I m 40 years old, why do I shed tears when people show concern for me?

It sounds like you're so touched by other people's concern and concern for you that you can't even hold back your tears, feeling embarrassed and curious, right? Originally, this phenomenon belongs to human nature, especially for a person with abundant emotions, the so-called touching the scene gives birth to feelings, touching feelings gives rise to feelings. Especially for a person who is extremely soft and kind inside, it is easier to be emotional, easier to get involved emotionally, and the scenes of ordinary TV dramas may be attracted to tears.

If a person will cry when they only encounter a special group or care for any kind of person, it may be necessary to discuss the rich meaning behind emotional expressions

First, if a person encounters any kind of person's care, he will be moved, which means that there is an extreme lack of love inside, just like an extremely hungry beggar, when he meets a kind person who gives a little delicious food, he will cry.

Second, if a person is moved to tears only when he meets a certain special person, such as an elder, it means that he is prone to empathy, that is, the lack of father's love in the early years, which is suddenly felt and produced by the projection of an idealized father.

For you, stand in behavioral psychology.

Explain that you love to cry since you were a child, and when you cry, it is precisely the criticism that your father brings to you, so that there is a link, and your father's criticism gives you a negative reinforcement of crying, thus forming a conditioned reflex. In addition, from the perspective of dynamics, the leader's care for you compensates for your idealized father's expression of love, which is also what moves you very much.

Knowing this, we will look at this issue objectively, you may not have been seen by your father since you were a child, but we all expect to be affirmed and recognized by the important others in our lives, and now when this leader like a father cares about you, it may just meet the feeling of recognition that you have always wanted in your childhood but have never been satisfied.

Now that you are aware of the problem of tears, it means that you are also slowly waking up, seeing your inner emotions, being aware of the reasons for tears, and facing those who care about us, we can also respond, care and complete our work in a timely manner, cherish the present, cherish the present, cultivate self-confidence, and love ourselves well.

It's emotions, people who have depressed moods, excessive sadness. Seeing the moving scenes, hearing the songs of the vicissitudes of life and melancholy, and getting the warm care of others will move us, tears will flow out, and there will be voices and trembling hands when we are emotional. But I don't want to shed tears in my heart, because I want to give others a strong feeling, and vanity is strong and afraid of being misunderstood.

But I can't control it, so I think it's a little weird what is going on. I shouldn't be so vulnerable.

Because you usually lack care, you are always nervous, so once others care about you, you are easily moved.

That's because few people paid attention to you when you were growing up, so when someone cared about you, you would feel particularly aggrieved or moved.

Maybe it's because your heart is too fragile, and I suggest that you should go out and see the world more often, and learn to communicate with others.