What should I do if my child is always lost in life and forgets about everything?

First of all, parents can remind their children at the beginning, and if this is still the case, then don't remind him anymore, so that he can realize his own fault, which will bring some criticism to himself.

I think you can ask your child to make a list before school every day, check it when they go to school, and if they lose one, then punish them.

Then you should let your child improve his memory, and he should have the habit of remembering things, and he can choose a memo.

Children are always lost and forgotten, should parents punish them?

1. Parents should punish their children appropriately so that they can learn a lesson.

Many children have the problem of losing everything, especially kindergarten children and a third-grade elementary school student, the younger the age, the more serious the problem. Some children often forget to bring school supplies such as notebooks and erasers when they go to school, and even forget their lunch bags ......Many parents will rush to send their children to school after discovering that they have something. In order not to affect the child's mood, I will also say some comforting words to the child, telling the child not to worry, with the presence of the mother, it will not affect your learning and eating.

This method does not serve any warning effect, and only by punishing the child when he loses something can the child learn a lesson and avoid making such mistakes in the future.

Second, we must pay attention to the method of punishing the child to avoid the child being harmed.

Punishment is not corporal punishment, and parents must distinguish clearly. Corporal punishment of children can have serious consequences for the young minds of children, as well as physical harm, and the relationship between children and parents will be alienated. To punish the child, you can do this, so that the child can experience the consequences of losing everything, and the goal will be achieved.

For example, if the child does not bring a notebook, parents should not rush to deliver it, let the child figure it out by himself, but when he is criticized by the teacher, he will firmly remember that he will definitely check his belongings before going out in the future.

3. When parents learn to let go, their children's self-care ability will be stronger, which is more effective than punishment.

The reason why children will lose everything is mainly because they have not developed a good habit, and parents need to train their children to complete it independently in terms of sorting out their own things. Because many times parents help them to organize their school supplies, it is not surprising that children do not worry about these things, and they are lost. Therefore, parents should start by cultivating their children's self-care ability and let them get rid of such bad habits.

Parents should not use punishment, but should work with their children to get rid of such problems, so that children can have good development.

I think this kind of behavior needs to be supervised and corrected by parents, and if you don't talk about it for a long time, bad habits will continue to be delayed, causing children to become more and more lawless.

You should punish and tell your child what the consequences will be if you do this, and what you should do in the future, so that your child will clearly know the disadvantages of telling your child.

The main reason for the child's disappointment is that he lacks a sense of organization and procedure in his mind, and his mind is chaotic.

Children lack a sense of organization and procedure, and it is useless to rely only on parental criticism and reminders. Parents should consciously help their children develop a sense of organization and procedure.

For example, when I write homework every day, do I write Chinese or math first? Why is this arranged? Is it based on difficulty, interest, or the amount of work?

That's the sense of program. Also, every day when I come home from school, do I read a book first and then write my homework, or do I watch TV for a while before I do my homework? Or write the math homework first and then finish the meal, etc., this is the program, the program is to pay attention to the order, after the formation of habits, the program will form a sense of program.

Another example is to let the child tidy up the room, tidy up the bed, desk, school bag, bookshelves, etc., what to pack up first and then what to pack, parents can guide, but do not forcibly intervene. After writing homework every day, pack up books, notebooks, stationery, pencils are sharpened, and whether the pen has enough ink, these let the children think and do it by themselves, form an organization, and gradually form a sense of organization.

After a child reads an essay (a narrative essay), parents and children discuss together what to write first and what to write later, which can not only improve the child's reading comprehension skills, but also develop the child's sense of organization.

It is worth noting that in the process of cultivating children's sense of organization and procedure, it is necessary to let children insist on it every day, and if the child forgets, parents can remind them in time to irreplace, and they can not fish for three days and dry nets for two days. Do it every day, do it every day, stick to it for five or six weeks, and you will see results.

Cultivating children's living habits is an important foundation for developing good study habits. Whether a child's study habits are good or not is closely related to his living habits. Some of our parents do not pay attention to the cultivation of living habits, and separate living habits from study habits, but in fact, the two are the same.

For example, if a child has developed a good habit of organizing toys since childhood, then it is easy for him to develop a good habit of organizing his schoolbag when he arrives at school; If a child has a regular life at home, then the child will adapt more quickly in school.

If the child has a habit of losing everything, or procrastinating, or has an irregular schedule, parents may need to find out the reason from themselves to see if the parents' living habits need to be changed.

If the child loses everything after taking it, it is necessary to educate him, preferably using verbal education and reward education, because if it is a scolding, the child may rebel.

Let the children pack up their things independently, or prepare their own learning materials, and parents should not interfere.

You can make a list to remind your child, in a place where your child can often see it, post a clear list for your child, write on the list of things to use every day, or post a list at the door of your home, and let your child think about whether he has brought everything with him before he goes out. Fix the position of the items, put the things in different categories, put the same kind of items in the same position and organize them, you can also buy some labeled boxes to put things, and put the corresponding things according to the instructions of the label.

