How should the elderly in rural areas spend their old age?

Updated on society 2024-08-12
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Many of the elderly in rural areas can live to be more than 80 years old, for such seventy or eighty-year-old people, it is not uncommon in rural areas, some are still in good health, and can walk, but there are also various diseases in the body, for them, life in old age is not very good. The elderly in rural areas don't like to go to the hospital, even if they have to leave, they have to grow old at home, and they can't stand the toss of going back and forth to the hospital, so once the disease occurs, they also know their qi number, and they want to stay at home and wait for death.

    In their old age, the elderly in rural areas are not as relaxed as in the city, and when they reach their old age, they basically don't go out much, get up early in the morning to cook and eat by themselves, and then sit in the yard during the day to bask in the sun. Because the elderly in rural areas, as long as they can still move, can cook and grow vegetables, they will take care of themselves, and they don't have to trouble others with two meals a day, because the old man's life and eating time are very different from his son's family.

    In the countryside, it is unlikely that someone will take care of the elderly, because the countryside is not idle all the time, and the countryside is not always able to eat on time and go home on time, working in the fields, I am out early to redeem, few people can take care of the elderly at home, many times, they just cook and eat by themselves, and go to bed early at night, and they can't wait for the rest of the family to come back. Besides, for a long time, they live on their own, have their own schedule, and no one talks to them, goes out for a walk with them, and at most when their grandchildren come back, they will visit them.

    Of course, it can't be defined as the fact that children are not filial, because the countryside is such a way of life, and filial piety in the countryside may be simply said, having a house for the elderly to live in, not driving them out, giving them medical treatment when they are sick, giving them some food if they don't have food, or taking some money to them every year as living expenses, even if they are very filial, they can be regarded as serious support for the elderly, and they do not feel pitiful. Of course, in real life, many elderly people's two meals a day, may be unattended, if the elderly who are inconvenient to move, there is no one to take care of them, many times, they can only wait, waiting for someone to give them food, sometimes, they are getting weaker and weaker, and finally only skin and bones are left, in fact, they are not sick, but slowly starved and thin.

    Although life is not very good, although the old people in rural areas live in their later years, in addition to eating and sleeping, that is, sitting, fortunately, they are in good health, and there will be no major diseases, like to move, often work for the elderly, the health is still very good, although everyone sees them feel pitiful, in fact, this is also a kind of happy old age, because their hearts are not longing for too much, the greatest hope, there is food and clothing, in fact, it is the greatest happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    You should chat or take a walk with your good friends, and if you are in good physical condition, you can travel with your wife.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You should find someone to play chess, play mahjong, dance square dance, take grandchildren, watch TV series, and travel, all of which are good old age.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Every day, I do what I like to do, and I often talk to the old people in the village.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Everyone has a different understanding of life and a different way of life, so there is no standard answer to how to live in old age. In my heart, old age is not a lonely sunset, but a new beginning of a better life.

    I think that's how my old age should be:

    have a circle of friends of your own, you can chat about family life and talk to each other;

    Some of your own small wishes, you can travel and relax;

    Some of your own interests and hobbies can be used to socialize with others and help each other;

    Have your own way of exercising, persevere, and live a healthy and long old age;

    Having a trusted friend to talk to can not only relax your mind, but also prevent rigid thinking, live in the moment, leave everything in the past, and learn to listen and talk;

    It is important to have a positive attitude, don't always think negatively, not only to bring pressure to the younger generation, but also to bring negative emotions and affect the atmosphere of getting along.

    But in fact, old age is largely a continuation of the state of young life, and it is difficult to completely separate it, so the best protective armor in old age is a life that is carefully spent before it arrives. Do a health check-up twice a year and read the physical examination report carefully. Push yourself through a physical examination and seek medical attention in time if you find a problem**.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello: 1. Coarse tea and light rice, happy and happy. The elderly living in the countryside now, judging from their daily life, eat very simply, just a bun, a vegetable and a soup.

    They eat the grain grown in their own fields, the vegetables grown in their own fields, and the meals made by their novices, which are very reassuring and delicious. It's really delicious, inexpensive, and affordable. Although there are no delicacies from the mountains and seas, there are also eggs or chicken, which is really green and environmentally friendly, and health first.

    2. Fresh air, healthy exercise. In recent years, with the satisfaction of material life, food and clothing do not have to worry, in the slack season, some elderly people get up in the morning, go to the road to run, breathe fresh air, appreciate the natural scenery of nature, the heart is extremely refreshing; After dinner, three or five elderly people took a walk together and danced a song in the square, they talked, laughed, and chatted, and there were endless topics to talk about, and they were very satisfied. 3. Just want to be happy and relaxed.

    Whenever they have breakfast, these elderly people, according to their hobbies, some of them live together in groups to chat, and they used to talk only about "meaty meat", but now they talk about "how their children and grandchildren are developing, as well as domestic and international events, and the situation of the new crown pneumonia epidemic......, etc.""The topic that can't be talked about endlessly, it's a lively scene. Some elderly people like to go to gatherings, watch big plays, etc., in short, they are very happy and happy, such examples are numerous, abound.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If there is no problem with physical health, the elderly in rural areas can still live a fulfilling life in their later years, and they can engage in some farm work within their ability, which not only exercises their bodies, but also makes their lives full and meaningful.

    If the child is not around or is not filial, it may be another bleak situation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The elderly in rural areas are very frugal in their later years. In my impression, the rural life of the elderly in rural areas is generally accompanied by their children or they live with two elderly people.

    The elderly who live by themselves are divided into two categories, one is accompanied by their children who often come back; The other is to ignore the elderly. No matter what kind of person it is, I hope that my children will have a sincere desire to accompany the elderly.

