Is my friend still around? Are your friends still around?

After reading your question, I was very touched in my heart. I had this experience before, and in the end, I gave up on this good friend's relationship with him and stepped back to become a friend.

After reading your question, I feel that you are very dependent on your friends, and you are also very selfish, and I hope that your friends will be by your side to share time with you. And you don't understand that you can actually blend into his world, socialize with his friends, and turn two people into a bunch of people. That way you will see the side that you don't see, and over time you will understand whether you are right or wrong.

It's normal for friends to have conflicts, people will also change, what you need to do is how to be yourself, as long as you live up to your friends, you have a clear conscience, you have nothing to think about yourself, life is long, you will know more friends in the future, it is impossible for you to recognize everyone, you completely share their worries, plan for them, go your own way, don't do sorry for your friends, after a long time, your popularity will naturally be there

Finally, let me tell you: A true friend is to see the truth in adversity.

People are meant to separate virtues, maybe he is like you said, he pretends not to care on the surface but cares very much in his heart, after all, you yourself have said it, it is very difficult to speak by yourself.

If you really think of him as a friend, you should say it yourself, or your friendship is over.

How long has it been since you swiped your friend's activity in Moments?

Have you noticed that our dear hair boys, the dynamics of girlfriends are rarely seen. Unless you deliberately open their circle of friends, their dynamics have already been covered by various personal brand builders and micro-business swipes.

So, how do you maintain your relationship with your friends today?

Even if you get together, do you find that feelings are not as real as the era of mobile phones.

Times have changed, and so have the patterns of people getting along with each other. In the past, talking about the affairs of Sun Zhen has become a fashion and news. Now, even elementary school students can talk to you about current affairs and news, and it can only be said that technology is advancing, and people's minds are also advancing.

After carefully calculating the number of his friends, now there are few of them. Ordinary friends don't count, students don't count, according to good friends, the peak was ten years ago, dozens of close friends, now, can speak, feel that the heart is still there only two or three.

It's not about who leaves whom, it's about influencing too many factors: geography, distance, age, perceptions, ......If the years can be turned back, I will definitely manage more carefully.

First of all, I will definitely open the cheeky mode, although I am not in the same place, but I will take the initiative to contact **or** every week, I will take the initiative to create more opportunities to meet, sincerely care about each other's lives, compare my heart to my heart, and hope that others will treat you, and you will act first.

Then, turn on the giving mode that you can. In daily life, I will share the knowledge that I have done or the small gifts I have carefully prepared with friends who need it. No one will refuse to grow up, and life is always a little surprise.

Finally, the mentality is flat, to do the above two points, or to lose Tongla to some friends, to warn yourself, what is left is sincere, and the future is beautiful!

Although the circle of friends is not in the "circle of friends", you can take the initiative to pay attention to the circle of friends who care about people, and you don't have to care who is active and passive, and you can manage it with your heart and harvest the real "friends" circle!

Ten years ago and now, has the number of your friends increased or decreased?

With age.

They're all busy.

It's all gone.

Such "friends" are obviously not conducive to your psychological state and growth, and here are some suggestions for coping:

1.Be firm in your beliefs: Don't shake your beliefs by being easily beaten and belittled, and be firm in your positions and values.

2.Recognize the reality: In the face of this bush of unconstructive people, it is very necessary to maintain a distance, be sure to recognize their true colors, take inspiration from reality, and make wise decisions.

3.Self-reflection: Empathy and self-reflection are necessary. Whether there is a certain truth in their words, whether they can find their own shortcomings from the feedback of his Ming banquet, learn from the fierce acacia cherry blossoms, and improve themselves.

4.Get out of negative emotions: deal with your emotions, don't fall into depression, anger or frustration because of the blows of friends, you can get out of negative emotions through positive psychological counseling, physical exercise, etc.

5.Find support: Find support and encouragement around you to build healthy, nurturing relationships with friends, family, lovers, etc., to get through difficult times together.

