Why are people always so selfish in front of interests

The entire social atmosphere and environment leave a pitiful living space for people who are too real, too honest, and kind.

When everyone is born, that is their truest self.

Since then, every step into life has become a microcosm of society.

Beauty, ugliness, goodness, evil, truth, hypocrisy, and so on, are all imposed on everyone's head and body. Everything is a blessing.

We tend to blame others"Hypocrisy"And when the social atmosphere is not good, who of us has seriously examined ourselves?

Each of us is the smallest basic element of society's composition. There's a little bit of something about every element"Hypocrisy", those billions of elements have become a social atmosphere"Hypocrisy"The big climate.

We should be ashamed to first examine ourselves to see if we have brought discordant negative things to this society, even the slightest bit.

If everyone can do it, our society will be truly happy!!

Of course, my view is idealistic. However, if you think about it carefully, the behavior of each of us is related to the quality of the social atmosphere. In fact, each of us is responsible for the deterioration of the social climate. )

The ideal is dreamy, but the reality is cruel, so in the face of interests, everyone will choose the most beneficial side for themselves, so how is it normal! Just like many people always feel that they are actually generous, they will deal with things very generously, but once this matter involves their own interests, they will think first from their own standpoint!

Everyone will have desires, and most people will think about their own interests. Everyone wants to get what they want. So it's normal for people to be selfish.

In fact, selfishness is also a yearning for the beautiful things in one's heart, and it is also a kind of pursuit. It only depends on the degree of his pursuit, and if he focuses too much on himself and does not think about others, then he will form a very serious selfishness. So selfishness is only in the thoughts of each person.

Even a person with noble character has a selfish side, but he has more spirit and more beautiful spiritual qualities than ordinary people. If you want to find a person in the world who is not selfish, it will be difficult, or not at all.

1。In order to achieve the goal, unscrupulous means.

The so-called gentleman loves money and takes it in the right way, whether it is for the pursuit of wealth or the pursuit of power status, he must sit upright so that he is not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door in the middle of the night. But human desires are endless, and desires are like a bottomless pit, and if you don't control yourself, you can't fill it at all. Some people will do whatever it takes to achieve their own interests, using all means and methods, not hesitating to sacrifice the interests of others, or even hurting others, betraying friends, and unscrupulous means to achieve their goals.

If such a person gives you benefits and benefits, please be sure not to accept such benefits, since he can betray others for interests, he can also betray you for interests, and he will not treat you as a friend, but only use you as a tool to achieve his goals. If you have such a person around you, try not to have deep friendships to avoid getting into trouble.

2.The world is hot and cold, and the treatment of people is like paper.

The speed of urbanization is getting faster and faster, and the pace of everyone's life is getting faster and faster, and gradually, we find that there are fewer and fewer friends who can speak, and there are fewer and fewer friends who can make sincere friends, and it is inevitable to be lonely and sad. So many times, we are eager to make friends, to find someone to share joys and sorrows. But don't staggered your sincerity with others, because you may have a pure heart, but others may not care.

Especially when you meet some people, you are very good to him, you can pay for him, but he doesn't think about you, he always only cares about his own interests and feelings, you pay more and more sincerely, and in the end, you will find that others treat you as a monkey. So if you give too much and still can't warm the hearts of others, then don't warm them and love yourself well.

3.is scathing and mean, and never leaves a way back for others.

Many people hurt others, and they kept saying: Don't blame me, I am a knife-mouthed tofu heart, straight heart. How did you feel when you heard that?

When someone hurts you and says with a smile that he is that kind of character, do you want to slap him? Everyone is an adult, if you can talk, you can talk more, and if you can't talk, don't talk.

That kind of deliberately hurting others, and finding words to say that it is because of your own reasons, you don't even have to accept an apology. Some people have a sour smell as soon as they speak, and they do things regardless of the occasion, and they are ruthless and do not leave a way back for others. Often force people to a dead end, as the saying goes, take a step back and leave a back road for others, that is, leave a road for yourself, after all, the future days are not accurate, so behave outside the world, don't block people's back roads.

The more selfish people are, the healthier they are, and there is truth to this statement. In fact, we all know that people are originally selfish, and the selfishness mentioned here is not completely selfish, and if there is no other person like that in the eyes, no relationship can be established. The second refers to calmly putting oneself first in the relationship and giving priority to oneself, which is selfish behavior.

The more selfish people are, the healthier Zheng Ru's psychology is, and this passage makes sense. In life we always feel that selfishness is a derogatory term, but it is not. Sometimes the reason why you don't feel happy enough is because you're too selfless.

Does selfishness make us feel happier? Let's look at this from a psychological perspective. Selfish people, their hearts are actually healthy, and they are not prone to psychological diseases.

Be selfish and give priority to a few points that seem to be selfish in everything, but in fact, for a person with a highly sensitive personality like me, it really greatly reduces internal friction! It's none of your business, hang high! For example, before I and a few good colleagues, because after leaving the company, I still had a conflict of interest with the company, I consulted with friends in related majors and decided to resolutely protect our interests, Yu Cong argued that he was busy sorting out how to deal with the whole thing, but my colleague said that he did not want to destroy the relationship with the former leader, and said that as long as his salary did not affect it, it didn't matter......The position was different, and the communication with colleagues also caused contradictions.

