Mother in law, bad daughter in law s reputation is not good for whom

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It can be said that the mother-in-law ruined the reputation of her daughter-in-law, which is not good for anyone.

First of all, it is to the daughter-in-law, regardless of whether the daughter-in-law has anything to do or not, but the gossip comes out of the mother-in-law's mouth, even if someone doubts the truth or falsehood, at least the daughter-in-law's bad impression has been generated, plus there is a fan of gossip that spreads everywhere, and the daughter-in-law is almost stereotyped as a bad person. It's hard to get rid of the impact.

Secondly, it is not good for his son. The daughter-in-law is not good, the son who is the husband is either incompetent or considered unfilial, or he is afraid of what will happen to the daughter-in-law, and the son's prestige and reputation will be borne together.

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is generally the most difficult interpersonal relationship. The mother-in-law ruined the reputation of the daughter-in-law, in fact, she said everywhere that the daughter-in-law was not, and the listener did not say that the mother-in-law was not, and she would laugh at the mother-in-law behind her back, and her IQ was not **, how could she ruin the reputation of her daughter-in-law everywhere, and the daughter-in-law had a bad reputation, what benefits could it bring you, but people were married to the son of your family.

There is also a daughter-in-law who has a bad reputation, and I am afraid that there are still children who are affected, because there is no impermeable wall, gossip spreads among friends, and children will be easily bullied and even scolded and ridiculed because of their mother's reputation, which will adversely affect the child's life and learning.

As the saying goes, family ugliness should not be publicized. As a mother-in-law, she should be less involved in the affairs of her son's family, and if she can help her son's family, she will try to help her son's family, and if she can't help anything, don't help her, and slander her daughter-in-law that there is no winner in the end. It will only greatly reduce the happiness of the son's family, and may cause conflicts and conflicts between the son and the daughter-in-law.

The mother-in-law is not a peaceful matter, she is adding trouble to her son.

The reputation of the mother-in-law is the most bad for her son's reputation in the final analysis.

If the daughter-in-law's reputation is bad, the husband will be looked down upon first, and then the reputation of the whole family will be damaged, and every member of the family will be pointed at.

At the beginning, it must have been unfavorable to the daughter-in-law, and most of the people who listened to it had no brains, and they would think that this daughter-in-law was really excessive, how could she treat her mother-in-law like this.

Then it is not good for the mother-in-law, and some of the people who listen to it have brains, and they will feel that the daughter-in-law cannot be bad to the mother-in-law for no reason, it must be the mother-in-law who did something first, or said something first. The ugliness of the family is not publicized, the mother-in-law says bad things about the daughter-in-law outside, and the reputation of the daughter-in-law is bad, and the mother-in-law is definitely not better.

The next is that it is not good for the son, people will link the daughter-in-law with the son, and they will feel that the son does not care about the daughter-in-law, how can he not be able to reconcile the contradictions between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and he is unladylike.

Then it is not good for other people in the family, everyone will feel that there is no one in the family who can mediate, and the family is not in harmony, how can everything be prosperous?

Therefore, it makes sense that family ugliness is not publicized, and of course internal contradictions need to be resolved internally, and the more outsiders who know, the easier it is to interfere, and the easier it is to not be able to get off the stage of each other. People who go outside to talk about it are refreshed for a while, but the bad impact caused is not so easy to eliminate. If the listener has ulterior motives, adds fuel and vinegar, or even deliberately misinterprets it and then transmits it back to the ears of the people concerned, the world will be in chaos.

It is most detrimental to her and her family, especially her son. If a mother-in-law goes out to have a bad reputation as a daughter-in-law, then this mother-in-law is not smart, of course, the daughter-in-law must also respect the mother-in-law and do a good job in the role of daughter-in-law!

The consequences of in-laws treating their daughter-in-law badly are as follows:

1. Let your son be in a dilemma, not a person inside and out; Many mothers-in-law do not treat their daughters-in-law well when they are young, and they always embarrass their daughters-in-law thinking that this can be a good declaration of their sovereignty, thinking that no matter how much they bully their daughters-in-law, when the daughter-in-law needs to take care of herself, she must also be filial to herself.

