Is the urgency still there?

He's definitely having a problem, and it's just an excuse to say he's busy.

I guess he's going to have relationship problems, or it's a repetition of his old relationship.

It's better to figure it out and you're going to go tonight.

If you go, you will first give him a good talk, and then say, "You said that you are tired, I really don't feel at ease, I want to come and see you, and then I will test why he is tired, and look at his attitude," and it is very likely that he will be very annoyed by your presence.

But there could be something else going on.

If it doesn't work, just give up.

If only he could hear and see how he behaved, it would be great!

I feel that you should open your hearts to each other, love each other, be together, and be happy! If it really doesn't work, you can't force it!

If you love him, tell him. It's not too late to see how he's making a decision.

Wait for a while maybe he is really busy, he will contact you if he really loves you, sometimes it may not be good for you to take the initiative, love needs some patience to run well.

You better go see him, and then gently ask him what he is unhappy about, don't show him a face, don't let him notice that you are unhappy, you have to pretend that nothing happened.

It's best if he can tell you what is in his heart, and then you can talk more.

If he is bored and doesn't want to pay attention to you, don't get angry in front of him, (if you love him).

If you think it's irreparable, then walk away generously, and don't show how sad it is in front of him.

It can only be said that I missed the original opportunity, I didn't take the initiative to seize it, the same two people didn't care deeply enough, the space was broken for a long time, and it was interrupted from time to time, so I couldn't establish any feelings behind me, I could only maintain it at the beginning of the love, I didn't go through ups and downs, the relationship will not be reliable, the vision and experience have changed in the past four years, and the choice will change a lot, and now the contact has not got the desired result, indicating that the fate has been broken, it is better to spend time on the current girlfriend and cherish the current fate!

Meet the right person at the right time and start a love affair!

What a wonderful thing!

The problem is that many people are not so lucky.

In your case, it's just the wrong time!

There are many misunderstandings between each other, and when you like each other, she is still hesitant; When she gives you a chance, you hesitate again!

The end result is this!

So, at the end of the day, the two of you still don't have fate!

Don't force it, let it be!

After all, having had this experience, the next relationship will be cherished even more!

Your indecisive personality has made you lose a chance with her, and if you had confessed bravely and boldly when you first found out that you liked her, and you would have been together a long time ago. But you have repeatedly missed opportunities for the sake of face, making the girl feel insecure. Therefore, it can be seen that your personality is more introverted and not good at expression, you have been going around for more than four years, and the girl has given you a chance, but you didn't seize it.

So the girl finally made up her mind to leave you, and you let it go, and the fact that you haven't been able to walk together for four years shows that you have a shallow relationship. Learn a lesson, and in the future, when you meet a girl you like, you must confess as soon as possible, and don't be afraid of rejection.

Since you like her, why are you hesitating, waiting and waiting, shouldn't you confess to her earlier! When men and women fall in love, shouldn't men take the initiative?

Judging from what you have said, I think the fault lies with you, you let a girl wait for you for so long, until the girl is about to leave you, you are reluctant, what kind of heart are you!

Think about it again, do you really love that girl!

At this time, there is no point in analysis, people will change, the experience is different, the more people you see, the bigger the heart. And your little temple may no longer be able to raise her big fish. If you had been brave, there would have been a lot of hope.

But now your best bet is to hurry up and find something else that suits you. Don't be nostalgic anymore.

The girl has already said it more clearly, and I advise you not to entangle it anymore. Start a new life, you will always meet someone you like, and you will meet someone who likes you. Letting go is the best fulfillment of each other.

Keep yourself busy, do practical things, improve yourself in all aspects, and you will be better. What are good people afraid of?

You had feelings at the time, why didn't you confess, do you know that at that time she may have waited for you for a long time, and if you can't wait, you will try to forget you, and finally forget you, you just came, she no longer has the original feelings, and she may remember the original loss when she sees you, and if she misses it, she will miss it, and it is good to put it in her heart, there is no need to make her so uncomfortable.

There should be no chance to use it, you just have no fate. The relationship didn't happen at the right time, when she gave you a chance, you didn't grasp her and gradually let you go. The opportunity is lost, so let's look forward.

When you meet the right person at the right time, everything is in time, and when you meet the wrong person at the right time, how can you not do it? If you meet the right person at the wrong time, you can't do anything, and if you meet the wrong person at the wrong time, it's wrong and wrong, isn't it very tangled?

Anyway, it only means that you like her, or that you are treated as a spare tire, and you feel that she has feelings for you, but you are not her ideal choice, just like a quadratic function, you are not the optimal solution.

It feels like there shouldn't be a chance. At the very least, you should take the initiative to make more appointments and re-cultivate good feelings. At the same time, you need to pay attention to some of your behavior, if you are single, there are still opportunities. If there is an object, then it is necessary to let go.

It is estimated that there is no chance, the girl may have really liked you at the beginning, and she has been waiting for you to confess and can't wait, and when you confess, she may have empathized and fallen in love with someone else, so, if you miss it, you can't go back.

I don't think there's much of a chance, after all, it's been so long. There are also many misunderstandings between each other, and when you like each other, she is still hesitant; When she gives you a chance, you hesitate again! Be decisive in doing things in the future.

Life is a journey, everyone has the same end, but they can choose different paths, different ways do not conspire with each other, people who have you in their hearts will choose the same road as you, and spend all the hardships and dangers with you.

You have blessed each other.

She's taken her share of responsibility for the first time you've taken it.

The above shows that this is a woman who is worth your life.

You should respect her opinion.

You should silently wish her to find her true love soon.

You no longer interfere with her normal life: it is the best way for you to make up for your guilt. When she needs your help, you should try to help her!

You and her may still be possible. That's when she feels like your performance has taken her heart to the ground! She decided to choose you again. Emotional matters are not reluctant, it is recommended that you go with the flow!

Bless you deeply!

If she still loves you, you still love him. You can go ahead and chase it back. A lot of times, it's just a superficial thing. Women sometimes have a hard time talking.

That woman is with other men, so it's better not to bother at this time, which will make the woman hate you even more.