No matter who you marry, is it actually a self cultivation?

I used to hear about who to marry and live with in marriage, but in fact, it was the same later. Refutations were also heard. It's really not about marrying anyone!

In fact, the truth of marriage is: who you marry and who you get along with is actually getting along with yourself. Many people are thinking about whether to marry love or marry someone else.

It's like when we were children, we grew up to be a big event, studying at Peking University or Tsinghua University, and now looking back, I feel that we were really naïve and ridiculous that year.

Whether it is Peking University or Tsinghua University, love is still suitable, they are indeed options that people can choose, but not everyone is qualified to choose. In marriage, many people believe that choice is important to a person. In fact, it is more important to manage a marriage, and it is the most important thing to be able to do a good job in yourself.

The truth of marriage: No matter who you marry, you actually get along with yourself, and no matter who you are with, it is actually self-cultivation. No matter whose wife it is, whose husband it is, you can't forget that it's you.

Most of the people who are often unhappy in life are people who are very concerned about external factors and the eyes of others. In marital relationships, people who are always not happy are often the ones who care too much about each other's feelings and cater to each other's feelings extremely.

Colleagues in the department were agitating for a dinner, so everyone readily agreed. Only Tintin showed an embarrassed expression. She said last night that her husband suddenly wanted to eat the lo mein she made.

I laughed at her as a slave to her husband, and considering that the department hadn't had dinner together for a long time, I recently persuaded her to join two new colleagues and have dinner together in the evening. Husband and wife get along day and night, can't you make lo mein tonight, can't you make it one day? Tintin nodded in agreement at the time, but at the moment when work was about to arrive, she changed her mind again, sent an apologetic red envelope in the crowd, and ran away.

Seeing her hurried back, my heart was inexplicably lost. I have known Tintin for a long time, she was not married when she first came to the company, she was full of energy, and she had endless words to say every day.

But she has completely changed from being a person after getting married two years ago, from what I used to like to my husband now, from what I wanted to do now what my husband wants. In addition, she often, often because of a casual remark from her husband, repeatedly asking us if one of her recent obesity or unintentional behaviors was inappropriate. Her husband came back late, and many terrible thoughts came to her mind.

To make matters worse, there was a time when she was considering whether to stop working for 5 years. The reason is that the wife of the husband's friend is a housewife.

Yes. I very much agree with this statement, because no matter who you marry, you need to adjust your mentality, and your own mentality will also affect the happiness of your marriage.

If you don't love anyone, then marrying someone is a self-cultivation, and if you really fall in love with someone, you won't think so.

Marriage is actually a practice, when you are old, you really know love, understand compassion, you can have a warm mood, in the wind and dust, forget those years of thoughts, just think about the good in front of you.