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Marriage is a major event in everyone's life, after getting married, if you don't know how to manage this marriage well, then the life after marriage can be imagined, and you may even go your separate ways. Therefore, if you want to have a happy marriage, then you must master some "means", of course, the "means" here are not some indiscriminate means, but some skills, the way of marriage management. Only in this way will your married life get better and better.
A smart woman will never do these 3 things to her husband, and she will wait for the "gang" to break up.
1. Look down on men and belittle men.
You know, men are very face-saving, especially in front of their beloved women, so smart women will never belittle their men, let alone look down on their men, even if men make mistakes, women will also think from the perspective of men, so, more often, it is to encourage men, hoping that men can become better and better.
However, there are some stupid women in life, who think that they are very powerful, as long as a man makes a mistake, a woman will hold on to it, and even look down on a man because of this, belittle his man, if it goes on like this, men will naturally think that women do not love themselves, so your marriage will be very dangerous.
2. Interfere with or even hinder men's careers.
In married life, women must be the most solid backing for men, even if you can't help men at work, it doesn't matter, but you must stand by the man's side, trust him unconditionally, encourage him, and only then will men love you more and more, no matter what happens, men will spoil you and love you.
If you are in your married life, not only do you not know how to understand men, but you will even become an obstacle to men's careers, always pestering men and making trouble unreasonably, then, after a long time, even if men love you again, they will die to you.
3. Blame the man's parents.
As the saying goes: respect the old and love the young, as a junior, you should respect the elders, this is the minimum etiquette. Therefore, in the married life, if a woman will always accuse or blame the man's parents in front of the man, the man will definitely not be able to accept it, because after all, it is his own parents, even if he loves you again, he will not hurt the hearts of his parents because of you, so in the long run, the marriage between you will become precarious.
Therefore, in married life, even if a man's parents do something wrong, you should not blame the man's parents in front of the man, let alone chew the root of the tongue behind your back, you only have to do your best, I believe that your husband must know it, and he will naturally stand on your side to help you.
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I often blame my husband. Because a man needs face, blaming him will damage his self-esteem.
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Complaining about her husband's shortcomings, such a woman doesn't understand a man's mind and often complains about a man, such a marriage can't last long.
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If a woman often belittles her husband and loses her temper with him, it can easily lead to a breakup.
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