When your boyfriend s ex comes back to him, will you agree to them meeting?

The boyfriend's ex is actually a fierce rival, although the two of them have broken up, but it is inevitable that after the breakup, the boyfriend's ex may continue to contact them and want to get back together with them. If my boyfriend's ex comes back to him, I don't agree with the two of them meeting.

I think most girls will not agree at this time, because we know that his ex must have bad intentions when he comes back to him, so he will resolutely refuse at this time. Some girls may think that if I refuse, the boy will think that we are ignorant, because he and his ex have broken up, and the two of them are just simple friends, but in the eyes of girls, it is not so simple.

Sometimes girls understand girls very well, and they know what girls are thinking in their hearts, so when we know his ex and come back to him, we can guess in our hearts. It's not that I want to test him, or I want to know what his feelings are for him now, and even some exes come back to our boyfriend at this time to get back together with him. Because some girls will feel that their boyfriend likes them after breaking up with their boyfriend, so he will not look for the next one, but once the boy finds the next one, they will not be able to sit still.

If he insisted on seeing this girl, then I would ask to go with him to see this girl, so that we would know more in our hearts what was going on with them, instead of being suspicious of him after he returned. What I don't agree with is that the two of them meet alone, and if we can meet with him, then of course I can. In fact, this is also a disadvantage for his ex, whether they are talking about work or wanting to get back together with our boyfriend, there is no problem for us to appear with him, because the two are a couple, and the two are already together.

Wouldn't agree. Love between a man and a woman is selfish and does not need to leave an empty space for other women. Once you give your boyfriend a chance to meet his ex, there's a good chance they'll rekindle and you'll be dumped at that point. Don't trust your boyfriend's determination too much, or you'll lose badly.

Disagree. This woman is very excessive, knowing that he is already in love with you, but she shamelessly comes back to him.

I would agree to meet them, but if I am present, it doesn't matter if I don't avoid people, they talk.

Yes, because I'm confident in myself and I think I'm attractive enough.

Don't be friends when you break up, I don't want my boyfriend to have a so-called confidante.

Whether you call me selfish, or you call me domineering, I will never allow my boyfriend to have contact with his ex, even if it is just an ordinary friend, love itself is selfish.

Two people in a relationship can only maintain this relationship if they have each other in their hearts, and if the boyfriend and the ex are in contact, it is easy to cause misunderstandings between the two people, and it is easy to make me think that the ex still has a very important place in his heart.

If the most important thing for him is his ex, then what am I?

I don't think anyone is so selfless and willing to share their love with someone, and my boyfriend only has two choices, either break off the relationship with his ex, or I will become his ex.

There are too many negative examples around me, and I have a friend who always thinks that as long as she loves that person seriously, they can go to the end, but the truth is really heartbreaking.

She tolerates her boyfriend's communication with her ex and understands her boyfriend's feelings, but who understands her? What is lost is always the best, and the final ending is that she becomes an ex, and her boyfriend gets back together with her ex.

Doesn't it feel like it's bloody, and it's like watching a TV series, but this kind of situation really happens a lot in life, and I don't want to end up like this.

I allow you to leave a place in your heart, but you are never allowed to have a connection between you. I think this is the most basic respect for our relationship, and it is also one of the important ways to show sincerity.

If you want to fly, I can carry the pain, but if you don't have the idea yet, I won't give you the freedom to go overboard. This is my standard of love, and it is also the importance I attach to this relationship.

Dealing with people and things, comparing hearts to hearts, do you want me to have contact with my ex?

I can be considerate of you, but please also be considerate of me, I think this is love.

Of course, I mind that my boyfriend is still in touch with his ex. No matter how it was before. My current boyfriend can only be dedicated to me as a girl.

No girl wants her boyfriend to empathize. Since you choose to love a girl, you must devote yourself to it, love her alone, love her for a lifetime, and never eat from the bowl and look at the pot. To love a girl is to be single-minded and responsible for your feelings.

You can't have any contact with your ex. If there is a connection, it can only mean that you are entangled, and it means that you have ulterior emotions, which is easy to misunderstand your current girlfriend and affect your feelings. So every girl is very mindful of her boyfriend and her ex contacting.

Will you mind, I don't believe that boyfriend and girlfriend can still be friends after breaking up, they used to be the closest lovers, and they must have had all kinds of unforgettable memories together, who knows when the old love will be rekindled? At least one of the people who can be friends can't let go, so I don't mind if my boyfriend is in touch with my ex.

It would be mind, after all, they used to be very close people, and they may have skin-to-skin intimacy, so if they are still connected, it is unnatural to associate many things. And many surveys show that the probability of the ex getting back together is relatively high, and the possibility of going back together is not impossible, so this is a time bomb, maybe when they will be good again, and the possibility of being green in minutes is really quite large.

I have now found a boyfriend, I just want him to love me with all his heart and never allow him to have any contact with his ex. I don't believe that boyfriend and girlfriend can still be ordinary friends after breaking up, they used to be so close, they must have had all kinds of unforgettable memories, what if one day the old love is rekindled? So I mind that my boyfriend is in touch with my ex.