In short, when encountering unfavorable situations, don't give up easily, choose a way to cope with them to optimize your own state, find support and help, and face the difficulties in life with a more positive and upward attitude.

To check whether a person is a real friend, you can choose to borrow money or keep bothering the other person.

In real life, some of the friends are very stable and can accompany us through this life, while others are very fragile, and a simple loan may make the relationship between the two fall to a freezing point.

The friends who are willing to lend you money are your true friends. There is never an easy word in adult society, everyone is struggling to move forward, and it is not easy for everyone to make money.

When you are in trouble in life, you think of your friends. When you open your mouth to borrow money from friends, most of them will refuse, and only a limited number of people will be willing to lend you their savings, and they are your real friends.

With the continuous deterioration of the social atmosphere, there are more and more cases where friends borrow money and do not pay it back, and friends who are willing to lend you money under this condition really regard you as a relative.

A true friend who will not be afraid of you bothering him. You can ask him for help, as long as he is willing to help you as long as he can, it means that he is a real friend.

I've tried this way, today I ask a friend to help me carry something, tomorrow I ask a friend to help me do some work, it's not a big deal, it's just a lot of trouble. Most people will refuse, but there are always one or two people, although they are scolding, but they can do things for you.

I think this way of verification is a bit unfriendly, but I really had something to do at the time, so I bothered my friends like this, and I couldn't do it in my daily life.

In fact, for us, friendship does not need to be tested at all, and the friendship that can be precipitated by time can often be your lifelong friend.

In real life, human nature really can't stand the test, and when you want to check whether a friend is a real friend, you may be disappointed. Because there is no one way to accurately test whether your friends treat you sincerely, everyone's situation is different, and some things cannot be generalized.

Manage your friendship with heart, and believe that the friendship precipitated in time will accompany you for a lifetime.

In fact, everyone should be a real friend should be a particularly lucky thing, because in the vast sea of people, it is not easy for you to find like-minded people with yourself, especially in today's society, everyone has their own abacus in their hearts, I don't know what they are thinking, maybe what they say and what they think in their hearts is completely inconsistent, and adult friendship is based on interests.

I also have two good friends recently, and it is very easy to negotiate at work, and they usually help each other in life, since I fell in love, I did ignore a lot of them, at least there are some things in my heart that I won't tell them, because I met the most important person in my life, and it is the kind of boyfriend who is married for the purpose of marriage, during which they also said that I am heavy on sex and light friends, and I forget my friends when I have a boyfriend, because they sometimes call me out to play, but I don't have time, Or maybe I think it's happier to be with my boyfriend.

Even so, I still think that they are my best friends, because I have experienced a lot of things in the past, and I may feel some guilt about them, but for my future life, I think I still have to distinguish what kind of life I want to live in the future, friends are important, but home is the warmest harbor, this is what I say in my heart.

It is indeed the case, the best friend relationship may exist before the love, because at that time they are relatively simple and wait for the love to get married and have their own small family, put half of the energy in the family, so that there will be a very neglected place for friends, if it is a real friend does not care about this, after all, everyone has to fall in love, it is impossible to be single for a lifetime, I believe that as long as it is a friend, mutual understanding and tolerance can become the most important friend in their hearts.

My friend, have you ever waited for a high mountain?

Have you ever been to the sea?

There, if the spring flowers bloom freely, is the silence sad for you?

Or does it bother you?

You should stride up the mountain with your head held high, and look at the sea with obsession in your heart, and in such a world, you should forget your troubles, forget your sorrows, and ......

My friend! When will you answer for me, my long-muffled questions have been lingering;

Smooth and tortuous water flow, please flow slowly, I want to catch up with your flow speed, rippling happy water waves, not aggrieved by nature, the most beautiful painting will be painted to you;

A quiet and melodious sonata, please play slowly, I want to keep up with your rhythm, with the beautiful sound, do not hide the pure natural sound, and dedicate the happiest piece to you.

And such a you, when will you be able to appear ......