What are the signs that marriage is in danger?

1. You don't want to be with the other person2, there is a man who is more attractive to you than him3, you become irritable and irritable4, and sex no longer makes you feel pleasurable.

1.A marriage that never quarrels

We can observe parents in real life, just like my parents often quarrel, but their marriage has been going on for decades. And there are couples in some marriages who seem to respect each other and never seem to have quarreled in life. But suddenly one day you find out that they are divorced.

Therefore, the marriages of quarrelsome couples can go further, while those marriages that never quarrel slowly fall apart. Marriages that never quarrel are getting more and more boring, so it's normal for these marriages that never quarrel to break down easily.

2. Divorce of relatives and friends

Children whose parents are divorced have more or less shadows and fears. Parents are the mirror of their children, and the way they approach marriage is a model for children to emulate. In fact, the study also found that couples who live happily ever after may also resent, doubt their marriage, or even divorce because of the divorce of relatives and friends.

We can give comfort to relatives and friends when they divorce, but remember that he is him and you are you; We can't control other people's feelings, but we really want to know and have faith. Because Huazhen marriage counselors believe that finding betrayal in someone else's marriage can also shake their trust in their partner. To avoid the domino argument effect, don't take someone else's marriage as a primary reference, the most important thing is that you and your partner can hold on to your happiness.

3.Communicate with old electronic devices

Move your mouth, move your fingers, QQ messages or letters, everything can be done. After all, who wants to face the same face all day, bother with saliva, and speak with a lot of nerves on their face? There are also people who say that they can communicate with electronic devices, disgusting love words, and scolding cruel words, and they can have fun with their fingers!

But what you seem to be enjoying now, after many years, may be that you are speechless and sad. With the help of electronic communication devices, the relationship between old classmates and old friends will get better and better, but the communication between husband and wife always destroys the relationship between husband and wife through some electronic devices. Let's take a direct look at the findings of the Oxford professor:

Partners who communicate frequently through electronic devices such as text messages, emails, social networks, etc., are less satisfied with the number of marriages. Because electronic devices cannot convey the feelings of both parties completely accurately, it is only in the face of communication and expression of feelings that the partner can miss each other more easily.

1. Never quarrel. A very common phenomenon: our parents quarrel every day, chickens fly and dogs jump, pointing to their noses and complaining, but the old couple has the strength to quarrel every day, and the more noisy they are, the more sticky they are, okay?

No fighting, no trouble, no husband and wife, it seems to be a true truth. is too respectful of each other, raising eyebrows, and talking about a model couple, but maybe they respect each other like "ice" and have no feelings.

2. Communicate with electronic devices.

Move your mouth and fingers.

Some people also say that using electronic devices to communicate, sensual love words, and scolding cruel words can all come at the snap of a finger, which is more enjoyable! But what you seem to be enjoying now, after many years, may be that you are speechless and sad.

Old classmates and old friends who communicate with the help of electronic communication equipment will get better and better, but for couples, this is not a problem! Often! No! Depend on! Table!

3. Opinions are always inconsistent.

He naturally likes to work against you. Whatever you say, it will be like putting a puff in him; Whatever you do, he feels that heaven is intolerable. It's not that enemies don't get together, this is!

When two people are together, as small as what to eat and what movies to watch, to whether or not to enroll their children in tutorial classes, and whose house to go back to during the Chinese New Year, will become the fuse of disputes. So, do you always have a veto attitude towards any opinions of your partner, always think that you are very correct and the other party is unreasonable.