Do guys really think it s the same to marry anyone?

Boys really don't think it's the same to marry anyone, and I don't know how this became a point of view, in fact, boys still have their own views on each girl, so I'll talk about my personal thoughts below, just for your reference.

First of all, boys and girls are the same, boys also have their favorite girls, when they want to get married, they will also choose the person they love to marry, if they don't love the person, they won't get married at all, some people will say that they see a lot of men are looking for a girl they don't love to marry, then I can only say that you watch a little too much TV series, of course, this situation is not nothing, it is very likely that it is because of family factors or some factors that cause this problem.

The second is that there are some boys because of some of their own problems, which leads to difficulties in marriage, at this time because there is no way, so it is good to think that someone wants to marry themselves, and will not ask who the marriage partner is, at this time the boy will indeed feel that it is the same to marry anyone, but this is also because of force majeure.

Personally, I think that if this man can have a choice, he will definitely choose the person he likes or loves to marry.

Finally, there are some people whose families are more special, they will require or force boys to get married according to the family's arrangement, such a marriage is arranged by the family, and will not resist, but I believe that after this kind of marriage, the husband and wife are not living a good life with each other, but also playing their own games, so it is actually the same for such a boy to marry whom, because this is just a task, but it is undeniable that men will still have their own favorite people.

So in the end, boys are not married to anyone the same, of course, this is a normal situation, so don't misunderstand boys, boys also have feelings, and they can only pretend to be the favorite person in their hearts, for others, many boys will not choose girls they don't know, because they are not boys' favorites.

Can marrying Fan Bingbing be the same as marrying Sister Feng? If this all feels the same, then he shouldn't be a man. So after proving that "it must be different", let me break it down and elaborate on the different attitudes of men in different positions towards marriage.

Here we divide men into two types:

1. There is a large number of choices of the opposite sex;

2 is that there is no right to choose the opposite sex. The former can be simply thought of as Takeshi Kaneshiro, Principal Wang before there is no restriction on consumption, or a man who can change a girlfriend every month; The latter can be simply thought of as a crowd of men, men who have never had a beautiful girlfriend in almost their entire lives. In fact, the initial starting point of these two types of people is the same:

I want to find a girl I love to get married.

01. In the first case, a man can easily find a high-quality woman who he likes and likes himself, and at this time he has two choices, "enter the marriage hall with her", or "The world is so big, I want to see it again." "Anyway, some men have achieved positive results with the person they like, and it must not be the same for everyone, but love is supreme. And the other part, it's good not to get married!

Play casually, change it casually, and no one cares about it! When they have experienced this kind of life for a long enough time, some people start to not want to marry the person they like, but want to continue this life. At this time, their needs for marriage have changed, if they really want to get married, it is also to deal with elders or secular concepts, and men in this mentality, even if they get married, they are more inclined to find one:

Regardless of the woman who continues to play on her own. And this kind of demand is really not the same for everyone, there are not many women who can really accept this kind of marital relationship, and it is not so easy to find. So, in this case, is it the same for anyone to be able to marry anyone?

. 02. Let's take a look at the men in the second situation, those men who have little choice. Their original intention is the same as that of the first type of men, they just want to find an excellent and beautiful woman who they like and like themselves to fall in love and get married, and a small number of people have also succeeded, this is a marriage based on true love. However, the reality of more people is that the woman they like in their dreams is not looked down on by themselves.

Don't believe it, this is the normal state of life, in fact, both men and women have this feeling "the person I love doesn't love me, and the person who loves me doesn't love me", why? Want to hear me tell the truth? High-energy warning ahead!

Because people feel that they are losing money with you, they think that you are not worthy of them, and the other reasons are all. And for an ordinary man who has no choice, he will soon be beaten by the reality of the world and understand: it turns out that a lot of swan meat I want to eat can't be eaten.

What can he do at this time? Either try to change yourself, become the first type of person with the right to choose, and start the cycle of the first situation. And more people can't change themselves at all, so they can only keep lowering their standards until they find the real position they can attract to women.

You don't understand the meaning behind this sentence, when guys feel, or say, "Whoever I'm married to is the same", in fact, they say:

I already know what type I fit into, and in this type, whoever I marry is the same.

I don't know if you believe it or not, but over the years I have been consulting, I have become more and more convinced of one thing: this person has grown up all his life, and unless something particularly big happens, it is destined that this person is likely to be with what kind of person he is.

And if you have a lot of emotional experience, in fact, you can do a test yourself: if you think about the people who are with you, you will find that those who you are very comfortable with and have a more stable relationship often have similar attributes.

Unless a boy who has no sense of responsibility and no responsibility thinks that marrying anyone is the same. Marriage is a joy between two people, a lifelong partner, husband and wife should respect each other, appreciate each other, and promote each other. Only people with the same three views can live a more harmonious and happy life together, and a happy family can cultivate better children.

