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The feeling of not being able to love is like you have sent your first question on the subject, and there is no one who you always look at over and over again and still do not see a word, and there is no news. Anxious, anxious, irritable, crazy, always looking forward to getting a response sooner, this is the feeling of love.
Then you send the second question, and the third question gets a prompt response and a large number of responses, and slowly you get used to the feeling. There will be a lot of people who send your questions, and even a few popular ones, you happily share them with the people around you, and the more you talk, the more energetic you become, but if you are asked which question impresses you the most, it is probably your first question.
Because that feeling is so unforgettable, you have done so much foreshadowing.
I have carried out so much psychological construction, and I have mustered up the courage to walk into my own **.
But without a response, you will never forget the helplessness and pain at that time. You wonder if you shouldn't go down this path, and you wonder how long you can hold out.
Asking for it is one of the eight sufferings of life. Actually, what is unforgettable? Is it really that he who will be unforgettable?
What is unforgettable is that your love has not been reciprocated, in fact, the essence is that you have not been reciprocated, and when we realize that it is selfish to ask for a return after paying, is your love still so real and great?
We must not forget that because we did not compromise with ourselves, there are unwillingness, resentment, remorse, regret and ......All of this has nothing to do with the other party, all of them are self-centered extravagances and desires.
But unforgettable, you will eventually have to move on, turn what you encounter now into the past, put the past experience into your pocket, look back after a thousand sails, once you thought the sky was just the size of a well.
Don't deliberately forget, because that's your past; Don't get caught up in paranoia, because you have too long to live.
I am Yishun teacher who talks about emotion, a professional manager, a history teacher, a literature lover, a walker, and a tree hole
Interpret emotions from multiple angles, taste life from multiple windows, thank you for your attention!
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Don't go beyond the thunder pool? That must be the man you love but can't love, isn't there an ambiguous suspicion? I think that in life, it is better to live a quiet life, wouldn't your life be more stable, wouldn't it?
This phenomenon of not being able to love is more common in life, after all, excellent people like everyone. But there is only one who can win love in the end, and the rest can only be love.
As for whether they can be good friends or ordinary friends, they can't show it. It's reluctant to stay away from him, let it be, anyway, you know these things in your heart, and it won't hurt you to him, just take care of yourself. You just need to grasp a degree.
If you are in a unit, it will be better to be an ordinary friend, so as not to cause trouble.
To love someone does not necessarily mean to possess him. First of all, for a person who can't be loved, knowing that it can't be obtained, and still wanting to get along with him as a friend, it means that you still have a male and female affection for him, which is not suitable for you and others. You love someone, and you can silently pay for them.
You can also not disturb his life, watch him silently, and wish him happiness that he can live.
<> every relationship, even a crush, after many years, and secondly, he doesn't like you. For this situation, you have to understand that love is not the norm in life, people always have to encounter such moments, and you should learn to grow slowly. Maybe a few months, maybe a few years, and you'll find out that he's not as important as you think.
Naturally, they became ordinary friends. Maybe we will laugh and talk about the past, but now it is difficult to get rid of that pain and suffering.
Then give up! If there is no reason to come and go, ordinary friends don't need it! If you have to get in touch because of work, then quickly adjust your mentality and be an ordinary friend, but you have to get along with each other to a certain extent.
People must sometimes be cruel to themselves, especially their feelings, when they are constantly interrupted, they will suffer from their chaos.
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I once loved a girl very much and pursued her for five years, but I never got her love, I felt very painful, and I didn't know if I wanted to persevere. It is very hard to forget, because I have paid my heart and five years of youth.
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It is a very regrettable feeling that you can't love, and some people even feel that life has no meaning. The person we can't love is likely to affect our whole life and we won't be able to forget it until we get old.
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It's the same thing, you like it very much, but you can't get him, I think it should be very memorable for such a person! Probably remembered for a lifetime.
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Those who can't love are lovers.
When you meet someone who can't be loved, it's a love disaster. The red dust is vast, and the biggest regret is to fall in love with an impossible person, move the love that should not be moved, and lose the self that should not be lost. Some love may never be fate, but a catastrophe.
