How can I get my child to get rid of carelessness?

1. Empathy: Small children do not have a strong sense of self-management, and careless loss of things will make you feel troubled.

2. Concretization: What do you mean by "always careless, lost"?

Third, the cause of the problem, and specific analysis:

A children do not develop good self-management habits: children in grades 1-3, careless, lost is also a very normal thing, because they basically only want to play, take out things to use, but do not develop a good sense of tidying up and self-management, plus some families, sometimes things are lost, and then buy for the children, so that some children will feel that it doesn't matter, anyway, they will not bear any responsibility for the loss, slowly, will develop similar habits.

Solution: (1) If there is a problem of carelessness and losing things, parents must not simply and too much reprimand their children, so that children may not even dare to say anything when they lose things in the future, and will gradually develop into the phenomenon of "lying".

2) Cultivate children's sense of responsibility, let children realize that their own things should be taken care of and protected by themselves, if they are valuable, lost or damaged by themselves, they can no longer be bought, so that children understand the importance of cleaning up and protecting their belongings.

3) Always urge your child to check whether he has all the items around him, such as being able to program phrases or poems for his child to remember, for example, don't forget to "reach out for money" (ID card, mobile phone, keys, change) when you go out.

4) Make marks on items that are easy to lose with your child, such as writing your name and class with transparent glue.

5) Cultivate children's spirit of picking up money, return the things they have picked up that do not belong to them, experience a sense of achievement, and by the way, they can also experience their own anxious and anxious feelings when they can't find their things.

How can I help my child break the habit of carelessness?

After the child has done his homework, first of all, the parents do not have to help check zhi, and.

Don't point out a mistake as soon as you notice it and let it be corrected. Otherwise, the child will be more empowered.

If you are careless, you will make more and more mistakes in your sloppy work. Parents should let their children check their homework and let them spot the mistakes caused by carelessness. After the child is checked out and corrected, parents should praise it exaggeratedly in time.

In the face of the child's carelessness, the mother should show more patience and tolerance, slowly think of a way, do not blindly command, criticize, and do not expect to achieve it overnight. The good habit of children's carefulness is developed little by little in daily life. Method 1:

Helping children find the "carelessness point" A mother of a 10-year-old child has a lot of experience in solving the problem of her child's carelessness: My child's math score is not good, after my child and I carefully analyzed the reasons why he made mistakes every time, we came to the same conclusion: it is not that the questions cannot be done, but that the questions will be read wrong every time.

From this, I learned that it is easy to read the wrong questions is the "careless point" of children. So, I told my child, "The reason why you are careless is that your mind slips through every time you review the problem."

What to do? In the future, every time you do this kind of question, you should stop for a moment, close your eyes and count to three, and then open your eyes and write down, so that it is not easy to make mistakes. Because you didn't let the mind slip through, you consciously put a barrier in it.

It's like a police uncle setting up a warning sign in a traffic accident-prone area. The child did it the same way I taught him, and the effect was really obvious, and every time he did his homework, there were far fewer mistakes due to carelessness. See, in the face of the child's carelessness, instead of criticizing the child and giving the child a "political lesson", the mother should specifically help them find the crux of the problem and use the right method to help the child solve the problem.

Method 2: Let the child prepare a mistake book A child's homework book and composition text are full of typos, so the child has low self-esteem, and his mother is also helpless about it. So, the child's mother went to consult a child education expert, and under the guidance of the education expert, the mother came up with a good solution.

She counted and sorted out the typos in his homework book with the child, and after sorting them out, she and the child were surprised to find that there were only a few words that were always written wrong. Finally, she asked the child to prepare a small notebook, write the sorted typos in this notebook, and analyze the reasons for the mistakes with the child, and write these into the notebook.

With the mother's patient guidance and the child's serious persistence, after a week, the typos in the child's homework book have been significantly reduced. If your child is careless, you may wish to ask him to prepare a correction book. As a matter of fact, as long as the "careless" problems are sorted out in detail, these problems can be corrected ideologically and consciously.

When a child encounters similar problems in the future, the brain will automatically give early warnings and reactions, so that the phenomenon of "carelessness" can be controlled to the greatest extent. It's like walking on ice, because the ice is very slippery, so you have to walk carefully, because you are careful, so you will naturally make a lot less mistakes. Method 3:

Focusing on carefulness When encountering the problem of carelessness in children, the average mother either complains or criticizes, but the effect of this is often not very obvious. In fact, if mom changes her thinking, it is also a good way to make a fuss about being careful. A mom used to be like that.

What should I do if my child is careless?

How can we get rid of our carelessness and overcome this distance? I have the following observations.

1. Carefully review the topic.

After getting the test paper, you must read the questions slowly, especially if the questions are long, and read them slowly. While reading and thinking, it is important to write down important information. If it is a topic such as mathematics, physics and chemistry, it is more intuitive and vivid to use sketches.

Don't take a quick look at the topic, and don't jump to conclusions without reading the topic. This is because, while some topics may seem familiar, in fact their known conditions may change. Only by carefully reviewing the question and seeing the meaning of the question clearly can we avoid low-level mistakes.

Second, the calculation is neat and accurate.

Children should use scratch paper when doing mathematics, physics and chemistry problems, and if they encounter more complex problems, they should list many equations and calculation formulas. Then look closely at these equations and find out the hidden information in the problem to solve the problem.

If your child's scratch paper is a mess, it is easy to mismove numbers and symbols. If your child does the calculations on the draft correctly, he or she will be able to solve the correct answer easily. Therefore, parents should usually urge their children to be neat and accurate, orderly, busy but not chaotic.

3. Go back and check.

After completing a problem, you should judge the reasonableness of the result based on your own life experience or the method of reverse deduction. If there is a result that does not make sense, there must be something wrong and you need to go back and check immediately.

When checking, the main thing to look at is the known conditions and the calculation process. This is where clean and neat scratch paper is important.

Fourth, dig deep into the root cause of the wrong question.

This phenomenon often occurs in reality, and some difficult problems are slightly solved, and the child will know the correct way to solve them. These mistakes that seem to be caused by carelessness are actually due to unclear concepts and weak basic knowledge.

At this time, don't pass by and change it. It is necessary to dig deep into the root cause of the wrong questions, figure out the corresponding knowledge points in the textbook, use comparative techniques, draw inferences from one another, and integrate them, so as to achieve the realm of doing one question and one type of question.

5. Concentrate on the questions.

Parents should not only tell their children to pay attention when doing homework, but also designate a separate place or room in the home to create a quiet and undisturbed environment for their children. Let your child turn off the computer when he does his homework, and then concentrate and complete his homework quickly. When the child slowly develops the habit of concentrating on the problem, carelessness will naturally stay away from him.

Only when you treat your homework as if it were an exam, will the exam be as relaxed and enjoyable as doing your homework, and your child will be able to get good grades.

In short, carelessness is a bad habit, and I believe that every child can get rid of this bad habit with hard work. This first requires the child to build up his own confidence, make up his mind, and at the same time patiently and slowly correct his carelessness according to the above methods. When the habit of carefulness is formed, carelessness will completely leave the child, and the child's grades will naturally skyrocket.

Let him or her play more games like finding the difference.