The longer a couple gets along, the more strange they feel, why is that?

Today, I will answer to you why the longer couples get along, the more strange they feel, and why is this? In this society, whether it is in several tier cities, the divorce rate.

There is a clear upward trend. In love, divorce in the past seems to be a symbol of "bad men and bad women", and by now, everyone is used to divorce. Of course, it is not because everyone is unfaithful to marriage, but because society has become more and more impetuous, and the fast-paced life between couples often ignores some details.

I like to complain about knowing that in marriage, whether it is a man or a woman, a good marriage should be happy and simple. If the two of you still like to complain about life after getting married, there will be a lot of conflicts. Bad feelings are easily contagious to others.

You know, everyone's life is not easy. We have to face work every day, and we may be wronged at work. When you go home, you want positive energy.

If you still like to complain after getting married, your life will not be happy and will get worse and worse.

Like to accuse two people of living together, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts. What matters is how you approach life and how you deal with the problems between you. Everyone is independent, there are differences in thought and practice, and there can be different opinions on the same thing.

This is when you should learn to find common ground instead of sticking to your own opinions. No matter what happens, you can't blame the other person. People who are so ugly that they like to accuse each other are really difficult to be happy in marriage.

Because when one party does not consider the other, it is the beginning of misfortune.

Like to scold no matter what problems occur between husband and wife, the first thing to do is not to quarrel, but to find a way to solve the problem. Because quarrels can make the feelings of both parties bad and easy to be impulsive. In an impulsive situation, it is easy to say ugly words, which always hurt the other person unintentionally.

Therefore, a person who likes to scold in marriage is destined to be happy. Because when you speak, you have hurt the other person, hurt a person, and it is difficult to restore the relationship again.

It may be because they have been together for a long time, but they are not very honest with each other and will hide something from each other, so it will cause a sense of strangeness between the husband and wife.

That's because after getting along for a long time, they will hide a lot of secrets, don't tell each other, and will also change a certain mentality, so they will feel strange, and they are not willing to tolerate and understand each other in life.

Because husbands and wives spend a lot of time together, they will have a lot of conflicts with each other, so they will feel like strangers.

This is because the longer they get along, the more they don't know each other well, and the two people are particularly annoyed with each other, so they feel particularly strange.

Husbands and wives have become strangers after getting along for a long time, because the two husbands and wives have not communicated with each other for a long time and have no common language, so they will become more and more strange and unfamiliar.

may be because the relationship is too bland, they don't pay attention to the sense of ceremony, they don't surprise each other during the holidays, they don't communicate often, and over time, the couple slowly drifted apart and became strangers.

It may be because after getting along for a long time, there will be more and more contradictions, and eventually there will be divorce.

Because they don't like each other, they are familiar with each other, and they don't like each other so strongly.

Some people say that distance produces beauty, but in fact, it is not, after a long time, the distance between the heart will be far.

When you find that you have a heart-to-heart distance between each other, you must find a way to get closer. Two people from different families live together, and many of the habits they have developed before will be uncomfortable with each other, but don't easily say divorce, changing one is not necessarily the type you want the most, and neither party should take each other's favor and care for granted, and cherish it.

If she has a habit that has been cultivated for a long time to change slowly, when she does housework once, for better or worse, you have to tell her. You're working so hard, and I'm so distressed to see you doing this. You're going to be tired, you don't want to do something, don't tell her to do it in a commanding tone, tell her:

Baby, I'm so tired today, can you do anything? If you don't want to do it, just wait for me to do it tomorrow. Men also need to be spoiled.

The so-called machismo should be kept outside the house, and it should be put away when you return home. Go out and play, talk to her more, tell her how you feel at the right time, and know what he really needs. I hope you are happy.

Couples are becoming stranger and stranger, and most of them are caused by these little things.

The relationship between husband and wife is becoming more and more unfamiliar, most of them are unable to integrate in life, they have different ways of doing things and opinions, they express their own opinions, they both feel that they are right, and they are unwilling to listen to each other's opinions. simply ignored each other's feelings, and the gap between the two became bigger and bigger.