After talking to his boyfriend about it, he said: Other people's business is your business, as long as you can protect your own interests, as long as you don't involve your own interests, you have to have an indifferent attitude about everything, how others choose, the consequences are also what they are willing to bear! So my depressed emotions all dispersed, because I didn't have to think about anyone, including my boyfriend, and asked myself if I wanted to!

For example, I want to eat, what I want to eat, I want to play, what I want to do, etc., I used to think about whether my boyfriend likes it or not, after so many dates, my boyfriend said: I really don't have to think about me so much, what to eat and what you are best at, I have no opinion if you can decide what you like, and I don't have to think so painfully, everyone is happy! In terms of career, too, you must do what you like, and it's okay to take your time.

The reason why a person always feels unhappy and unhappy may be because he is too selfless.

As for the stupidity, everything will be for the sake of others, so that you will make yourself. Tired.

People's hearts are diverse, each has its own scheming, whether it is daily life, or workplace competition, although there is no harm to others, but the heart of defense is still reasonable, so that mutual suspicion, the mentality of deception has arisen, and it is good to compete with each other, do not rule out the situation of you fighting for me, malicious harm, the key is to tolerate and communicate with each other, but it is barely right, not everyone is like-minded, regardless of the gains and losses of interests, the mentality is a little flat, and they are low-key and flexible to adjust their mentality, The way of thinking and the skills of dealing with others, struggle is a must, otherwise bread and love are not guaranteed, gradually improve and enhance the competitive strength, always remind yourself to be calm and composed, do your best, opportunities will always appear, to Duan Qingxing in the trust of others or not, get along well or not, not subjective thoughts can change, so, everything is fate, not just divided, waiting for like-minded people to appear.

Because in my opinion, selfishness has always been a nature in everyone's heart!

Thinking for oneself, or selfishness, such a concept I avoided talking about and thinking about when I was young, as if selfishness is wrong, and there are even many people who explain the word "God and earth for themselves", as if the original meaning was not selfish, but I think that since the common people think that this sentence is to think about themselves, it makes sense, and I have recently understood this aspect more and moreIt's especially important to think about yourself and then others

I think there should be a lot of people who have had the experience of taking a plane, and when taking a plane, the flight attendant always tells you that in case of emergency, you must first bring your own oxygen mask, and then bring it to the child next to youBut the way of thinking of foreigners is very rational, and I also think that it is very meaningful to develop such a rational way of thinking!

To be honest, what really shocked me was when I looked at the Great Qin Empire, when I saw that Fan Ju of Wei wanted to see King Qin Zhao, he did a lot of homework in advance, and after in-depth research, he found that King Qin Zhao's personal needs were not the needs of QinThe logic of his thinking is that King Qin Zhao is first and foremost a person, and then the role of the monarch, and he must first meet his personal needs before he can talk about the needs of the monarch

After that, I often encounter this kind of similar problem in my reality, because we generally think that the boss of the company, or the general manager of the company, should think about the company's affairs wholeheartedly, think about the affairs of the public, especially the boss of a private enterprise, the company is his own, so naturally all his thoughts are about the company's affairs, which is wrong! People are first of all individuals, and then the role of career, when you have not yet approached a person, you can only talk about business, but when you really walk into him, you find that the real problems are related to the individual, in fact, these problems are the essence of the problem!

Because people themselves are selfish, not to mention what they want to get and what they can't get, they have their own ideas, if it is in front of interests, people have a selfish side, because people are very much looking forward to and looking forward to getting him.

Because the interests faced can affect their own development, driven by their hearts, AT chose to make themselves live well, and at the same time they are thinking about their families. Because under a kind of inner prompting, AT must be selfish for himself and his family! Choose to be a type of person in the eyes of others, most of the selfish people in society sometimes have more, sometimes less, because some people understand the importance of feelings, will choose friendship, because in the face of interests, these people like the life of friendship in the eyes, and do not like boring and hypocritical people together.

Human nature is like this, they all want to pursue good things, and interests are such a "good thing". Therefore, people will become very selfish in front of interests.

But people are wise after all, and in many cases, they will restrain themselves, give up their interests, and do some things that sacrifice themselves for others.

In any country, in any society, human nature is selfish, and many people will do anything to pursue profits!

A man sells gutter oil to others, but does not eat it himself;

A man sells white flour mixed with stone powder to others, but does not eat it himself;

A person sells poisonous bean sprouts to others, but does not eat them himself.

So in the society of mutual harm, there is such a common scene:

The seller of gutter oil holds steamed buns mixed with stone powder, chews poisonous bean sprouts, and eats them with relish;

The seller of stone flour noodles eats poisonous bean sprouts fried with gutter oil, and they also relish it;

And those who sell poisonous bean sprouts, eating steamed buns mixed with stone powder and fried vegetables in gutter oil, are also delicious.

All three are selfish. They thought that they had not only gained benefits from this "deal", but that they had not been specifically harmed. However, the real result was that all three people were hurt. Everyone has tasted counterfeit and shoddy products.

If one of them finds out in conscience and is determined not to make counterfeit products, then the most likely scenario is that not only will he continue to eat poisonous food, but his business will also become more and more difficult.

So, how do we do our best to put an end to this evil of human nature? If you condemn them only from a moral point of view, without concrete measures, then it is useless to shout out your voice. So we have to take a proven approach:

The first is the law, which must be enacted in detail and enforceable; The second is supervision, supervision, civil supervision, and free supervision; The third is a heavy penalty, a heavy penalty that is enough to ruin the family and ruined one's reputation!