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Anonymous users2024-02-15People who don't care about personal gains and losses.
It's easier to get along with others.
It's also easier to be liked by others.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Nothing is your own, everything at work belongs to the company.
Therefore, whether things can be done or not depends on who belongs to them, but whether they can maximize their interests, as long as they can be maximized, you have to rush to do it if you are not arranged.
How do you understand this? It can be analyzed at several levels.
1. It is clear that it is a matter of job responsibilities.
For example, if you are a cashier, transfer and payment is the responsibility of the cashier, and in general, it must be completed on time without the instructions of the leader, otherwise it is not a performance of duties, and the company will be accountable.
But there are exceptions, such as the boss arranging for you to transfer a sum of money to his private account, emphasizing that it will be repaid in three months. If you can't do this, you will be derelict in your duty if you do it, and it will not be worth it to take a great risk for a little salary.
2. Temporary arrangements by the leader.
This should be analyzed in detail, the company can not write all the work into the job responsibilities in advance, there are always temporary, sudden things happen, then the leader to assign that person to do. In general, if it is related to your own work, you should actively accept it, and if you can't arrange it, you can ask the leader to ask for overtime pay for overtime, and you can ask for help. If it has nothing to do with your work, you can also point out that the leader is not a god, and there is always a time when you can't think of it, if you don't say that he rushes to the field, it will be your life, but you should pay attention to the tone and methods.
3. Things that improve one's own ability.
For example, if you are making a cashier, the leader asks you if you have time to make a financing plan. Personal opinion to follow without hesitation. Because people can't just look at what is in front of them, some jobs are just wasting time and consuming lives, such as running takeaway and delivering couriers, no matter how much you run, you can't improve yourself.
Fourth, the long-term affairs arranged by the leadership.
This is the most troublesome, after the temporary work is done, there will be no business for you in the future, and the long-term work directly increases the workload, which is equivalent to taking a salary and a half for a job, and the cost performance is reduced.
For example, if you are a cashier, the leader says that you will be responsible for the company's rent in the future. The cashier is responsible for collecting and paying, and it sounds like a connection with the account, but in fact it is two different things, which is equivalent to adding a large part of the workload. If the work is not busy, this work does not conflict with their own work, and you are more concerned about the leader's view of you, care about the job, you can consider accepting, but to explain how much work has been added, remind the leader not to add it next time.
If you do a job of 6,000 yuan with a salary of 3,000 yuan, it is better to find a way to change jobs and do a job of 6,000 yuan with a salary of 6,000 yuan.
When you come out to work, you don't have to think about who you're sorry for, as long as you're worthy of the salary and yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13Shoot with your hand (dog tail grass).
In order to gain the trust and support of others, a psychologist or a master communicator will tell you a lot of skills, but in my opinion, there is only one most important point - selflessness and altruism.
Historically, great leaders are wholeheartedly for the sake of the people, God and Shakyamuni needless to say, that is the top realm of selflessness, let's talk about Mandela, the father of South Africa, in order to promote the apartheid movement, and finally imprisoned for 27 years, after being released from prison, he ran for South Africa, won the Nobel Peace Prize, and was elected as the greatest South African. Another example is Aung San Suu Kyi, who was placed under house arrest for 15 years by the military in order to promote non-violence and democracy in Myanmar, and won 70 votes when she ran for election after her release.
In a big environment, to achieve the above kind of selflessness, is the highest level, we must be difficult to do, and it is difficult to have such an opportunity, but as an ordinary person, if we want to get the support of others, we must also have this attitude to do things.
In the company, do more for colleagues to do what they can, if you come early, you can help colleagues at the next table to wipe the table clean, take the initiative to throw away the garbage, after a long time you will find that everyone in the office will be more friendly to you, naturally will not give you small shoes.
In one of my jobs, I persisted for three years to wipe the table and water the flowers for the leader. I began to feel aggrieved and complained about why Aunt Jingwei's job asked me to do it, but after a long time, I found that the leader's attitude towards me was different from that towards others, and sometimes even if I made mistakes at work, he was not angry, but helped me save in time.
