How can I help my child get rid of his carelessness?

Lead by example first.

Practical approach.

Guide her how to do it, and don't keep talking about her.

This is a habit problem, but also a psychological problem, it is recommended to consult a psychologist if you can't change it, they have a very good way to deal with this.

1. Empathy: Small children do not have a strong sense of self-management, and careless loss of things will make you feel troubled.

2. Concretization: What do you mean by "always careless, lost"?

Third, the cause of the problem, and specific analysis:

A children do not develop good self-management habits: children in grades 1-3, careless, lost is also a very normal thing, because they basically only want to play, take out things to use, but do not develop a good sense of tidying up and self-management, plus some families, sometimes things are lost, and then buy for the children, so that some children will feel that it doesn't matter, anyway, they will not bear any responsibility for the loss, slowly, will develop similar habits.

Solution: (1) If there is a problem of carelessness and losing things, parents must not simply and too much reprimand their children, so that children may not even dare to say anything when they lose things in the future, and will gradually develop into the phenomenon of "lying".

2) Cultivate children's sense of responsibility, let children realize that their own things should be taken care of and protected by themselves, if they are valuable, lost or damaged by themselves, they can no longer be bought, so that children understand the importance of cleaning up and protecting their belongings.

3) Always urge your child to check whether he has all the items around him, such as being able to program phrases or poems for his child to remember, for example, don't forget to "reach out for money" (ID card, mobile phone, keys, change) when you go out.

4) Make marks on items that are easy to lose with your child, such as writing your name and class with transparent glue.

5) Cultivate children's spirit of picking up money, return the things they have picked up that do not belong to them, experience a sense of achievement, and by the way, they can also experience their own anxious and anxious feelings when they can't find their things.

How can I help my child break the habit of carelessness?

After the child has done his homework, first of all, the parents do not have to help check zhi, and.

Don't point out a mistake as soon as you notice it and let it be corrected. Otherwise, the child will be more empowered.

If you are careless, you will make more and more mistakes in your sloppy work. Parents should let their children check their homework and let them spot the mistakes caused by carelessness. After the child is checked out and corrected, parents should praise it exaggeratedly in time.