I was very sad and sad to think of my deceased father in the first trimester

Mood in the first trimester is too important, severe depression can lead to miscarriage, as the saying goes, qi and blood stasis.

It is correct to think that fathers are filial sons and daughters. You can put incense on your father's relics or portraits, chat, and tell him that you are pregnant and have a new life. It is also a consolation to your father under the Nine Springs.

He must be the same, you and the child are healthy and safe. Don't go to the grave during pregnancy, good luck.

You can't be resurrected from the dead! Condolences! Try to think on the bright side!! Rest your body!

You can take a little medication now, plus psychological adjustment drugs, usually communicate with the people around you, do more positive things, participate in more group activities, listen more, exercise more, maintain a regular life, and combine work and rest.

Therefore, we still have to practice filial piety in time.

To practice filial piety in time is to understand that time is limited and precious. I always think that the future is long, I always think that there are often opportunities, but I don't want to, life is like a white horse, fleeting, and family affection can never be fully repaid.

If you are always busy with fame and fortune, and are busy with power and dignity, and neglect your parents and forget your relatives, you will really "want to raise your children but not your relatives". Heaven has only given us one fate.

If we can get along with our parents in a limited time and on precious days, we will not have too many regrets and pains.

To practice filial piety in time is to pay attention to every time and place in life. Filial piety to parents is not vigorous. A filial piety is just ordinary.

Many times, details that are simply inconsequential in the eyes of children can set off shocking waves in the hearts of parents.

Therefore, even if it is to help my mother brush chopsticks and wash the dishes, even if it is to beat my father's back and rub my shoulders, the elderly will have a great sense of satisfaction. A greeting, a small talk, a dinner, a trip.

As long as we have the heart, we can pass on our love to our parents everywhere and at all times.

To practice filial piety in a timely manner is to give forgiveness and understanding to parents. As children, it seems that they have had the experience of not forgiving and not understanding their parents. Parents may be poor, or ignorant, or selfish, or arrogant.

All of this can be a reason for resentment. However, if we think about it calmly, we can be kind to strangers who pass by, so why do we have to deal with our loved ones?

We can even turn our rivalry with the enemy who was once at odds with each other, so why do we have to hold on to the person who gave us life?

Parents are also ordinary people, people with shortcomings, even if they really have something to do with us, they still have to be different from others, right? After all, the body of a child is the doppelganger of the parents, which is innate and unquestionable.

Go to his grave more often, sweep his grave, talk to him, and at the same time, you should live up to his expectations and strive to grow into a talent.

The dead cannot be resurrected, the living have to move forward, and your father certainly does not want you to suffer because of him.

I always miss my deceased father, and my heart is very painful, and I can do something happy to numb myself.

I can understand your feelings, people can't be resurrected after death. If your father knew, he wouldn't want you to overthink your life and interfere with it.

Remember to divert your attention, devote yourself more to your studies and work, go out for a walk, climb mountains, and walk your dog often.

You have to think about life to look forward, you can't go on in pain, you have a lot of people around you who love you.

Then live a good life, often go to the places that my father likes, strive to be independent, and often go to my father's grave to sweep the grave.

You have to learn to accept the reality, enrich your life, and let yourself get out of the pain of losing your father as soon as possible.

Find more people to understand, enlighten yourself more to get out of this gray time, and learn to accept reality.

I think you should find something to distract yourself and visit him more often at his graveyard.

Don't be miserable, if your father knew, he would be very sad, so let him die with a smile on his face, and he doesn't need to worry too much.

In fact, everyone has this day, you don't have to be overly sad, after all, his loss is not caused by you, if you feel that you have not fulfilled your filial piety when he is alive, just treat your elderly mother well, give her both loves, you must know that after you get married, you have a significant other, you gradually enter your own world, you are the pillar of that world, you no longer need anyone, and your mother has lost the person who accompanied her to old age, she is the most pitiful.

It's already happened, no matter how sad you are, it's useless, if your own body collapses again, the old man's spirit underground will not rest in peace, after all, he wants you to live a happy life.

How so? In fact, no matter how much you say, it is redundant, and it will not solve any of your practical problems, in fact, you already know what you want to do, and you also said that you hope to change to a job that earns more money after the Chinese New Year.

I understand your eagerness to change the status quo, but some things are just that, and we have to be strong and patient to wait.

Believe me, everyone has to go through such a process, and for you, the death of your father is a big blow, but it is also an opportunity for you to be independent. People grow up in the face of adversity. All you have to do now is turn your grief into strength and turn your longing for your father into your own motivation to move forward.

Your mood reminds me that I want to be better to my father, be more filial, and should listen to him more and understand him more. Thank you!

I believe that you are strong, you still have healthy sisters to face with you, you will take care of them, I believe they will be very well-behaved, so you have to set a good example, live positively, face the things around you positively, this may be an important turning point in your life, and you will feel cool afterwards, so, come on! Remember your father's goodness, less regrets, what you have to do is to face the present, don't regret what you didn't do today! Come on!

There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. Who is not bumpy in life. Some people are unhappy in their childhood, and some people are unhappy in their youth, middle age or old age, and they all have to experience the pain of life and death, joys and sorrows.

If someone sees you as good, it means that you have a good place, don't refuse everything, do what you should do, it is difficult now, and it will be smooth in the future. The body comes first, the mind comes second, both are healthy and upward, and you have a bright future. Brothers, don't just see misfortune, there are people who are more unfortunate than us!