2. If you don't treat your daughter-in-law well, your grandchildren will also treat you; For a mother-in-law, if she doesn't treat her daughter-in-law well when she is young, and she doesn't even care about her grandchildren at all, then when she is old, she can't blame her daughter-in-law for not being filial and disrespecting herself, and she can't blame her grandchildren for disrespecting and treating herself well.

Summary. You can see that you seem to have suffered a lot of injuries in the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law<>

<> your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't seem to have that much harmony, which makes it difficult for you to let go.

Why is the mother-in-law not good to the daughter-in-law.

You can see that you seem to have suffered a lot of injuries in the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law<>

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The relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law doesn't seem to be as harmonious as Zheng Sen, which makes it difficult for you to let go.

The teacher has a question about the morning, please help me analyze it, my mother-in-law used to be a very provincial person, and since I had a conflict after giving birth, I always felt that she was good to me, and I didn't let my father-in-law talk to me. And we go to their house once a week to eat, and the day we go to eat, the fruit they buy is not sweet, it's not very tasty, and a few times I go to them in the middle of the business, and the fruit they buy is very sweet, and let my husband bring it back, because they know that I like sweets, and it feels like they didn't buy it on purpose in the past, and then my husband went and made a banquet for my husband to see, and you said that my analysis is right.

<>I can quite understand you, after giving birth to a baby, the psychological pressure of the deterioration of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is fought. The two generations have different perceptions of parenting, so the family conflicts that cannot be avoided by the pure width of every family, and the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will come. You don't make hail too nervous, it's okay <>

<> on weekdays, when do you get along with your mother-in-law the most?

When I first came to their house, I thought my mother-in-law was very average to me, and she didn't care about me, and she never said to buy me clothes for my father-in-law, and then she talked to me with slanted eyes, and it wasn't very good anyway, and I thought she was hostile to me, but now it's a little better, I feel like she's playing yin, I'm already very good to her, and I give her Kai and Shiver flowers or something during the holidays, and it still doesn't feel so good.

She would say thank you when she gave her something Sakura, and then she gave my girl a red envelope that day, but I think there are some things she is still doing, such as when she talks to her husband, and her husband ignores her, and she ignores me.

Actually, my husband also knows that they treat me like a normal.

You have a father-in-law, right? Usually, my mother-in-law's attention will also be diverted? Don't miss the source and be blind always on the empty body of your husband? Does your mother-in-law have any other children?

No, it's just my husband, and now the hostile attention has shifted to me here, my father-in-law used to be very good to me, and now he doesn't treat me well, and the rock is good, and the eggplant shed collapses, and helps me and my mother-in-law deal with me together, so naturally they will say two words to me.

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In fact, through your dear, it is not difficult to see that you really want to love your in-laws who are self-conscious, and you also hope to get care and affirmation from them. Don't care what your father-in-law thinks of you, why do you think it is?

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Summary. Answer: The daughter-in-law said bad things about her mother-in-law.

As a daughter-in-law, if you go to your mother-in-law's house, respect your mother-in-law. It's your elders. You have to respect Him, you have to understand Him and you have to love.

Because he is also your mother, don't speak ill of your mother-in-law. If he doesn't respect him. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be tested for communication and exchange to be harmonious.

Mother-in-law has something to do.

Answer: The daughter-in-law said bad things about her mother-in-law. As a daughter-in-law, if you go to your mother-in-law's house, you must respect your mother-in-law.

It's your elders. You have to respect him, and Cong Yuanzhi has to understand him and love. Because he is also your mother, don't speak ill of your mother-in-law.

If he doesn't respect him. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be tested for communication and exchange to be harmonious. Mother-in-law has something to do.

You've done a great job! Can you elaborate on that?

Question 2: How should the daughter-in-law deal with this contradiction if she says bad things about her mother-in-lawAnswer: If the daughter-in-law says bad things about her mother-in-law, if the mother-in-law talks to her about it, it can only escalate the contradiction.

It's good to have a clear conscience, don't worry about your daughter-in-law, don't know what to do, and don't take it to heart.