Husband and wife have no feelings, just to take care of children, do you recommend divorce, so tangl

There is never a standard answer to marriage, and only you know whether it is suitable or not.

No one will advise you to divorce, as the saying goes, it is better to demolish ten temples than to break up one marriage.

Emotionally speaking, if the two are indeed unable to get together anymore, and they are reluctantly together in form, it is unfair to themselves and each other, and they will only increase the pain of both parties;

In terms of responsibility, after all, there are children, divorce, the biggest impact is still children, you don't see, now most problem teenagers are caused by family reasons.

Therefore, whether to divorce or not, be cautious.

If the parents quarrel every day, the relationship is not good, and the children will also be affected, I grew up in such a family, in fact, I want my parents to be happy. Even if they're not together, I feel like my parents are not divorced because I'm not divorced, but everyone is unhappy. I would resent my own birth, I had low self-esteem, and sometimes I would think that if it wasn't for me, my parents wouldn't have quarreled.

You should communicate well with your husband, how can you get married and have children without feelings? Is it your own heart that is running away from something? Of course, it would be best if you could not get a divorce.

If they are not happy together, the children will also be affected. In fact, the child is very sensible and will understand you.

If you choose not to divorce for the sake of your children, and the family is in fact broken up, and the children know this, it is inevitable that the children may have a shadow over it, and they will feel more stressed as they get older. This kind of depression can make children bear the burdens of life, affect their healthy development, and affect their ability to correctly judge love and marriage.

In particular, if the husband and wife quarrel for a long time or one party suffers domestic violence for a long time, this family environment will have a bad impact on the children, and being in this family environment for a long time is easy to have a bad impact on the concept of the child's growth, so divorce is actually more conducive to the growth of the child.

There is no happiness for two people to be together, there is no need to continue to drag together, it is better to separate and find a better life, and the practice of not divorcing for children is not only self-deception, but also a blasphemy of love and marriage. At the same time, after the divorce, the custody of the children should be well distributed, which is beneficial to both parents and children.

It depends on your family and financial situation, if you usually quarrel often, then compared to divorce, I think this will give the child a bigger shadow, emotional problems, two people can first face to face together to discuss their own plans and ideas, as well as children and parenting and education issues, and then make a decision after solving it clearly.

If the couple has no relationship and is only for the sake of the child, it is recommended that you wait until the child is sensible or goes to college before divorcing, otherwise it will have a great impact on the child.

Starting point: love is the beginning of love, when the two people who meet have a good impression of each other, when that layer of paper is pierced, a dialogue, two people choose to be together, thinking about each other to promise forever; When the time was ripe, the two chose to enter the palace of marriage and began a common journey......

End: After marriage, some people are happy, some people are worried, some people are complaining, some people are crying, ......I was wrong, the biggest mistake in this life is to marry you (marry you). The feelings faded, there were no words, and there were only the remaining remnants.

Nowadays, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and more and more people have had multiple marriages. This phenomenon not only indicates the instability of marriage, but also reflects that many people are not good at managing their marriages and choose to give up when they encounter problems in their marriages. But when there is a crisis in the marriage, when there is a rift in the relationship between the husband and wife, is there really only the option of divorce?

Maybe the relationship between the husband and wife was not bad at the beginning, but after living together for a long time, the contradictions gradually emerged, and the things that could promote the relationship between husband and wife in the past are now counterproductive. Marriage is like this, growing up in ups and downs, spending time in ditches and bumps, husband and wife are cooperating with each other to live, can't get by, pull a hand, can't come up, push it.

The divorce of parents is a particularly painful thing for children. The impact of parental divorce on a child varies greatly, depending on the intensity of the conflict between the parents, the child's personality, age and gender, etc. Some psychologists insist that divorce makes children vulnerable to stress and other psychological disorders.

At the same time, studies have shown that disharmony between parents before and after divorce has a greater impact on children than divorce itself.

Can a husband and wife divorce if they have no feelings and are only together for their children? It's so tangled. Since there is no emotion anymore, reluctantly being together will not bring much happiness to the child. I just hope that when you divorce, you will never leave any shadow on your children.

Think about the beauty of the beginning, think about the choice you made without hesitation, think about why the person who was so familiar at the beginning became a stranger who has no feelings now, the two people get along, and life is like repeating itself mechanically, unlike you and me when you first fell in love. In fact, love is like a rose, it needs some preservatives from time to time to keep it dazzling. If the husband and wife have not yet reached the point where they will not get along with each other, it is recommended that each other give each other a chance, regain the original beauty, add some preservatives to your relationship, no matter what the final result is, at least for each other to make efforts!

If there is really no affection and just accommodating each other, then separate, it is good for the children.

If there is no emotional foundation for marriage, it is equivalent to the house without beams.

Legal analysis: Couples who have no feelings and have children can get divorced. If a man and a woman in divorce proceedings request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1085:After divorce, where children are directly raised by one party, the other party shall bear part or all of the child support. The amount of the cost to be borne and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

The agreement or judgment provided for in the preceding paragraph does not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent in excess of the amount originally set forth in the agreement or judgment when necessary.

Article 1087:In the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

If there is no affection between husband and wife, is it better not to divorce for the sake of the children?

Hello, glad you with this question. The impact of divorce on children depends on the attitude of the parents, and the unhappy marriage of the parents will make the children bear the chrome mark of "single parent" forever, and this label will greatly affect the children's later life. If the husband and wife quarrel for a long time or one party has long-term domestic violence, etc., the divorce of both parties is actually more beneficial to the growth of the children; If the parents are divorced, remember to hide the child, it is better to explain the reason for the divorce to the child and promise to love him more and give the child a full sense of security.