Is there a good or a bad impact of divorce on the children

1. It will make children have shadows in their lives. In a happy family, the father loves the mother, and the child and the parents can live very happily, so such a family can give the child a good living environment. However, the divorce of parents will have a shadow in the child's life, and will make the child wonder why others have parents with them but they do not, which will leave a lot of bad impressions in the child's growth process, which is very detrimental to the child's future.

2. It will make the child insecure, and it should have thrived under the protection of the parents, if the parents divorce, then the sky that sheltered the child from the wind and rain will be gone, and the child will be particularly insecure. Therefore, as a parent, it is necessary to maintain a good family relationship, so that the child can live a better life, otherwise the child will be afraid of anything, insecure, and will become a very timid person.

3. It will make children withdrawn. If he lives in a divorced family, whether he follows his father or mother, he will lack a love in his heart. At this time, he will gradually become less talkative, his personality will become very withdrawn, and there will be some problems in the process of communicating with others, because he cannot be accompanied by his parents like other children.

Therefore, the child is often alone, which is very detrimental to his development.

First of all, although the law protects citizens' freedom of divorce, it does not mean that there are no restrictions on the freedom of divorce. In trial practice, it is necessary to protect the freedom of divorce and oppose rash divorce, the purpose of which is to require both parties to be cautious about the freedom of divorce, and it is inevitable that conflicts will arise between husband and wife, and both parties should cherish the feelings between husband and wife, and should be responsible for the family and society.

In other words, the questioner of this case should not file for divorce casually, but should treat his own life and handle family relations in a responsible attitude towards his family and children.

At the same time, there will be more or less about the impact of divorce on children. This should be determined according to the feelings of the husband and wife. If the relationship between the two parties has reached the point where they have to divorce, then do not kidnap the relationship because of the children.

Secondly, the parties must be clear that even if both parties are divorced, they cannot neglect the management and education of their children. According to article 36 of the Marriage Law, the relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the child remains the child of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the parent or the parent.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise and educate their children.

Article 37 stipulates that after divorce, the other party shall bear part or all of the necessary living expenses and education expenses for the children raised by one party, and the amount of the expenses and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties. If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment. An agreement or judgement concerning the maintenance and education of the child shall not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent, if necessary, in excess of the amount originally agreed upon in the agreement or judgment.

Article 38 stipulates that after divorce, the parent who does not directly raise the child has the right to visit the child, and the other parent has the obligation to assist. The method and time for exercising visitation rights are to be agreed upon by the parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment. Where a parent's visit to a child is detrimental to the child's physical and psychological health, the people's court is to suspend the right to visit in accordance with law; When the reason for the suspension disappears, the right to visit shall be restored.

Legal analysis: The impact of divorce on children depends on the attitude of parents, and the unhappy marriage of parents will make children bear the chrome mark of "single parent" forever, and this label will greatly affect the children's later life. If the husband and wife quarrel for a long time or one party has long-term domestic violence, etc., the divorce of both parties is actually more beneficial to the growth of the children; If the parents are divorced, remember to hide the child, it is better to explain the reason for the divorce to the child and promise to love him more and give the child a full sense of security.

Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

1. Lack of complete fatherly and maternal love.

Once the parents leave, the child cannot be accompanied by his parents all the time as before, and may have to choose one of them, or even live with his grandparents. In this way, the child is bound to grow up in an environment where there is either a lack of father's love or a lack of mother's love, and the lack of love is inevitable.

2. Character defects, interpersonal communication disorders.

Children who grow up in an environment that lacks the nourishment of the love of one parent generally have more or less character defects. Some are particularly extreme, some have a serious father-lover or mother-love complex, and some are introverted and unwilling to socialize, and these personalities often affect the child's life.

Third, both physical and mental health will be affected.

Leaving a complete family, a single father or mother will inevitably neglect to take care of their children when they are running for life, including daily care, as well as psychological communication and exchange; In the long run, it can cause indelible damage to a child's life.

4. Insecure, timid, sensitive, negative, and inferior. As a parent, don't divorce if you don't get divorced, because the children are very pitiful after the divorce.

If it is a family that quarrels and quarrels every day, the impact of divorce on the children is intentional, and if the divorce is due to special reasons for family happiness, the impact on the children is unfavorable, and it should depend on the situation!