The first is because people's hearts are more impetuous, and many people are looking at each other for the sake of interests, and there are not a few husbands and wives who turn against each other. The second is that because husband and wife do not have the same heart, different entities instead calculate each other for their own interests, resulting in their relationship becoming more and more strange.

I think it may be because it is the burnout period of marriage, there is no freshness between two people, and there are not many things to say, and there will be less and less communication.

Less communication. During the relationship, I am full of doting, and I will only see the good things about each other, and after I get married, I will find each other's shortcomings, and I feel very strange to myself.

The relationship between husband and wife is becoming stranger and stranger, mainly because the relationship between husband and wife is getting weaker and weaker, losing the freshness of each other, and becoming no longer in love with each other.

There is a lack of communication and communication between husband and wife, there is less concern for each other, and the marriage enters a period of boredom and there is no interest.

The main reason is the lack of trust, when there is too much suspicion, the relationship will naturally be estranged.

Sometimes you suddenly find that your relationship is getting colder, the number of cold wars is getting longer, and your heart is getting more and more blocked, why is that? It's that the family affection between you has faded, you are used to taking, but you forget to give, and you always leave your smile to outsiders, but you leave your bad temper to your lover at home.

Not because your feelings have faded, but because your hearts have become cold.

Couples are becoming stranger and stranger, and most of them are caused by these little things.

Why is it that husband and wife are getting stranger and stranger, it means that the relationship between the two of you is getting weaker and weaker, and you feel strange.

Nowadays couples they don't know what to say after a few words, in a relationship, you always think about each other, so the love at that time was single-minded, but after marriage it is different, there are more things to consider, sometimes for some reason, the love for each other has become less or even ignored, and over time, the feelings of love will gradually disappear, so in terms of marriage, why do the original lovers gradually become strangers. I think these two reasons are inseparable from these reasons.

There is little or no communication between couples

A person's loneliness is not loneliness, a lonely person finding another lonely person is real loneliness, and the same is true in relationships。If it is always a person who communicates, and a person actively seeks a presence in marriage, then such a couple will inevitably lack sweetness, as long as one of them sees the other as air and ignores it, then there will be no good communication between the two, in which case even if someone wants to communicate, they will end up unhappy with the dispute.

A marriage without communication cannot withstand the test of reality and time, and the heat of this relationship will gradually decrease。Based on this situation, it has become an inevitable trend for the relationship between husband and wife to become more and more strange, and the sweet feelings will become speechless, so the relationship between husband and wife will become more and more strange.

Husbands and wives cannot get along honestly with each other and have concealed behavior

If it is going to last for a long time, you must be honest with each other and there must be no distrust。A little distrust can cause dissatisfaction with the other party, and then you will not be able to gain empathy, especially between husband and wife, a relationship without trust will never last forever, the sweetness in the relationship will cease to exist, and the suspicion of one person will naturally arouse the suspicion of the other, so what kind of happiness to talk about in this relationship, will the relationship between husband and wife be harmonious, the trust between husband and wife is almost zero, how can such two people live a good life, let alone sincerity, Therefore, the second reason why the relationship between husband and wife is becoming more and more strange is the distrust and understanding between the couple.

Signs that couples are becoming strangers include the lack of common language when couples sit together, the lack of soul empathy, the number of trips together is rare, the daily interaction between couples and the recreational activities they engage in together are reduced, and so on.

The two of them are very cold when they are together. Because there is no love in their eyes. Doesn't take the initiative to chat with each other.

Because by this time the feeling has changed. It will not create surprises and romance for each other. Because at this time, in their eyes, it is a waste of time.

They will gradually be reluctant to share things in life and work, and their care in life will gradually become less, and they will not prepare gifts on large and small festivals, which are all signs that the relationship between husband and wife has become stranger.

First, the husband and wife do not communicate much, so there are fewer opportunities for understanding; Second, the two parties sleep in separate rooms, as the so-called husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, and now they are sleeping in separate rooms, and this relationship must not become more and more strange.