In fact, the best choice is to leave, because you can't see the beautiful result, you can't wait for the tenderness you want, and it's destined to be a wrong love.
There is a kind of love called letting go, there is a kind of love called distance, and there is a kind of love that cannot be called regret, which is called unwillingness, love but not forbidden, and forgetfulness. There is also a feeling called blessing, forgotten in the rivers and lakes, cherished by each other. Some things are destined to be powerless, and some love can only be born in the heart for eternity.
The relationship is black and white, either love is parting, and the end of each world is the best ending.
Loving but not being able to change the cultivation is a regret, on the contrary, getting but not loving is also a kind of torture. Therefore, don't wronged yourself, don't force the other party, and if you make compromises, you will only lose yourself. There is no one in this world who cannot live.
First for a living, then for love, without love tortures the soul. So, make yourself strong, and people who like you will naturally be attracted to you.
A good relationship begins with the heartbeat, and is set to accompany each other, which can go on for a long time, and the real love is a kind of happiness.
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Love but not be. You love him very much. But I just can't get it.
It's like a fruit you want to eat. I can't eat it.
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In every relationship, there are encounters and misses, and there are joys and pains, which is the norm of love.
Some people will be very calm in the face of missing out, they know that the past cannot be traced, since they have missed it, even if they force it, they will not let the other party return to your side, so forget it, let this relationship get together and disperse.
And some people don't think like this, they will always be entangled in the past relationship, the person in the past, they will think about redemption, thinking that the two of them will be together again, even if there is little hope, they are willing to try their best.
There's nothing wrong with trying to strive for your own happiness, but it's because you haven't confessed yet, or you know that the other person has a crush on you, and if you know that the other person doesn't like you, or has already rejected you, and you continue to dwell on you, it's your fault.
Since you are not destined to be a person, let each other go, and don't look back to him again and again, there is no point.
At the beginning of love, everyone wants to be able to stay together, but there will always be some people who miss each other for some reason, no matter what the reason is that you separate, don't look back.
Maybe you're forced to separate, maybe you're still in love, but since you've missed it, you have to accept that fact and live your life at the same time.
If you miss love, don't think about starting over, and if you miss it, don't look back.
There is no if in life, missing is missing, no matter how hard you try, you can't go back to the past, even if you start all over again, it may still be like this, so don't worry about it.
Some results are doomed, some regrets are inevitable, as long as you love each other well, it is better to separate well, don't let each other resent each other.
If God destined you to be together, then your fate will not be broken, but if God wants you to separate, then you must not force it anymore.
Don't love someone who missed, since you missed it, it means that you have no chance with each other, since you missed it, let yourself go.
For past feelings, you can recall, you can miss, but you don't have to look back, some feelings are enough to have once in a lifetime, there is no need to start all over again.
Those who missed, don't look back, the love you missed, don't regret it, no one can say anything about feelings, only love well when you love, even if you miss it in the end, then there is no regret.
Probably experienced a lot of things with a person, loved, hated, and hurt, but in the end found that he had no qualifications, no identity, and cared about him again. It's like the saying on the Internet: I have 100 reasons to want to see you, but none of them can see your identity. >>>More
It is a heart-wrenching feeling to love deeply, and it seems that my heart has been hurt a lot, because it is not easy to fall in love with someone, but the person who loves can't get her. I was deeply traumatized, I didn't know what I should do to be with the person I liked, and I felt that life had become very confused.
He doesn't feel that way for you, what's the point of your insistence alone, in exchange for nothing but pain, you should let go and don't get into the quagmire again.
I think it's very distressing to not be able to love, because it's very painful for someone you like very much to not get from her heart. If you like someone, you should express it bravely, and he doesn't like you, we should let go in time, don't chase and beat others, maybe the two of you are really not suitable for being together, and you should think about the problem from each other's point of view. >>>More
Then I don't love it, it's just that you don't get it and you're unwilling, and it's good to figure it out! Many times people can't tell whether they are in love or possession, and they want to understand that everything is fine! It's not yours to ask forcibly!