These words are sent to yourself You have to thank the person who told you about your shortcomings

No one is perfect, and as long as everyone is a human being, there are shortcomings. Some shortcomings are not subject to the collapse of human will, that is to say, no matter how hard an individual tries, this shortcoming will not change; And some shortcomings can be changed through individual efforts, of course, to a greater or lesser extent.

Then I think that as a self-motivated person, we should have the courage and stomach to tolerate others pointing out our shortcomings, and to speak our conscience, and we should also express our gratitude. If this shortcoming does exist in us and can be changed through our personal efforts, then we must strive to change it, and only then can we improve.

Why is this text being written? Just a few days ago, I had such an opportunity, and I was pointed out by 15 people without mercy, and it was really painful! Share it with you and summarize it yourself:

On March 21, the project organized all party members to hold a democratic life meeting, criticism and self-criticism, the atmosphere of the meeting was serious and serious, never sloppy, everyone should be responsible for pointing out other shortcomings in thought, work and life, here I summarize their shortcomings in the eyes of colleagues:

To sum up, that's all, there is indeed a trace of nervousness in the process of listening, but if you don't say a lot of problems, you may not know the problem in your life, and it is not difficult for us to find it in real life.

There are many, many people, who only like others to say good, and when others mention their own shortcomings, not only can they not accept it, but they will also express their dissatisfaction first, I don't know what such people think, but at least I think that whether the stomach is too narrow, no matter what, no matter what the person's starting point is, if the point out of this aspect is indeed the existence of your shortcomings, then congratulations, if you accept it, then you have hope to go further, If you can pay attention to it later and try to avoid it, then you are actually taking a step forward.

Therefore, in my future life, I hope that someone can point out my shortcomings, and only by doing so can we improve, progress, and cultivate ourselves better.

Text: Leaves. Sometimes when you get along with others, part of it depends on what kind of person you are, if you can accept criticism from others in public, others may point out your shortcomings in public, and if you can't accept criticism from others in public, others will chat privately.

The surrounding atmosphere feels very good, relatively speaking, quite free, equal and inclusive. My sisters and teachers sometimes point out what I did wrong, and when I do something wrong, I admit it, and some things will be corrected. Sometimes I will say that the teacher and the sister are wrong.

When I had a meeting a few days ago, I didn't speak very calmly because of a certain matter, which involved my interests. A teacher said to me at the time: Don't talk so strongly.

My sister said to me: You sometimes speak, with emotion. I suddenly realized that it was really like that, and I didn't realize it before.

However, the reason why they would talk about me in front of everyone was because they knew that I could accept what others said about me, or with the emotional intelligence of the teachers and sisters, they would never tell me in private chats, and sometimes I was really grateful to those who pointed out my shortcomings, otherwise I sometimes really didn't realize it.

Sometimes I will directly say that the teachers are wrong, and sometimes I will point out what is wrong with Teacher A, and the teacher will say thank you or apologize or explain to me.

Teacher B sometimes points out something wrong with him, sometimes he is upset and remembers it, occasionally he asks me for something else, and sometimes I fight back. He said, "I'm such a peaceful person, only you can arouse my anger, and sometimes I'm so angry that I want to hit you."

But most of the time, we get along okay, occasionally when we look for me, when I am angry, it doesn't work, but the time of anger is relatively short, and then we get along normally.

Teacher C, when I point out that he is not in the right place, he may be angry at the time, but he will not hold a grudge against me for looking for me, sometimes we will even argue loudly, but we will not talk to people about things, and it will be fine after a while, it should be chatting or chatting.

Since childhood, we all want to be praised by others, and we like to live in the eyes of worship, which is human nature. We all hate people who speak out about our shortcomings, and even think that they are picking bones in eggs. And when you grow up, you need to thank those who find fault with you.

In the adult world, everyone is accustomed to praising each other, and it is an unwritten rule that he can praise you to the sky where you are good, and he does not mention anything bad about you. Living in the praise of others all day long, slowly, there will be a sense of superiority, thinking that you are really good. I know that one day, you see a better person, only to realize that you are nothing.

And regretted that if someone could have pointed out their shortcomings, they would have corrected them earlier. Then I won't be like a fool, living in an illusory world, living high, until one day I was slammed to the ground by reality, and my body was bruised.

The one who points out your shortcomings, at least sincerely. Otherwise, in this busy society, everyone is busy with their own affairs, who cares about you. Even if you do something wrong, your superiors just let you leave, and you don't even get angry, and a few words of understatement will send you away.

Because everyone is busy, he won't even give you a hand out when he tells you what you're doing wrong because he doesn't think you're worth it.

So, for those who point out your shortcomings, don't let them nag, don't think that his words are not as good as those that praise you. In fact, his seemingly impersonal words may be worth much more than vague compliments. Moreover, he is at least willing to take the time to talk about your shortcomings, instead of seeing that you are wrong and not saying a word, laughing at you in his heart for a few seconds and then treating you as a person.

Thank you, those who are willing to point out my shortcomings, and it is the luck of my life to meet you on the way to growth! Man does not live by the body, but by the heart. Sometimes, change your mood and you'll be happier.

The heart is a field, relying on oneself to sow seeds, sow good causes, and thus reap good fruits; Sow evil causes, so get evil results.

I very much agree with this sentence, I think that the person who can tell you about your shortcomings shows that this person is a person who sincerely wants to hope that you are good, and will not look at your jokes, and such a person is also worth cherishing.

Agree, it is undeniable that no matter how perfect and excellent a person is, there must be shortcomings in him, but not everyone will tell you your shortcomings and let you correct them. So you have to thank the people who tell you about your shortcomings, because these are the people who make you more perfect.

I agree with this statement. Because not everyone will tell you when they find your shortcomings, most of them choose not to say it, and most of the people who talk to you directly are very close people.