When I go home for a blind date during the Chinese New Year, do you say that I have a high success r

Updated on society 2024-08-01
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's best to have someone who is about the same as you. On the one hand, your conditions are okay, but in these days, women generally look at your family conditions, work or something first, so there is basically nothing to worry about. Second, for yourself, you are more concerned about your people than your material conditions, and you can talk about the two of you.

    Here are a few suggestions for you: first, be sincere; Second, find someone who is not too far away from yourself; Third, maintain self-confidence, be optimistic, and be open-minded.

    Give yourself some confidence and you will succeed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    To be honest, it's a bit ...... in terms of heightEverything else is good. Be confident in yourself, people who know how to appreciate will not give up a piece of jade because of a small flaw. Take it easy and go with a normal mind. Bless you with my good luck (*

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Let's go on a blind date, and think about it when you see it's okay!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It should be okay, there will always be girls who correspond to you one-to-one, don't worry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, you really don't need to worry about others looking down on you, as long as you are confident enough and sincerely go on a blind date. If there is you in this world, there is your other half waiting for you in this world. So, you don't have to worry about whether your him won't show up.

    Just like in this world, there are men and women who are the same. Your she's going to show up when it's time to show up, and it's probably just because the time hasn't come yet. What kind of man is there, what kind of woman will be waiting for you somewhere, maybe, your she is also worried about my him**, will anyone like it.

    So, don't worry about that. Do a good job of the current thing, be an excellent self, and be confident that a man will become more handsome, more cute, and more popular. So, be confident.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your conditions are not bad, you can find someone you like. But it is not excluded that some people only look at substances.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I want to say... It's okay for men to drink some alcohol, but most women don't like men to smoke, outgoing, humorous should be very popular with girls... That's it, I wish you a successful blind date!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A salary of 1,4-5k is not high, but you have already bought a 125-square-meter house, and if the house is in Shenzhen, it may not be based on salary income, or family support.

    2. It is not high, the weight is light, and the basic appearance has no characteristics.

    3. Self-confidence, temperament, and humor may be relatively well educated.

    4, from the third point of view, it shouldn't be difficult for you to find a girlfriend, why go back on a blind date. Is there something else?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because the Spring Festival blind date conforms to the right time, place and people. The Spring Festival is the most important festival of the year, family reunions, wandering lonely men and widows have returned home one after another, creating objective conditions for leaking relatives and relatives.

    The geographical advantage is to advocate internal digestion, and the fertilizer and water do not flow into the fields of outsiders, and even the old king next door can't bear it and take action. People and that is, the need to Kai Zen seeking, now the New Year in addition to eating, drinking, playing cards can not find any other entertainment, blind date greatly solves the lack of spiritual life during the Spring Festival. So blind date has become an indispensable activity for the Spring Festival!

    When you go home during the Spring Festival, how to deal with the "blind date war"?

    Blind date is every older single young person is facing the troubles, especially during the Spring Festival, visiting relatives and friends and holidays, whether it is urban or rural, blind date has become a big task for single dogs in the short term, it is reported that some people go on a blind date several times a day during the Spring Festival, it is really a headache, how to deal with the "blind date battle"? Blind date is just a form, a way to know the other half, everyone needs to be excessively resistant to blind dates, to be in a normal heart, to know and deal with every blind date, intentional to continue, unintentional to cut through the chaos. Don't do something too bizarre because your family is forcing you to go on a blind date.

    As long as we return to our hometown during the Spring Festival, we always have to deal with the following problems, those who have girlfriends will be urged to get married, those who have been married will be urged to have children, those who have children will be urged to have a second child, and the most unfortunate thing is that those who do not have girlfriends will be forced to go on a blind date. The blind date of the present and the past have changed a lot, it is not enough to have a sincere heart, the basic condition now is to have a house and a car, which is not only the most difficult condition for progress.

