The 3 hurdles in the life of husband and wife, which are the hurdles that have passed for a life

In the relationship between men and women, married life cannot be smooth sailing, and there will be many hardships and hardships. Just like Tang monks and teachers, if they don't go through nine hundred and eighty-one difficulties, how can they obtain scriptures and achieve positive results. If a man and a woman want to achieve positive results, they will also go through some hardships, and if they have passed, it will be considered a lifetime!

If you can't move forward, it will be a parting of ways, you go back to your Huaguo Mountain, and I will go back to my Gao Laozhuang. In particular, it is worth mentioning the following 3 hurdles, which are the biggest calamities in the life of husband and wife, once encountered, they need to be looked at rationally.

In the life of a man and a woman, the destructive and lethal effect of the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" on the marriage is immeasurable. It seems to be the problem and contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, but in fact, a very important person is involved, that is, the boy who is sandwiched between two people. If among the three, we can't rationally look at the problems and contradictions in the relationship, then no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, they will all die here.

Especially in terms of personality and temper, it will lead to damage to continuity, make each other unable to get along, and finally the relationship between husband and wife will be difficult to improve, which will lead to a lifetime of discomfort and darkness.

In the lives of men and women, the "seven-year itch" is an indescribable pain in the hearts of many couples. That is, two people don't love each other very much in the first place, and they still need not to be together. In other words, the relationship between the two people has obviously weakened, and they still need to maintain this relationship as husband and wife again.

In fact, many couples need to encounter such a link. Moreover, sometimes the situation is more cruel than everyone says, for example, two people look down on each other and hate each other.

All in all, when two people can't calm down, this "seven-year itch" will become very unattainable. Some people are likely to find reasons and courage to live with each other in their relationships. Others are missing all the beauty and zest of life.

All in all, it is a happy and happy one, and it is a lifelong couple. People who can't move forward are full of pain and devastation, some husbands and wives are still suffering, and some are already going their separate ways.

In the married life of a man and a woman, there is another fatal "hurdle", that is, money. Although husband and wife do not necessarily have to be rich and wealthy, at least the basic needs of life must be able to meet their needs. But once two people are politically embarrassed, it is easy to have emotional problems in their eyes.

The effect of money on feelings is brutal. Many people get divorced, either because they are poor. Without money, it will become more and more intertwined in many things.

Without money, the pressure of two people to cope with life will multiply.

When two people are scrambling for money, the relationship between those two people is bound to be affected. In fact, it depends on the relationship between the two people. Some husbands and wives work together to break off the gold, and some are husbands and wives who turn against each other, and after all, a catastrophe is coming.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the seven-year itch and the three hurdles of money, those who have passed will become quite happy couples for a lifetime, while those couples who can't get past are still suffering, while some have divorced.

Deception, betrayal, domestic violence, hurtful words, the run-in period of love, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, etc. are all difficulties in the life of husband and wife.