Why do many rural people look like enemies after divorce?

Getting married means honing the family on both sides. The combination of two families to form relatives is a kind of fate, and each one must run it very well. But after forming relatives, they did not pay so much attention, they did not agree with each other and quarreled, fought with each other in different ways, and finally moved towards divorce, and even became enemies.

Why is this happening? Cultural differences are the origin. In the past, Pan relatives paid attention to "the door is not the right household", in addition to economic ability, it mainly refers to the cultural and artistic levels.

2 families constitute relatives, the difference is in all aspects, some families have a thrifty style, good at diligence and thrift, some are good at accepting new things, love to socialize, some are good at doing business, etc., and some life customs are all different. Therefore, there should be a period of running-in time for relatives, and mutual respect should be guaranteed during the run-in period.

Marriage means a test of the relationship between husband and wife. It is not easy for a young couple to come together, they are all the existence of fate. Before getting married, I felt that the other party was appropriate, just like the creator kicked a dazzling pearl of goods.

After marriage, I feel that there are problems everywhere, I can't get used to it, and I must do it with mutual help and friendship, there are shortcomings, understand each other, and I can't tell the elderly in the family everything for no reason, but I can't grow up in my own family and show my camp everywhere, and it seems that the other party is weak and incompetent. If you don't cherish the people around you, don't go hand in hand, each blows its own trumpet, and sings its own tune, you can only move towards divorce.

Is it possible that someone wants to steal the fruit of the great harvest? Divorce is more common, and no one cares for it when it is clearly proposed to bring a baby, as if it is unchanged for the sake of re-marriage, and it is advisable to simply give it up. But when the child grows up, he has learned and has a job, and gradually the person he talks about is about to get married and start a family.

The other party tried every means to get close to the children who had been gone for more than 20 years, and asked the relationship to find the children's mobile phone numbers and immediately establish contact with the children. This is like a farmer planting land to obtain food crops, usually planting, fertilizing, watering, weeding can not see a contribution, to obtain food crops, is it possible to hold a bag of grain crops in his hand? Obviously unlikely.

Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of the family, and we must cherish them from the young heart.

Parents will consider the problem from the perspective of their own children, they will feel sorry for their children, and feel that it is because of the fault of the other party that the marriage fails, so they will blame each other and hate each other.

It may be that they are very close in life, and no matter what happens to the children, they will let the parents of the two families know, and in the end they will become enemies.

This is because there are many contradictions, and there are complaints about each other, which is why this happens.

Objectively speaking, in rural areas, there are very few divorces that end peacefully and easily. Basically, they are loud. Both families scolded each other.

After singing, it was time to go on stage. This is an animated scene. The end result is basically cruel words.

The battle sent Vai to the hospital, and the fierce battle passed directly to the bureau, and in life, basically old.

Why do rural couples become enemies after divorce, especially their parents?

In fact, there are very few people who become friends after divorce, whether in the city or in the countryside. It's just wishful thinking on the part of publishers who say they can support and help others after a divorce. The reasons for divorce are mostly that the husband and wife do not get along well, one party has cheating, there are problems between the husband and wife, and the end result of these reasons is an increase in the level of harm between the husband and wife, and the divorce will be linked to the problem of marital property, child custody and property.

For two people whose relationship has broken down, there is no friendship between husband and wife for a long time, and they are willing to swallow each other in front of their own interests.

First of all, from the point of view of interests, after the divorce, both husband and wife will meet to slander each other. They all want to belittle the UNS to someone else and then get back on their feet. As parents, they take good care of their children and want to build a good reputation for their children's future marriages.

So they look at each other like thorns in their eyes, and it's a matter of course that they become enemies.

In my personal opinion, if a couple cannot interfere and negotiate with each other after a divorce, it is better to die of old age and not communicate with each other. Don't be too money. As long as they can get a divorce quickly, it doesn't matter.

After the divorce, they are two people who do not fall into the same category. They don't need to be enemies, and of course they don't want to be friends, you go your way, I cross my Dumu Bridge, and there is no need to talk about Chen Guzi in the past. After all, it's a good thing to get married, get together, break up.

In my opinion, if you want to divorce a partner, the best thing to do is to completely ignore it, scold it, and in the past it was not just two people who felt ashamed and ashamed.

At this time, because rural couples generally live close to their mother-in-law's family and mother-in-law's family, and after divorce, there will be some unavoidable meetings or entanglements. It's a bit of a hurdle for each other.

This is because many people are very protective of their families, and after the divorce of the husband and wife, there must be an irresolvable conflict, so the two families will become enemies.

Because rural people are relatively conservative, if they can't get by, it's because of special circumstances such as domestic violence. This situation is relatively serious, resulting in a bad relationship between the two families.