    As the saying goes, a newly graduated college student and a graduated junior high school student have a very low success rate, one is that the circle of communication is different, and the other is that the two are together, and it is difficult to have a common topic. If you were really urged to go on a blind date during the Spring Festival, then you might as well tell him that you have a boyfriend now, in fact, such a white lie not only soothes his heart, but also solves a lot of trouble for you. If you really can't push away his kindness, then you might as well go for a while, and it's not a good thing to go back to Sun Yin on a blind date and meet new friends.

    The main thing is that you have to keep your mood happy, and you can't spoil your good mood because of other people's things. Here's wishing everyone who is on a blind date can find a good relationship and become a pair as soon as possible?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why do you choose a blind date for the Spring Festival? It's nothing more than 3 points!

    The first point is that because both parties usually have no time at work, and some young men and women are working in different places, they can't find a suitable time to go on a blind date, so only when they go home during the Spring Festival, at this time, they have a lot of time, so they will choose to go on a blind date at this time.

    The second point is that the Spring Festival blind date has a high permeability power! Some friends will say that I brag! I'm going to tell you about it today! Actually, the reason is very simple!

    We all know that people have worked hard for a year, and they are tired for a year, and finally look forward to the Spring Festival, to be able to rest well, feel naturally comfortable, and have enough energy! Besides, every Spring Festival month, each company's welfare is much higher than before, which prompts boys to spend money to pursue girls, and girls are also willing to spend money to dress themselves.

    The third point, we can all understand, that is, on the order of the parents who slowly dismantled the spine, the appointment of the matchmaker, I am embarrassed to refuse! They will think in their hearts: Anyway, it's the Spring Festival holiday again, and the mood is good, and there is time, so let's go on a blind date!

    Finally, I would like to take this opportunity to wish my friends who are on a blind date during the Spring Festival to find their true love!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It doesn't matter if it's reliable to go home for the New Year, the key is whether the men and women are destined to meet thousands of miles away.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Anyway, being idle is idle, let's go back on a blind date if we have nothing to do, and play should be played.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Blind date is a very embarrassing, and I want to have a fresh experience, because if you go on a blind date, you actually wear it with expectations, maybe the object of the blind date is basically not what you want, but you may still want an expectation in your heart, and want to meet the person you really want.

    The seven most taboo things about blind dates.

    Hukou interrogation and blind date are all about understanding each other's information, but there must be a step-by-step process, and you can't ask all about your name, address, and work at the beginning, which is easy to cause disgust to others.

    Although we don't have to be too grand when we meet the blind date, we must also be clean and generous. Flip-flops, floral pants and other overly casual decorations are absolutely not suitable.

    Chat absent-mindedly Since you have come to meet the blind date, then you have to give the other party basic respect. When you meet, you observe and understand each other, and if you are absent-minded all the time, looking elsewhere or playing with your phone, then the impression score is greatly reduced.

    Too Restrained When meeting with a blind date, you can't be too enthusiastic about others, nor can you be too restrained. When you go on a blind date, what you want to understand and what you want to express must be said generously, and you must not cherish words like gold.

    If you are late and leave early for no reason, you can agree on a blind date, so you can arrive early and not be late, and you will not leave early if you can talk more. Of course, if there is really a compelling reason, it is okay to make it clear to the other party before leaving.

    If you don't take the initiative to find a topic, you want to leave a good impression on your blind date, so you should take the initiative to find a topic with the other party during the chat, and don't let the scene cool down. If you don't take the initiative to find a topic, it will inevitably make the other person think that you are not very interested in it.

    Can't rush to blind date is a step-by-step, slowly understand the process, a meeting does not mean to determine the relationship, nor does it mean that the two of you belong to the relationship that is about to get married. We must not rush to achieve results, otherwise it is easy to lose more than we gain. How to judge that the blind date is yellow WeChat chat, you are looking for a topic, and her reply is very short, or she simply does not reply.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I often see people asking what kind of experience is a blind date. Especially when they are younger, their families have begun to arrange various blind date activities. They hadn't been on a blind date before, so they were curious about what the blind date would be like.

    My first blind date was when I was 30 years old. They all say 30 and stand. This is not necessarily how successful your career is, but a watershed in your thinking.

    Around the age of 30, it really changes a lot. Before the age of 30, I never think about buying a house, buying a car, getting married, etc. But after the age of 30, you will start to feel anxious about your future life.

