Why is there always a conflict between father and son? There are very few words, and they quarrel in

Updated on amusement 2024-08-13
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Fathers and sons often do not communicate with each other, and most of the problems such as father-son antagonism appear here, and the father has a lot of economic, housing and social pressures in the family, and when he is away from home for a long time, the son often does not see the father, and he becomes estranged from the father. And the father will not take the initiative to communicate with the children, so that the children themselves think that they have "grown up" and do not let the father care, but their thinking is immature after all, the father often does not consult with them and makes his own decision, and the children think that the father interferes with them, so they begin to be disgusted with the father, and the father does not take the initiative to communicate with the children, so the contradiction comes out.

    The education of the second mother also affects the relationship between father and son, the father is often away from home, the mother has an opinion of him, and the parents often quarrel with each other, and what they do not notice is that the child is next to them; The mother often spends time with her children, so she puts her opinion of her husband on the child, and the child gradually becomes strange, disgusted, and hated to the father.

    The complete antagonism between father and son is something we don't want to see, but it exists in most families.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Everyone changes, especially young people, who come into contact with the outside world and change their minds too quickly that the old people generally can't keep up with this rhythm.

    So your father and son may have a problem of ideological differences. There is no single pair of father-son or mother-daughter who can always be in harmony and have a spiritual connection, but there is a generation gap. But these can all be solved by ditching .

    and you also have a gap , just quarreling is a vicious communication , it will only deepen the misunderstanding . Therefore you should have a calm mind and a good communication . find an opportunity , you are a junior , you have to put down the unhappiness in your heart first , don't be angry no matter what your father says , and then when he finishes talking , you will tell him your ideas slowly , Only then will he be able to accept your thoughts.

    In short, you have to believe that your father's intention is for your good and that you love your father .

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    The quarrel between father and son has little to do with feng shui, but has something to do with the two of them. is the so-called incompatibility. For example, the zodiac sign is incompatible.

    Since ancient times, white horses have been afraid of green oxen, and those belonging to cattle and horses are incompatible. There are also eight characters and five elements, gold, wood, water, fire and earth, if your father's eight characters are your eight characters of jealousy, there will also be disagreements. There are a lot of issues involved.

    You can take a look at the eight characters and adjust it, after all, they are parents, and they can't just let it go because they don't agree with each other, and they often quarrel. Feng Shui is here to adjust the five elements, but I first need to know where the crux is.

    The way of expression and understanding of feelings between men and women is different, which is also one of the sources of contradictions between father and son, in getting along with mothers, it is more of a complementary role, because women usually play the role of care, it is easier for children to have a certain degree of attachment, for fathers are different, because, it is easy to form a power opposition between father and son, and the power here is not physical, but the opposition of concept and personality. When there is a conflict between each other's ideas, the son is easy for the father to suppress his own thoughts and cannot understand himself, and the father will think that the son is disobedient, does not respect himself, and despises his own rights, so that it is easy to produce confrontation and contradictions, so that the relationship between them is in a stalemate. At the same time, men have a lower ability to control their emotions, are prone to impulsiveness and lack of patience, and when they have opposing views, they are easy to lose patience and eventually form contradictions.

    My father was very good to me, I know. It's good that you understand this mentally, it's normal for there to be conflicts between fathers and sons, and it's easy for two generations to live together between old and new ideas. Your father and you have a bad temper, and you don't obey him, but do you think that although he has a bad temper, his heart is good, and there will be others in this world who always control you and care about you all the time?

    It should be that your father still sees you as a child and is not at ease with you, so he always cares about you, and you feel that you have grown up and don't need him to care so much. If possible, your father will take care of you in the future, you can follow him as much as possible, and try to avoid confrontation with him, you are both very hard-tempered, but that is not good, and it hurts the feelings of father and son, how boring, father will eventually grow old one day, to prove like your father that you have grown up, you can, first learn to deal with the conflict between your father and son, less confrontation with your father you will become more mature.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Why did you have a conflict with your father? This is a question that many people have, and many people have some established answers in their minds.

    But whether you already have the answer, or you still have doubts. You need to realize that your separation from your father is a natural part of life, both emotionally and physically.

    First of all, when you think back to your early years when you fought against your father and openly disobeyed orders or house rules, you will find that that kind of rebellion was precisely part of your self-growth. Although this process is painful for both parties, it is extremely important for your growth. As the sociologist Yanbosky put it:

    In the process, you are building your own identity, and you need to find your own way of seeing the world.