That misfortune, look, feels insurmountable. Think about it, what reason and time do we have to lament misfortune? If you should be sorrowful, you will be sorrowful, which means that you are very pleased; The past is gone, cherish the present, relax your mind, and move forward!!

Good luck!

You don't think too much and be optimistic.

Dot! The more you think about it, the greater the burden! If you are optimistic about the world, you will become different. Come to think of it, there's nothing you can't get over!!

He is saying that your father in heaven will not want you to continue like this, and he must want you to live a better life. You use his death to motivate yourself, you can't let him go like this, make some career in the future, and remember your father.

It is the law of nature that people cannot be resurrected after death. Human beings are emotional animals, and of course you will be painful when you think of your deceased father, because your father has gone to another world, so he has entrusted this burden to you, and you must bear it well, so that the deceased father can be comforted. You don't have to worry about not being able to cope with anything, you have to know that there is no end to it.

And your current pain is only temporary, and soon your pain will turn into emotion, and you must learn to cherish the people in front of you and cherish the things in front of you.

You should look away a little

You can't always dwell on sadness when you think about his past.

He is smiling at you, saying that he should be very happy in heaven now, and you yourself should be happy, so that your father in heaven can rest assured.

When you are particularly sad, you should pull a big smile at the sky, even if you are not happy now, but in heaven he must want to see you happy. After all, what parent doesn't want their children to be happy every day?

You've become 'the one who sticks to the door,' and you can't fall. We can't let anyone else suffer from this sadness.

The deceased is gone, and it is normal to miss your father who has been taken care of since childhood, especially if you feel that you are a little sorry for him, longing and guilt will always intertwine your heart, and sadness is sad, maybe it is because of this that your health has deteriorated. But is it right to believe that your father is gone, and you have other relatives? Then don't indulge in your sorrow anymore, as the saying goes, "the tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, the child wants to raise but the relatives are not there", since you also know that the deceased can not come back, why not cherish the people who are still in the world?

You know, they're just as sad as you are, right? Now you don't need to hide your sadness in your heart, the most important thing is to talk bravely, remember him with the people who love your father, and then live the next days together! I don't think there's anything wrong with missing your father?

It's disrespectful not to miss, and I hope you can find warmth when you miss, instead of feeling sad! Complete his will and cherish the people in front of you! Your father must have hoped so!

People will always return to dust, and your father just followed the way of heaven and went first. So, cheer up! Don't worry about not being able to afford it, but work hard to do it and do your best!

Bless you!

This is how people are reincarnated, and in your father's year, he also sent away his father, your grandfather, and life always has to go through this process. He's gone, and you're going to continue to live your life and nurture your next generation like your father, and that's how human beings go. So don't be sad, put your love for your father on your family and children, and love your family as your father loved you.

Come on! Everyone is like this, maybe when you miss your father, there are many people like you who miss his father, his mother, or other relatives in some corner, be brave, don't worry, be courageous.

You can't be resurrected from the dead!

The loss of a loved one is also inevitable.

After all, people's hearts are long, let alone their own relatives?

It's not easy for everyone to live in this world.

The joy of the living and the rest of the dead are the expectations of man from beginning to end.

Imagine if your father knew his beloved child.

Not happy in the world The new year is approaching and you are still immersed in infinite pain, do you think your father's spirit in heaven can be appeased?

You must remember that people live not only for their own better survival, but also to make those who love you and those you love happy.

You're healthy, someone will be happy, you're helpless, someone will be worried.

So for yourself, for the sake of those who give love, be strong, make yourself happy, and hurt is just a part of life, although it is an inevitable experience.

But not the end result of the pursuit.

You have to remember that an optimistic attitude tends to make things smooth.

I believe that when you are young, you have already realized that life is too short.

These are inexhaustible treasures in the future.

Motivates and sustains you.

Finally, express your thoughts about the deceased.

Dad, I love you - you are gone, but I want to live well for you! ”

Sometimes, we can't control our surroundings, just like we can't control the weather, we can't change other people's attitudes towards us, we can't choose when to do something.

But we can dress up when it's cold, change ourselves first when others are prejudiced against us, and do what we need to do when the time is right.

If your dad can see it, he definitely doesn't want you to be like this, and in the days without him, you should become more sensible than before, learn to take care of your mother, after all, she is the saddest thing, try to keep your life on a stable level, and don't let your mother have a psychological gap.

Also, there are elders in the family who have passed away, and immediate family members can't wear red for 1 year, can't post Spring Festival couplets for the New Year, can't set off firecrackers, because of age, maybe you don't know very well, I don't know very well, I suggest you find an older relative, ask it.

Condolences!

After looking at the landlord's situation, I realized that you were also 88 years old. Your father, who is 64 years old, should be a dragon just like you. If I'm not wrong.

Knowing the son is more than the father, it is not false at all. Father is always a mountain in our hearts, he is so great, no matter what profession he is engaged in, and no matter how difficult the material life he gives you, he is always working hard to earn money for a family and support the family. And now this heavy burden suddenly falls on your shoulders, no matter how heavy he is, how much you can't breathe, remember that you are your father's son, work hard to fight, instead of complaining or wandering here, choose a life goal, and work hard in that direction!

In addition, the landlord is also a northernerDare to ask if it's from Henan?