Maybe a guy will say that it's the same as whoever he marries, but who can really do it?

Marriage is about consensual thinking, not one-way love, let alone casual talk, after all, getting married and having children is a major event in life, and finding someone with the same three views and who can read you is the most important thing.

This must be a different boy, as long as he marries the girl he likes, it must be different, so he only has two choices, one is to live with the one he likes, that is, to make do with life, so it is not that marrying anyone is the same, there is still a big difference.

It wouldn't be that way. Anyone who chooses marriage, I believe will choose to be with the person they like, so that life can be interesting, if it is the same with whoever you marry, either this person has no feelings, or has been deeply hurt, don't marry this kind of person, otherwise you will also be hurt.

Who a man marries is basically different! A good woman can be as tender as water, but also flexible as steel! A woman doesn't have to be good at work, but she also has to be all-round in housework, so that cooking is not delicious.

It is true that going up to the hall and going down to the kitchen is a derogatory rebuke to high-quality women, for many men, it is more important to understand him, understand him, believe in him, and support him!

Empathetic women can still have a temper, be willful, and still have a strong personality, but such women have high emotional intelligence, and they know that they should have different states in different places. With someone you love, you can go down to the dust, and she does a little bit for you, and you will be very impressed. She sends you a message, and you will reply in seconds or think about it again and again, and she will share something with you, and you will read it many times, and then think twice about replying to her, hoping that she will be happy.

You will love her with all your might, and you will feel very happy if she gives you a little response. But if you don't love her, she loves you, no matter how much she does, you will only be impressed, you won't love, but you have a place for her in your heart. Marrying a good woman is a man's blessing, and this blessing is not inferior to meeting nobles and opportunities in society.

A good woman will find a man's strengths and can boost him when he is in high spirits; When a man is frustrated, he can rationally analyze and assist the man to regain his strength; When a man shrinks himself, it can be properly cooled down and irritable; When men need to come in and fight, you can say "It's a big deal, I'll raise you"! A failed woman is selfish, and when a man fights for his family, he will think that the man accompanies her less; When a man is arrogant, he will splash cold water out of place; When a man is ready for everything and only owes the east wind, he will draw his salary from the bottom of the kettle; When a man is lost and needs comfort, he will scold and compare himself with other men.

Therefore, it is too different who a man marries him! If you don't love either of you, if you stick to being together, it will become family affection, and love is still just a little bit. Without love, there are no white roses and red roses, just a quiet lake.

This question is a false proposition, I don't think so, no boy thinks that he will find a random woman to marry, just as every girl will find his own wishful husband is the same, and boys really think that it is the same to marry anyone? No way, if he had a choice, he would have made a choice. He doesn't pick one right away, but he does, and that's the kind of thing.

Marriage is a very big thing, it is a very sacred thing, and if you simply think that marriage is a very casual person, then I think it is too casual, so I think it is a very inappropriate person. So if you have no feelings for him, or just find a marriage, then I believe your feelings will not last.

So no one will find a random person to marry, when you go to high school, you will find a random classmate to marry, of course not, you have to choose a suitable one, in case it is not suitable to divorce in two days, then you may not be finished, so in this case, then the emotional thing is like this. So I usually think that the relationship is to find a suitable one, when we were in high school, there was a pair of male and female classmates, if they got married, and now they have two children, I think it is very suitable, I think it is very good, if it is someone else, the relationship may not be so lasting, but I think they have persisted until now, I think it is a very perfect thing. Therefore, the relationship should be decided after getting along, so in this case, then it is okay, so the emotional thing is very important, if the relationship is okay, then it must be well together.

This really can't be said to say, everyone's thoughts are different, boys don't feel the same as who they marry, because in their opinion, there are different places to get girls, and girls also have some completely different places, although they spend a lot of time and energy pursuing girls, but if you can really pursue it, whether you can pursue it or not, that's another matter, it's such a thing. Anyway, I don't think boys feel the same as marrying anyone, although they reach a certain age, they have a certain amount of pressure in the future, but they don't rush to choose a person they don't like, or someone they hate when they see it, do you think he will marry him? Of course not, if you want to get married, this girl is the same, they will choose the one they like, find the one they like at the beginning, and then find a suitable one later.

So this is very important, so life is such a thing, so when it comes to marriage, then I think in many cases you should think about what to do next. Boys and girls sometimes have close ideas, but some boys' ideas may be different, this is such a thing, in fact, in this society, if you want to find a suitable one, I'm afraid it will take a lot of time and energy to find the right one, but whether it is suitable or not can only be known after experience, so boys do not necessarily find a person who can get married, so it is impossible. Many people say that you can just find someone to marry, right?

This or a joke is unacceptable to most people, so I don't think it's possible for everyone to find someone to marry casually, if that's the case, then society is too simple, but most things are impossible to do.

Maybe I'm not always right, but some people think so, so I think everyone thinks differently, but that's the case in general.