, it's either a lover or a stranger!

Once you and I were nong, but in the end we didn't get together, and then we got in touch, and it was impossible to be treated as friends emotionally, it must be a relationship closer than ordinary friends, that is, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, the boyfriend must always be vigilant, or the top of his head will be green!

In the same way, boys can't contact their exes either! It's my girlfriend.,Can't bear it.,Principle issues.,What else is there to contact if it's already divided.,Unless you still have feelings for your ex.,In this case,You read it yourself.,Can you accept this feeling?,Anyway, it's yourself who is sad in the end.,I'm saying.,You're a man.,You should know what a man thinks in his heart.......I'm a woman, as far as I'm concerned, I won't have any contact with my ex, and if I break up, I will break it off, whether I find the next one or not, it's a kind of respect for myself and the other party.

Of course, in the same way, I can't and can't accept that my boyfriend has any connection with his ex, I'm a very possessive person, maybe people will say it's not good, but I just won't change.

I don't have to contact my ex anymore because I've been hurt and I don't want to remember the painful past.

No, it won't. Because I have broken up, I have to forget my previous misfortune or happiness, I have to forget that I can't because the past has affected my current life or because I have broken up, I have to forget the previous misfortune or happiness, I can't because the past has affected my current life, or affect my pursuit of a better life.

It won't be contacted, and it will be broken cleanly.

Since there is no chance in this life, it is better to be okay with each other.

Reasons why you continue to contact your ex after a breakup:

1.Reluctant to throw away the past.

Although it's already an ex, it's also someone who once loved, but it's just that they're separated for various reasons, but Naikuan can't be together doesn't mean that there is no concern in my heart. Therefore, he will continue to contact his ex, break the connection, and be reluctant to break it completely, this kind of man is usually very nostalgic, it is difficult to get out of a relationship, and it is difficult to accept a relationship again. Even if you break up, you don't want your ex to disappear completely from your life.

I always want to recall the beauty of the two from time to time.

2.Possessiveness and responsibility.

Many men will have a strange Xiangsun possessiveness, feeling that she used to be his woman, so there will be a feeling that this is his thing, which will produce a sense of possessiveness and responsibility. There is a kind of man who is not sure if he is generous, but he will always help her when his ex needs help, which seems to be the sense of responsibility that he has been together and needs to help.

3.Eating in the bowl and looking into the pot.

Maybe he hasn't met a better one and likes more at the moment, so he will still contact his ex, give himself multiple opportunities to choose, and may continue to get along with his ex in the name of being friends. But this practice, when both of you are single, is blameless, but if one of the parties has a new relationship, this practice can cause a lot of harm to the new joiner.

4.Fetters. This is a special case, for example, if two people are divorced, but there are still children, because of the children, the two people will have an inevitable connection.

This is understandable. Although many women don't understand why he and his ex are still in contact, they will wonder if the other party wants to meet, we do not rule out this possibility, but the man is very direct, if he wants to get back together, he will naturally express something, otherwise it will just hang your appetite, so be sober. It's yours after all, it's yours, it's not what you have to do, it's not yours.

The ex will not be contacted again. The proposition of the instructer is conditional, for example, about children, work and other matters have to be contacted, not included in the internal balance to do potatoes, but about emotional nonsense things are no longer connected.

Ex is a sensitive topic that can cause problems in your current life in many cases. Whether it is to respect the current person and be responsible, or to reduce the troubles of life, it is not appropriate to contact the ex again.

There is nothing in the world, but when there are more people who do good things, there will be things. In the eyes of those who have a heart, it is inevitable that three people will become tigers, so it is not a good thing to have close contact with the ex. If you can do it, you can avoid it.

Under normal circumstances, it will not cause a lot of misunderstandings because of contact. It's still their own way, it's good to send a blessing in my heart, there is no need to have too many intersections, and when I get older, things have passed, and if there is really the possibility of being friends, it is okay to chat again.

Since you don't have a chance in this life, let's reduce contact as much as possible.

When you break up, it's best if both of you don't love each other. From now on, the years will be quiet! If you still love, the other person's life is good or bad is a kind of torture for you; If you don't love each other anymore, it's your business whether the other party is good or bad.

Breaking up and being broken up are both breakups, since you have broken up, it is best not to have any connection, the deeper the love, the more you have to break it off! Otherwise, it is still yourself who will be hurt in the end!

After every breakup, the degree of pain is directly proportional to one's own efforts, but time can really erase all traces, a month, two months, three months, a year, two years or even a few years, in the end, it is just an episode in life! Don't believe the nonsense that you can still be friends after breaking up, men say this, just hoping for an occasional concoction; The woman said this, but she hoped that one day she could reunite ....... The cleaner you break off with the past, the sooner you start over, and the more complete your life will be!

With the passage of time, one day the streets may meet again, but it is just a passing of strangers!

If you break up, don't slander each other, after all, you once loved each other, and don't break the connection, after all, you have broken up, so it's not good for anyone. You might as well treat him as if he were an old friend you haven't been in touch with for years. Occasionally, I think of nostalgia for the past, but I don't take the initiative to contact again, which is the most comfortable and beautiful.

Don't think about greeting each other when you get old, especially if you have a new partner, it is disrespectful to the current and can also cause trouble for the ex. The reason why the ex is called the ex is that it is already in the past tense, don't keep holding on to the past, you can't let go of it in your heart, you can't start a new life, you can't forget about him if you can't do it.

I think I should have a "four no" policy for my predecessor: no slander, no initiative, no rejection, and no ambiguity. The explanation is not to speak ill of your ex, not to take the initiative to contact your ex, not to refuse your ex's greetings, and not to have an affair with your ex.

Don't tear your face with your ex, don't get along with your old age, and don't get entangled with your ex, this is the best attitude towards your ex.

If my ex contacted me, I wouldn't have paid attention to him because there was no relationship between the two of us anymore.

Ignore it directly, since it's an ex, there's nothing to say, and it's more embarrassing to connect, as the so-called "good horses don't eat back grass", it's definitely not a good thing to find you, it's better to ignore it.

I would be open to my ex and tell him that there was no relationship between the two of us anymore, and that there was no need to contact me anymore and that I should not disturb my life.

Treat your ex with the normal psychology of an ordinary friend, after all, there is no emotion between two people, and there is no need to have too many distractions.

1.From an objective point of view, friends and ex-friends are their own business, and there is no obligation to get our approval or objection. Everyone has their own life trajectory and spike choices, and love is no exception.

Our friends are not our private property, and everyone has the right to choose their partner freely. Our friends will not change their decisions because of our opposition, but may be dissatisfied or alienated from us because of our opposition. Therefore, we should not impose our own ideas on others, but should respect their choices.

2.From a subjective point of view, we need to consider our emotions and positions. If we are deeply in love with our ex, it can be uncomfortable and painful to see our friend dating him.

In this case, we should go through a period of self-recovery and reflection, find our inner balance and accept that our ex is no longer our own. We should also understand our friends' thoughts and feelings, and if our friends really like our ex, we should not limit our feelings to the past, but should maintain mutual support and understanding with our friends.

3.On the other hand, if we no longer have feelings for our ex, and the previous breakup was also well thought out, then we can be more rational about the issue of our best friend's relationship with the ex. In this case, we should show our support and understanding for our friends so that they feel accepted and understood.

We should think that the relationship between friends is more important than that of past lovers, and we should be able to truly understand and support this decision. As for some people who might say, "I don't want to accept my best friend and ex because they're so familiar that I can't feel like I'm going to be able to replace them in each other's hearts." "This feeling is real and very common.