In married life, you should also think more about each other, especially after encountering differences, you should communicate with the purpose of solving problems and maintaining feelings, and examine whether you are wrong from the other party's point of view. Try to worry less about who does more housework and who does less housework, because home is not for care.
In short, people who think more about others will never have too bad luck.
In the group, Xiaoxiaobai, Xiang Yangfeng likes to give people praise and encourage others, I have received a lot of encouragement from them, and I often see them under other people's articles, this is selflessness and altruism in a group. As a result, 80% of the people in the group remember them and offer to help when they need it.
Like me, a lazy cancer patient, I am usually too busy and don't have much time to read the morning readings written by others, but every time I see the encouragement they give me, no matter how busy I am, I will take the time to read the articles they write.
Good night, meow!
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Anonymous users2024-02-121.As long as you don't care about gains and losses, what can't you think of overcoming in life? - Ernest Hemingway.
2.Seon lost his horse, but he didn't know if it was a blessing. - Huainanzi.
3.Even the wise can make mistakes; A fool thinks a thousand times, and he will get one. - Han) Sima Qian.
4.Fish, I want, bear's paw, I also want. You can't have both, and those who give up the fish and take the bear's paw are also. —Mencius.
5.Those in the world, it is difficult to gain, and it is not easy to lose the Tongji; What is easy is lost. - Song) Su Shi.
6.The praying mantis catches the cicada, and the yellow finch is behind. - Qing) Ji Yun.
7.I'd rather suffer a loss nobly than gain it vilely. - Ancient Rome) Syrus.
8.Needless to say, losing is sometimes more beneficial than gaining. - Ancient Rome) Plautus.
9.If you don't go through hardship, you won't get laurels, you won't get achievements without hardship, and you won't get honor if you don't go through calamities. - Anonymous.
10.It is much better to get the honor you deserve but not get it than to get the honor you don't deserve. —Mark Twain Frontcha.
11.Only good deeds will bring you fame. - Sadie.
12.Honor makes art flourish, and all those who are interested in studying are excited by a sense of honor. - Cicero.
13.The more difficulties encountered, the greater the honor. - Cicero.
14.The righteous first and then the righteous are honored, and the first glory and then the righteous are humiliated. The honorable are always passable, and the humiliated are often poor. —Bureau laughs—Xunzi.
15.Don't be happy, don't worry. The resistance is very high, and the squeeze must be cool. - Anonymous.
16.Small profits, thieves of big profits; Small calamity, big calamity. If you are greedy for small profits, great profits will perish, and if you do not leave a small disaster, a big disaster will come. - Liu Day.
17.Gain and lose once, and honor and disgrace for a thousand years. - Anonymous.
18.The ingenuity of the wisdom will be the defeat of the intelligence. - Liu Xiang.
19.When you see what you want, you don't care about what you want, and you don't care about what you can do when you see what you want. If you move, you will fall, and if you do it, you will be humiliated, and it will be a partial injury. - Xunzi.
20.If the villain doesn't get it, he can't worry; I have already gained it, but I have lost it in panic. It is to have lifelong worries and no day's joy. - Xunzi.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Don't be too careful at work, I don't know how many people have lost big gains for small interests throughout the ages, and how many people in the workplace have lost because of their calculations? How many professionals have tasted the big losses due to small ones, and the gains outweigh the losses. The more.
In fact, many people's big troubles are not caused by big things, but by some small things, small interests are too much to cause the big troubles.
I have seen such a story because of a small loss, I think this is a very admonishing story: there is a simple person who got a beautiful piece of jadeite by chance, but because there is a small flaw on this jadeite, so he ruthlessly cut off the jadeite layer by layer, wanting to make it the most perfect jadeite in the world, but in the end he cut off the layers and layers, and finally the flaws are gone, but the jadeite is gone.
The little story has a big truth, and we can see from this story that the protagonist lost a priceless jade because of a small flaw. How many people are doing the hero's thing in reality? Often, small losses outweigh losses.
Don't take it too seriously at work.
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