    Second, regardless of the social culture, men are more inclined not to express their emotions and feelings directly. They are more ego and more reserved. Whether this kind of reserved and unkind rhetoric is due to cultural shaping, the suppression of social norms, or some kind of internal value judgment, it becomes an obstacle to effective communication between father and son, and deepens the gap between the two.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The contradiction between father and son is getting bigger and bigger, and my solution is to have a good talk with my father, as a son, I should keep a low profile, and then bow my head, so that the two of them can have a common topic.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think if it gets bigger and bigger, maybe both sides need to talk calmly and resolve the conflict.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The conflict between father and son is getting bigger and bigger, and they have to sit down and talk together under the care of their mother. Whether you can get along well, whether you can give way to each other, it's up to your mother.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If the contradiction in charge is getting bigger and bigger, you can find your uncle and uncle to help solve it, after all, it is father and son, blood is thicker than water, and you can't become a big hatred because of a small contradiction.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think what is lacking in this kind of father-son relationship is communication, so I suggest that they should communicate well, talk about their inner problems, and then solve the problems according to the causes, so that fathers and sons can get along better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can ask your mother to help mediate in the middle, or the father and son can sit down for a drink and chat, and the knots will be unraveled.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think the root cause is the lack of communication, so the father and son can find an opportunity to sit down and talk calmly, exchange each other's ideas, and look at the problem from each other's point of view.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't live together, it's better to get together less and leave more, and if you have time, the whole family goes out to travel, which is also a way to resolve conflicts.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Father and son should find a suitable time to sit down and talk about their thoughts.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. In the eyes of the boy, a good father is like a gentleman, he has authority, but he is not superior; He was generous and kind, but by no means unprincipled; When you're serious, you're like a role model, and when you're playing, you're like a partner. In the process of educating his son, the father often considers himself a "man", with a fierce temper, and when the son makes a mistake, he has to beat and scold, even if he goes too far, there is always an excuse to excuse him.

    But many times, it is often counterproductive, when the son is young, he is angry and does not dare to say "endure humiliation", and when he is older, he will fight against his father; At this time, the father's heart is broken, and he will not understand why his son is so ignorant, he doesn't even have the least respect, and he sighs for the failure of education! Actually, the son is also a man, but he is growing from a boy to a man, and he also has a temperament. The potential of the strong temperament, the father and son are on the tip of the needle, and no one is a winner!

    In the eyes of the boy, a good father is like a gentleman, he has authority, but he is not superior; He was generous and kind, but by no means unprincipled; Shen Hu is like a role model when he is serious, and like a partner when he plays. In the process of educating his son, the father often considers himself a "man", with a hot temper, and when the son makes a mistake, he scolds the clan and scolds him, even if he goes too far, there is always an excuse to excuse him. But many times, it is often counterproductive, when the son is young, he is angry and does not dare to say "endure humiliation", and when he is older, he will fight against his father; At this time, the father's heart is broken, and he will not understand why his son is so ignorant, he doesn't even have the least respect, and he sighs for the failure of education!

    Actually, the son is also a man, but he is growing from a boy to a man, and he also has a temperament. The potential of the strong temperament, the father and son are on the tip of the needle, and no one is a winner! ­

    My son is an introvert and doesn't speak well to girls.

    It's normal, and it's growing up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, every father is very concerned and takes care of his children, because for fathers, children are their hearts, and every child can grow up healthy and happy under the care and care of their father.

    But we also know that many fathers, in order to better educate their children, they may be very strict with their children, and even often criticize their children.

    It may be possible for children to realize their mistakes at first, but after a long time, this will inevitably make children have some legislative hearts. So we see. Sometimes there are some opinions and differences between some children and their fathers, and even some conflicts arise.

    So this makes some people think that father and son are really natural enemies?

    Indeed, we see a small number of families. There is indeed a lot of conflict between fathers and children. Because many times fathers want to educate their children well.

    But there are children. They do not approve of the father's way of education, which leads to a lot of conflicts, even opinions and differences between the father and the child. In the end, the father and the child do not get along very happily.

    But this is the case, after all, it is a minority, because in most families, in fact, children can understand their fathers, and it is not easy to show up, because they know. The reason why I was able to grow up healthy and happy was because I was taken care of by my father. And every father is also very attentive to his children to care for and take care of their children, so that children can grow up healthy and happy.

    Therefore, there are many children who can understand the hardships of their fathers. They themselves will also be better able to understand and support, and their father will eventually be able to be with them and get along more harmoniously. So we do see that there are some fathers and sons, and when they are together, they have a lot of conflicts.

    It looks like an enemy.

    But in fact, we see more rounded fathers and sons, they are able to understand and support each other, it is on the basis of their mutual understanding and support, so that father and son can better understand each other, support each other, support each other, so that father and son can get along better together, and will also make the relationship between father and son deeper.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think the reason is that some people live their lives the way they hate the most.

    And human nature is to imitate, and sons will naturally resemble their fathers.

    At this time, there will be two people with similar advantages and similar defects. At this time, if the father wants his son to become a Chan-

    That's to hate each other.

    That's the first reason.

    The second reason is widowed education, the absence of the father, resulting in the child is either weak and incompetent, or poor spring burial without upbringing, and there is a serious consequence is X addiction, some surveys have shown that Internet addiction and the absence of the father have an almost absolute relationship. That's when my father came home

    Lao Tzu is tired and tired outside for you to eat and drink, and you are playing games at home!

    Of course, he himself must not be wrong at all, hehe.

    The third reason is social pressure.

    Today's children are particularly prone to depression.

    If you put a full gas basketball under a weight, it will**. But if the pressure force comes from all directions, it will not explode, but it will bear a huge internal pressure.

    If the stress suddenly disappears at this time, booom ......

    And the closest source of pressure to himself, the child must be the most disgusting, and Senna even hates it.

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