    When you're over 30, the people around you don't think you're young. At this time, you must face reality and family. Making money and getting married are topics that have been avoided.

    1. The first blind date, a nostalgic one.

    In the past two years, I have also gone on blind dates with more than 30 girls, but they all failed. If you're going to ask, which one is the one you regret the most.

    I will definitely tell you that it was the first girl to go on a blind date. At that time, I was 30 years old and she was 29 years old. We were both blind dates for the first time, and neither of us had much experience in love.

    It was a girl who was willing to find a partner to marry. Chats will be actively replied, appointments for dinner, watching movies, will come out together. It was also a pleasure to chat.

    I missed this girl, mainly because I failed to start a business at that time, my job was unstable, and I was not ready to get married. Half a year later, when I recovered, she was already married. Sometimes if you miss a moment, it's a lifetime.

    Second, most blind dates are like a cutscene.

    There are more than 30 girls on blind dates, but there are not many who are really willing to find a partner. Even fewer are willing to get married.

    Most blind dates are for a meal, a meeting, and then there is no follow-up. Some dislike the lack of appearance, some dislike the instability of the job, and some dislike the bad conditions. In short, there are various standards and requirements.

    Of course, many blind dates meet each other just because they are older, and they arrange to meet and get to know each other. Each other's personalities, hobbies, working environments, and so on are different. There are even some that are completely two types of people.

    It can only be said that when you have the opportunity, you will meet and get to know each other, and spread widely.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't have an official girlfriend, maybe you'll go on a blind date.

    This is a chance for yourself, but also a chance for others, if there is a more suitable one, it is also a happier marriage.

    Mine has caused a lot of heated discussions among friends, and the strangest thing about friends is that girlfriends are still formal and temporary?

    I didn't know what I thought at the time, but now that I think about it, maybe I saw the state of my friends around me falling in love, and I couldn't help but express my feelings.

    The relationship between boys and girls nowadays is particularly loose, clutched, gathered and scattered, and they don't care at all.

    Today, the two of them are still living together, sweetly and sweetly, if one party has undergone some changes, whether it is economic status or ideology, the two people will fall apart immediately, and the hole pants feel the relationship between men and women, most of them are temporary, and there is no formal boyfriend and girlfriend. It's all based on a need or loneliness, and two people walk together.

    Especially for many girls, there are countless boys or spare tires around them, which boy is needed? Will reach out. Or on holidays, they will send some invitations, receive some gifts, red envelopes, or go shopping, eat, buy a piece of clothing, and usually don't contact at all, just take what they need.

    I believe that many friends are surrounded by young boys and girls who are in this state, all looking for and looking for their other half, but they are always uneasy about what they have encountered, and they feel that they have not found their own home.

    So when I go home during the Spring Festival, in my hometown, if I can really meet a more suitable one, maybe it is the happiness that really belongs to me, not the kind of temporary improvisation, a momentary impulse, just to satisfy a moment of joy.

    After wandering for a long time, you should also find your own peaceful harbor and desire to be truly happy. For ordinary families, it is quite difficult for young men to find a partner, and if they ask for a little, they will basically become the leftovers, which is an indisputable fact.

    Whether it is a blind date or free love, I personally feel that it is still the right person, and it is quite important, so the probability of success will be much higher, and people at the same level will feel comfortable together, and their happiness will continue to improve. The more the source is at the level, that is another psychological level, and it is a matter of time before something goes wrong.

    If the relationship is to last, the key is to be at the same frequency. In the case of material stability, a high degree of spiritual consistency is the greatest source of happiness.

    With the surge of single young people, blind dates have become a social culture and an effective way to optimize the combination of resources. Here, I have to remind the majority of male compatriots that if there are more monks and less porridge, and if they are ambitious and talented, I am afraid that they will be singles for the rest of their lives, which is not impossible.

    The Spring Festival is a very good blind date node, where men and women return to the nest and families are reunited. At this time, blind date is more conducive to the link of love, after all, love needs to be face-to-face to be effectively transmitted.

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