What do you have to mind.

I'm also in contact with my ex, and I have nothing else to do with it!

The point is, without him in my heart, it doesn't matter how I get in touch.

Girlfriends need to chat every day to fall in love, sometimes more contact can certainly enhance each other's emotions, but chatting every day is of course a good thing for people who like to chat, but for more independent female friends, they may not like to be asked to chat every day, which will make people feel bored, for female friends who don't like to chat, chatting every day will also affect the feelings of both parties.

2. If the other party is more introverted and usually does not communicate with the outside world, he may not be able to accept greetings and chats once a day, so frequent chats may be regarded as a disturbance by others, and this will increase the disgust of female friends in the long run.

3. For people with a more independent personality, a greeting once a day may show that you are overly caring, which is not a good thing for some girls, they need to have their own personal space, and occasional contact allows individuals to have more free time.

4. If the other party is a busy person, chatting once a day is a disastrous thing for the other party, such a woman only needs occasional contact, or will take the initiative to come to you when he needs you, otherwise additional contact will be regarded as an interruption.

I must mind, because they have been together after all, and no one knows if they will come together again because of memories or something.

First of all, I'm a man.,Secondly, as long as it's a girl, I'll mind.,Because the boyfriend only belongs to you now.,But don't interfere too much.,This makes you look very selfish.,If this boy has always had this mentality.,You can consider whether to continue.,Because Aichi was originally two people who trust each other and understand each other.,Now people are in a relationship for 2,3 months and are in a hurry to get married.,So in the current era, so there will be so many people who get married and leave not long after.。

Asking such a question proves that you don't believe him, or that what he does makes you insecure, so, it's all up to your heart, you really believe in him, it's nothing, but, don't care too much, because the boy will sometimes be like a child, want you to pay attention to him, you don't pay attention to him, he will feel that you don't care about him, he will be casual, you have to hold the rope between you, tight and loose, so that it can last for a long time.

Of course I don't think there is pure friendship between men and women, let alone his ex, after all, they have loved each other, and they have been through a lot of things and people that I don't know, and if they contact again, it will make me very uncomfortable, very scared, not confident in my feelings, afraid that they will come back together, I'm not that great, feelings are selfish, you can't share them with others, you can forget the past, you can't forget it, and you can't press your heart, you can't be in contact.

I don't mind, to deny the past is to deny the present. If you don't hurt each other and break up, why can't you be friends after the breakup and continue to keep in touch? And if two people can go on, they won't break up, so individuals don't mind, and who can guarantee that they won't one day become someone else's ex?

It depends on what kind of contact it is, if it is a job that requires cooperation or cooperation, it is acceptable, if it is private, especially if the woman needs help, she can find him, no, especially not to contact me without hiding.

Yes. As a woman, you don't want your boyfriend to have any contact with your ex. But if his ex really encountered something particularly tricky and had to ask him to help, he had to let me know and help her out.

It's girls who will mind, because your boyfriend belongs to you now, but don't interfere too much, it will appear that you are selfish, if the boy has always had this mentality, you can consider whether to continue.

Of course I would mind that my boyfriend was still in contact with his ex. This shows that the boyfriend has not really let go of his ex in his heart, and a boyfriend who can't let go of his ex must love himself wholeheartedly. When this happens, I will have a serious talk with my boyfriend, explain my feelings to him, and give him some advice.

If your boyfriend doesn't change after talking about it again, I think it's time to think about breaking up with him.

I'll mind. Now that you have broken up, you should cut off the ties between them. When the boyfriend is still in touch with his ex.

You think that your boyfriend doesn't particularly like you yet, or that your boyfriend's ex may be better than you. If your boyfriend is constantly in contact with your ex, it's unfair to you. Love needs loyalty, love needs single-mindedness, and love can't tolerate a third person.

When this happens, you need to communicate well with your boyfriend and not let it go.

How to put it, depending on the nature of the connection, I don't agree with beating to death with a stick.

In turn, for myself, I would like to see my relationship with my ex the same way I would like to do the same with my predecessor.

For example, if your boyfriend and his ex are classmates, you can't say that because the two broke up, they both refuse to participate in activities such as class reunions, but as long as you participate, you will inevitably meet and get in touch.

Or maybe they are colleagues and business partners, and they can't just because they break up, they have to change jobs (this job is good and promising), or they have to give up their business.

Therefore, I think that normal interactions, there is something to say, and there is nothing else to do, I will not do nothing.

Furthermore, I still insist that lovers must have enough trust with each other, which may also be based on trust in themselves. Otherwise, it is better to be on guard every day, and it is better to separate.

After a breakup, no one can calmly be friends again, I will mind very much, because love itself is very selfish, I don't want and don't want to see them continue to keep in touch, although if you love him, you have to believe him, but few people can really do not feel, don't care, will still be angry and sad in their hearts, or will they wonder if he still likes her? In short, for love, once a woman gives her true feelings, she will completely give everything and take out all her love. It will become more cautious, in fact, the boy should also be considerate of the girl's feelings, she minds because of love.