What should be done to those who can t be loved, and what should be done to those who can t be loved

In life, the luckiest thing is that the person you like happens to like you, and the most unfortunate thing is that you like each other but can't be together.

This is the so-called love and can't. Love has to be irrelevant, at least you have met, and each other has existed in each other's hearts. Whether you can get it or not is another way of saying it.

If you want to open it a little, maybe you can't get it, so that he can become the eternal white moonlight in your heart. Just like what Eileen Chang said about white roses and red roses.

You can't have it both ways, and once you have it, maybe it won't be so good. Happiness is often accompanied by pain, if you are happy at the beginning, then with the passage of time, happiness will slowly become dull, and then add to the pain in life, firewood, rice, oil and salt.

If you can't get the so-called love from the beginning, then you will always remember in your heart, remember that what you can't get, the so-called what you can't get is always the best, you will always remember it in your heart, and you won't forget him. Because you feel that not getting it is a regret in your life, a regret that you will not be able to achieve in your life.

For such people, let it be, you can't force it too much.

The love between the two in this world is really rare and rare, and it can be said to be a swan song for the ages. If you love someone and others don't love you, the wisest thing to do is to bless him and hope that he has a happy and happy life. Because to love someone is to give him freedom, and I hope that he will live a better life.

I think the best way to get away from him is to get away from him. Leaving him first, you will not continue to be hurt, and you will not continue to dwell on your feelings, which is the best way for you and him.

In the face of people who can't be loved, you should know how to let go. Writer Yang Daxia believes that letting go is a kind of wisdom.

The solutions to those who cannot be loved include accepting reality and keeping a distance.

1. Accept reality

When you find that the person you love doesn't love you, the first thing to do is to accept this reality. Don't care how hard you try to pursue love, if the other person doesn't love you, then there will be no result between the two. Letting go of your fantasies and accepting this reality is the first step to get out of your love dilemma.

2. Keep your distance

When you realize that the person you love doesn't love you, the best way to do that is to keep your distance. Not only will this prevent your mood from being hurt more, but it will also allow you to think more about your emotions. In this process, you can find new love or focus on your career and hobbies.

The reason why you can't love is ruined:

1. The more expectations there are, the greater the disappointment.

Many times in the relationship, they have great expectations for each other, and they love each other without hesitation, but in the end they find that they love the wrong person, and ask each other in the name of love.

2. Too enthusiastic, no space.

Some people feel that two people who love each other have to stick together all the time, which is a sense of security for girls, but for boys, sometimes it will be an excuse for boredom, everyone has their own independent space, and the truth of moderation is understood, and there will be a period of boredom and a dull period in the relationship.

Between people, pay attention to the word "edge". Some people, you can't understand you if you say it, and some people, if you don't say anything, they can understand you.

People who are not on the same frequency, don't try to please. If you don't love you, don't hold on to it.

No one is worthy of you to be humbled and flattered in the dust, and it is not worth your grievances again and again. The person who needs you to go to great lengths to please is not worth your time wasting.

In this life, it is not long or short, the most important thing is to live for oneself, and the most fun thing is to satisfy oneself, not to please others.

So, stop always thinking about other people's feelings, taking into account other people's emotions, but ignoring yourself. Stop being wronged and suppressing yourself for anyone who is not worthy.

The best view of love: If you love me, I love you more, if you don't love me, I don't love you. People who don't love you, you don't have to be oblivious.

Zhang Xiaoxian said: A person's biggest shortcoming is not selfishness, amorousness, barbarism, and willfulness, but paranoid love for a person who does not love himself.

Many times, our most fatal thing is that we are reluctant and can't let go.

I can't bear a love that has long deteriorated, and I can't let go of an old person who has long been gone.

Perhaps, what you have been thinking about, the other party may have forgotten it cleanly, and what you are thinking about in your heart has no place for you in the other party's heart.

So Shengbi, don't be silently entangled in the dead of night, he will not love you if he hails and laughs, if he loves you, he will tell you that there is no one in his eyes, no matter how active you are, it will not help, and if you don't have you in your heart, no matter how enthusiastic you are, it will not help.

Life comes and goes, whether it is love or not, or it backfires, it is the normal state of life, just look away.

Some love, gone, just let it go, quit the drama without you, and everyone is fine. If you don't get a response, you should stop in moderation, and if you don't cherish your affection, please let it go!

If it's wishful thinking, it doesn't take long to relieve, just laugh it off. But being hurt by the love of the last love, and it is the deep hurt of the feelings, it takes a long time to get out of this shadow, at this time, you need to calmly face the beauty of the past, do intense sports, no matter what sports, you can vent to your heart's content, play ball, run, ride a bicycle, climb a mountain, etc., listen to exciting songs softly, and drive the dancing better; There is also one of the best, to travel, travel can allow you to contact more new people and new things, beautiful scenery of the mountains and rivers, will make you forgetful, out of the way.

If this love is really unattainable, what should we do in the face of pain, we should replace the method: there is no grass at the end of the world, do not hang yourself from a tree. Let yourself enter a new relationship, love can be **love.

Love but not, this is something that everyone will encounter, from a toy in childhood to a certain person in life, we are either happy in getting, or suffering in not being able to, this is life.

Shift your attention to your hobbies, give yourself something to do, have a sense of accomplishment, take up your free time, and avoid constantly evoking emotional pain because of emptiness.

Believe that time is the medicine that relieves all pain, it will help you to come out of the painful emotions, don't let yourself get entangled in pain, change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed.

Let go, let go and you will meet the better one, so that you can be happy.

There is only time to dilute everything, everything else is, saying that you don't want to, don't hurt, don't be sad, that's a lie, everything in the world is not your own, everyone is a small universe, do your best.

That experience is very painful, and at this time, you should let go of your inner attachment, and sometimes letting go is also a kind of love.

Instead of admiring the fish in the abyss, it is better to retreat and close the net. Turn grief into strength, use your energy to improve yourself and enrich yourself, there is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book.

Learn to let go, don't force it if it's not yours.

Maybe this is your life, it's better to let go of it earlier, it's not worth wasting your feelings on him.

Then let it go, the twisted melon is not sweet, and it may be better to find one that suits you better.

What is really suitable for you may be around, for love, there is no best, only the most suitable, when we fall into the pain of not being able to get it, we may ignore the person who already has and the most suitable person around us.

For life, acceptance is the best tenderness, whether it is to accept a person's appearance or accept a person's absence. I wish you the happiness that belongs to you.

Travel, you have seen and heard widely, maybe at this moment, you have slowly walked out of the labyrinth and gradually changed yourself.