The focus is on attractiveness

If there is no heartache or reluctance to lose something or something to lose, such a person will not have a prosperous life. A person who often loses things will usually think that this person is not good at managing items and is not good enough to manage space. However, if you look at it economically, I think that the people who lose their minds are due to habitual problems.

Of course, there is a monetary loss when you lose something, but we will not discuss this issue here. I believe that every item retains a memory, that is, the memory of the owner, and even if something is lost, if you have a memory point for the object, you will know where it is.

From a spiritual point of view, this feeling is called attraction. However, once the Silver Sakura people have too many things, their level of care and love for the objects will become weak, and they will not be able to activate their attraction.

Even if you lose things a lot, if you still feel the heartache of this miserable situation, there is no problem. It hurts because the items I once owned have left me. Without this feeling of heartache, the attraction between the object and oneself would not have worked.

When a person is accustomed to losing and has no feelings, all the things and money will also leave, and how to make himself rich will not be able to be used.

Many children will lose their things in the process of growing up, often can't find their own things, have a bad memory, and lack of organization in doing things. Children's loss may be caused by congenital personality factors, or it may be an acquired habit, usually in life because of the protection of parents too well, so habitually let parents help themselves to do things. I'm talking to you about any way to change the habit of being lost.

1. If you want to change the phenomenon of children doing their own thing, parents themselves must set an example. If parents usually do things at home, it is easy to affect their children. Sometimes some very inconspicuous habits in life may have a subtle impact on children, so parents must set an example when they are at home, and they must be orderly when placing things, and they must be put back in place after taking things, and don't always throw them away.

Many of the children's living habits are learned from their parents, so parents must set a good example for their children.

2. Cultivate children's sense of independence. Many parents always feel that their children are still young, and you can't do it independently. In fact, such an idea is not beneficial to the child, parents should gradually learn to let go, let the child do his own thing, do not always take care of all the child's housework.

Parents can help their children make a list and still do things according to the list, help children remember for a long time, and gradually improve their independence.

3. Let the child bear the consequences. When older children always have a problem, 324 is a problem, parents must let their children remember for a long time, and do not indulge their children's bad habits. And sometimes the child should be rewarded and punished appropriately, when the child has changed Mr. Zhang's problem, parents can reward the child, but if the child has not been able to change the bad habits, parents should also punish appropriately.

When the child has a problem, parents should give appropriate reminders, encourage the child, and help the child get rid of carelessness little by little.

We adults should not help the child to clean up these things, let the child clean up his own things, and let him bear the result when he loses everything. You can also always urge your child, who is always lost, and you can tell him not to do this, it is wrong to do so.

To tell the child not to lose three or four, otherwise the consequences will be particularly serious, you must be careful, every time you have to check carefully, you will have a great impact on you.

Research shows that such a young age can manage one's own things. Keep the room in order, and you will never lose children who have an organized life, have goals for learning, are planned, efficient, and generally do not have bad grades. On the contrary, children who have been lost for a long time have poor living habits and poor independence, which will also affect learning.

I forgot my homework today, and I don't know if my schoolbag is in ** tomorrow, are my grades good? It is normal for most children to lose something at a few years old and forget something.

At this age, children are largely self-centered. You can do whatever you want right away, and your attention is easily diverted. Mom and Dad said that they were going to take him out to play, but all he could think about was going out to play, and he didn't expect to clean up the things in front of him.

But parents hope that children will develop good habits, become independent as soon as possible, and manage themselves. Well, the first step is for the child to learn to manage his own things, toys, clothes, books, etc. It's not a day or two to develop good habits, but the benefits are for a lifetime.

Why are children always messy and can't manage their own things? There are too many things to cherish the financial ability of many families now, and they are also very fond of children, and they can only be full of toys if they want to meet many of their children's requirements. Needless to say, the commonly used gadgets such as pens and erasers are easy to throw away.

If it's missing or broken, parents generally don't pursue it, it's not expensive anyway, just buy it quickly. Just buy it quickly so as not to waste your child's study time. With such a casual attitude of parents, children will also feel that it is normal to lose things.

Young age, easy to distract. The younger the child's age, the shorter the attention span, and not only that, but it is also easy to be diverted. A minute ago, the child was holding a toy in his hand, and when he saw that his mother bought a lot of food and came back, he immediately threw the toy to his mother to find food, and then looked for a toy, and he didn't remember throwing it in ** at all.

Shifting one's attention from one thing to another, forgetting all about the past, it is also normal for the chaos to occur. 03.When many children go to kindergarten, basically parents help the children organize their school bags, and tell the children what is in the school bags when they go to school.

I think that as a parent, you should first control your emotions and not get angry casually. It can help the child remember where to put the things after use, and then find them to reason with the boring child well, and you can use some boxes or something for the child as storage, you can tell the child to put the toys in it if they don't play, and put the books in it without looking at them, etc. If he still loses something, then he can stop buying new ones, and let him know that there are things that he can buy new ones without a smile.