Which hurdles must be crossed between husband and wife, and when they have passed, they will grow ol

As long as husband and wife can overcome the hurdle of mutual trust and mutual respect, there is a good chance that they will be able to grow old.

First of all, there will definitely be a lot of quarrels between the husband and wife, and then there will be reflection on themselves after normal life, and at the same time there will be some crisis of trust, and there will be some family conflicts.

When you first get married, when the economy is more difficult, and when you really start living after having a child.

If the husband and wife have passed your three-year run-in period, passed the difficult period of giving birth to children, and passed the dull period of married life, then you can grow old in vain.

If the husband and wife do not solve anything, but tell themselves through others, they will still get along with some of the opposite sex outside, and the two people will also mention divorce at every turn, always want to escape when they encounter something, and they don't want to be responsible after having children, and they will definitely choose to separate in the end.

When you have children, whether the role change is smooth.

People are growing up, before they get married, they have always regarded themselves as children, and only after entering marriage do they begin to think about more realistic issues, and only after giving birth to children will they begin to accept their new identity, that is, their parents.

Couples who change roles smoothly will understand each other, take care of and educate their children together, and keep the family together. But the couples who did not change their roles so smoothly could only dislike each other, the children could not be taken care of well, and various conflicts appeared between the two parties, and in the end, the children became the last straw that broke the camel's back.

The first is that two people will choose to escape when there is a problem, and both people are unwilling to tolerate and understand each other, and often use cold and violent ways to solve problems, and two people will not give to each other, and at the same time will not respect each other.

When giving birth to children, whether the role change is smooth, whether the seven-year itch can keep the bottom line of marriage, when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are conflicted, whether the husband can resolve the crisis, when the career is frustrated, whether he can encourage and comfort and never give up, and when he is bedridden, whether he can accompany and take care of him.