    When my parents were young, they worked hard to provide us with a good living environment, although they often told us to save some money and flowers. However, they will give the money they have to use in life.

    So, treat your parents well, and don't let them feel like they are withdrawn and no one cares.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The elderly in rural areas can't stay in their old age, so they can help their children watch the children, and then plant some vegetables in their own yards, which is very easy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In addition to subsidies for five-guarantee households, low-income households, and those who have served in the military, the state will pay more than 100 yuan a month to ordinary elderly people over the age of 65, and they will also have to rely on their own savings, continue to work, and respect their children.

    The elderly need to be healthy, and if they are disabled or seriously ill, it will be difficult.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    With the improvement of the national pension policy, the rural elderly may be very secure in their later years.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Let the elderly be able to "rely on the elderly".

    Ensure that pensions can be paid in a timely and accurate manner. Implement the new rural old-age insurance system, strictly control the pension payment procedures, and ensure that the elderly who have reached the pension period can receive the pension in time and in full, so that the elderly can "rely on the old". **The relevant departments can send some practical gifts to the elderly in rural areas on certain festivals, so that the emotions of the elderly can be correspondingly sustenance and will not be so lonely, because at least the state cares for them and gives them material help.

    This is exactly what the state has done for the "social security of the elderly".

    2. Improve the level of human health care.

    In the improvement of the level of medical and health security, it is necessary to pay attention to the regular physical examination of the elderly, professional medical staff should record the physical condition of each elderly person in detail, and always pay attention to the state of the elderly, especially for those who have physical diseases. There should be a large number of elderly people in a group living environment, and more attention needs to be paid to medical and health security, not only relying on the help of medical staff, but also requiring the elderly to have a clear understanding of their own physical condition. Through the organization of medical and health lectures, the elderly can improve their awareness of their own health.

    3. The elderly themselves should participate in more outdoor activities.

    Sunlight can promote an increase in adrenaline, thyroxine, and gonadine through the connection between the eye and nerve fibers. A decrease in adrenaline will cause cells to be in a state of inhibition, which will lead to symptoms such as low mood and mental exhaustion. The elderly usually participate in outdoor activities and bask in the sun, which can effectively improve their sense of well-being.

    4. Children should spend more time with the elderly at home.

    Material satisfaction of parents is important, but spiritual care, care is far beyond all this, parents to old age, material needs are secondary, the soul inevitably needs the children's condolences and care, so both have their importance. "Love" is to be meticulous and considerate to parents: ask about the cold and warmth when the weather changes, and remind you to add or remove clothes in time; When I am out at work, I should often go home to see and help my parents wash and scrub; When parents are sick for a long time, they should not only take good care of them, but also comfort them frequently, so that they can feel comfortable and happy, and establish confidence and courage to fight against the disease.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How do you look at the old age of the elderly in rural areas? Nowadays, the elderly in rural areas are all born in the 50s and 60s, and there are older people.

    The elderly in the rural areas do not have pensions compared with the retired elderly in the cities, and no matter how low they are, they can at least ensure a normal old age life, and under normal circumstances, they can live a worry-free life.

    There is no pension for the elderly in rural areas, and the most is the monthly pension subsidy given by the state.

    If the family conditions in the rural areas are good, the elderly should not have to worry about their lives. In this case, the quality of life in old age is very good.

    The filial piety of the children of the elderly in rural areas can help the elderly solve many problems encountered in the life of the elderly, and the elderly are also spiritually satisfied.

    Some elderly people in rural areas have poor family conditions, are not financially secure, and do not care about their children. This kind of old man is poor, with no money and no one to take care of.

    This kind of old man can only rely on himself, and he can still make ends meet when his body can move. The most difficult thing is that when the old man can't move, eating becomes a problem, which is the most pitiful.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Rural people's old age life is relatively bleak, if the children are around, it is fine, but they generally do not have a job, so the life is more difficult, if the children are not around, it will be even more desolate, their health is okay, if the body is not hard, there is no one to take care of.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Those who are close to their children can rely on their children, and of course it depends on whether the children are filial. If the children are too far away or the elderly who have to go out to work to support their lives, the future of old age is worrying. In this case, even if the elderly can take care of themselves, there is no guarantee that there will be no illness or accident, and once there is a problem, no one can help solve it in time.

    Nowadays, private nursing homes are also popular in rural areas, that is, you give money, and they help take care of the elderly. This kind of cost is certainly not cheap, besides, if the children are left alone, can others do their best?

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    |In the countryside, many old people's old life is monotonous, even a little desolate and sad, they are still active in the fields, Nuoda villages, except for the old and children, there are no young people......

    At home, you still need to be self-sufficient, cook and eat by yourself, and be able to do some manual work by the way.

    Sometimes, the most fundamental reason is because of loneliness and no one to accompany you.

    The old man sees it as a very interesting thing to take care of children. The elderly love children, and it is good for them to take care of them, but it is not so easy to watch children.

    The older generation of people in Youyang are self-reliant, and if they can raise a few cattle and sheep, they can have their own pocket money.

    It's very simple to make some food by yourself, just eat enough, because there are few people in the family, and no matter how much you cook, it will be boring.

    It is perhaps the greatest joy for several elderly people in a village to be able to get together, because the children have gone outside.

    Carry a basket on your back, or pick up a basket, go to the street to buy and sell things, once a few days, and basically rarely fall.

    The farm work at home and harvesting the crops are obviously not their strong points, and they can still take care of them when they take them back and dry them in the yard.

    You still have to do the farm work in the field by yourself.

    Digging the ground, planting vegetables, you can pass the time, and most importantly, this is the basic of life.

    Sometimes, it's really not easy to look at them, but their lives are so selflessly dedicated to their children and this land, and they will be even more ......sad when they are idle

    If there is no "loneliness".

    Their lives should have been happier.

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