What is the true meaning of only women and villains are difficult to raise in the Analects?

Only women and villains are difficult to raise: a proverb.

It refers to the fact that those villains who are not right-minded and only think about harming others are difficult to get along with, because whether you are close to them or far away from them, they have their own understanding.

The real meaning is that in this world, the most difficult to deal with are women and villains, these two kinds of people are difficult to entangle, and many people can't handle it.

The real meaning is that it is difficult to reason with women, children, and people of different classes, and to get along with them.

One is your dearest person, and the other is your enemy, both of which are very difficult to serve!

I know, but I forgot, the villain didn't mean to make bad behind his back at first, it was something else

Some people once believed that Confucius discriminated against women, and the reason was that he said the sentence "Only women and villains are difficult to raise".In fact, women here do not refer to the majority of women, so there is no discrimination against women, what Confucius advocates is actually equality between men and women.

In fact, the original sentence of this sentence is: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not grandchildren, and those who are far away are resentful." It means:

If it's just a woman, you can still perfunctory and deal with it, if it's just a villain, you can still perfunctory and cope, but if a woman and a villain are together, there is no way to deal with it, if you get too close to them, you may be hurt, and you won't even have the opportunity to hold your grandson. If you don't get along with them, they will resent you and treat you like an enemy, and your outcome will still be unpredictable. In fact, it can be seen from this sentence that the "woman" and "villain" here are corresponding, both refer to the villain with low morality, the "woman" is the opposite of the lady, and the "villain" is the opposite of the gentleman.

According to most opinions, Confucius said this sentence because he found out that he had been deceived by Wei Guogong after his trip to Wei Guo, and he was also fooled by the villains around Wei Guogong, so he made this remark. Confucius's trip in Weiguo was originally very pleasant, and he was warmly entertained by Wei Linggong, the monarch of Weiguo, and his wife, but in the process of getting along, Confucius gradually discovered that the reason why Wei Linggong was so hospitable to himself was because he wanted to gain a good reputation, rather than really appreciating Confucius's knowledge. ”

This sentence of Confucius is clearly morally inclinedThe word "woman" here refers to a woman with low morals, which is synonymous with "villain", and this sentence of Confucius may be related to his own experience. But now this phrase is often used to belittle women, which is also very wrong.

The second half of this sentence is "If you are near, you will not be grand, and if you are far away, you will be resentful". Women actually refer to women, but they do not discriminate against women, which means that if they are just women or villains, they can still be perfunctory and deal with them, and when they are combined, it is not so easy to deal with. If you get too close, you can be vulnerable, and if you get farther away, they will resent you and see you as an enemy.

Yes. This sentence is about women who are not as open-minded as men, who will take care of everything and keep some small things in mind, just like stingy people.

Zi said: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not inferior, and those who are far away are resentful." ”

Explanation: The woman is only very difficult to get along with the villain, if the woman is too close to him, he will be rude (disrespectful) to the woman, and if the woman alienates him, he will complain about the woman. This scale is difficult for women to grasp.

Confucius meant to teach both men and women to be gentlemen when they get along. Don't be very close to you, you are full of meat jokes. Ignore you, you say people are cold.

A woman refers to an unmarried girl, how can it be difficult to date when she is innocent? It is very realistic that women are difficult to get along with because they have been deceived many times.

The current interpretation of the sentence is "for, it is difficult to raise", if Confucius directly wrote "only women and villains are difficult to raise", how good it is, but also add a word for more bites. I think it is more reasonable to break the sentence "embarrassed, raise also". The word "embarrassment" has been used since ancient times to describe a person's inner feelings.

A male boss asks you to be a girl, and you go to dinner with him at night to accompany the client, and you don't want to make the girl very embarrassed. Men experience that difficult state of mind, Confucianism is the study of the mind. The Analects are not to be read, but to be understood and felt with the heart.

Everyone should have encountered a situation where male colleagues and female colleagues have dinner together, and male colleagues tell meat jokes. The male colleagues are laughing, and then you see that the female colleagues are embarrassed. A man who tells meat jokes in front of female colleagues is a villain. It is very difficult for a female colleague to associate with such a person.

The significance of this sentence in the Analects is that we can tell at a glance what a villain is. Interpret this sentence to mean that the woman and the villain are both villains. Why do you say that.

In their eyes, women are not inferior to those who are close, and those who complain are resentful. In life, such a man must be close to other women, and if other women ignore them and alienate them, they will resent, and they will take it for granted, and women are not good, so this understanding just reflects that their conduct is the same as that of villains. Why do women alienate such men, because if you don't alienate such men, once you get close to them, they start to be inferior.

Why do men get close to women, they all know in their hearts what fancy intestines men know, and I am also a man.

Why is it difficult for a woman to get along with a villain? The ancient villain refers to the person who does not have too high a pursuit of morality and pursues interests, the villain has a certain economic strength and status, and these women have to have a relationship, and sometimes they can't avoid it. For example, you can't avoid the leader of your company, if you are an ordinary employee, you can ignore it, and if the leader is not good, you will complain.

There is a big difference in the understanding of ancient villains and modern villains.

"Only women and villains are difficult to raise" is a passage in Confucius's Analects of Yang Goods, according to which people believe that Confucius discriminated against women, but people often do not fully understand the meaning of this sentence. There is a second half of this sentence. Its original sentence is "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not grandchildren, and those who are far away are resentful."

> "Only women and villains are difficult to raise" comes from the chapter "Analects of Yang Goods", and there are many discussions and explanations for this sentence. Most people think that it is Confucius's exaggeration. Therefore, various interpretations continue, and the newer interpretation is that the pattern of "woman" is defined as "female, son" or "female + son".

For example, Jin Chi's "New Translation of the Analects" and Shen Shanzeng's "Confucius Originally Said" published in recent years. This explanation can alleviate everyone's complaints about Confucius to a certain extent.

In fact, there is still half of this text behind, "If you are near, you will not be grandchildren, and if you are far away, you will be resentful", which is connected: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, and those who are close are not grandchildren, and those who are far away are resentful." "Sun" is a fake word for "Xun", which means respectful.

Changing this passage into the vernacular, the basic meaning is that only women and villains are the most difficult to get along with. If you are good to them, they will tempt you, offend you, and troublesome you, knowing that the heavens are high and the earth is high. When you turn a face at them, they complain and say you're sorry for him.

Yu Dan came to the audience according to this explanation in a talk show: villain refers to a child, which means that a woman is like a child, if she is too spoiled, she will be pampered and proud, and if she ignores her, she will be resentful.

However, this interpretation actually distorts the meaning of this sentence. "If you are near, you will not be grandchildren, and if you are far away, you will be resentful" is the basis of Confucius's "only women and villains are difficult to raise", and it is also the reason and manifestation of "women and villains" that are difficult to raise. Confucius's "only women and villains are difficult to raise" is not all women and villains are difficult to raise, but "women and villains" that "if they are near, they will not be grandchildren, and if they are far away, they will be resentful", that is, they will not be inferior if they are close, arrogant and lazy, and if they are not close to them, they will have resentful "women and villains".

"Woman" is a general term here, not a full term.