How to take the initiative to pursue a man who is excellent in my opinion

Pride: Stimulate the other person's self-esteem and make them happy.

The so-called coquettish expert is a master of love and knows how to manipulate a man's heart. Being spoiled by a mature woman, even what kind of man is difficult to resist, a woman's gentle salutation is very effective, especially know how to use a certain strength of the other party, talk to the other party about it, don't always show strong and capable in front of the other party, it will make the man more obedient to you.

Make him anxious: make him tight, so that his value in the other party's heart increases.

If you can make a man nervous and anxious, you can make good progress in love, as the so-called fish caught at one time will not taste good, that is, if you make him feel that it is natural to be with you, you will not get his attention, and when the other party is anxious, you can maintain your value in his mind.

For example, the first date should be a female friend first, a long date once or twice a month, a short time once a week, so that he has a feeling of hunger and a feeling of wanting to be with you, which is a way to maintain a woman's value.

Unless he likes simple girls, you won't fit him. (It's not a question of worthiness.) I think there is a sentence that is very true, after all, life has to go through three loves, one ignorance, one hard, and one life...

When we like a boy who is better than ourselves, we must not be timid, but more to impress each other with our sincerity, so that we can pursue the boy we like.

1. Improve your abilities

When we like a boy who is better than ourselves, we must improve our personal ability, so that we can better let others discover ourselves, and we will not feel that we are not worthy of each other because of our lack of ability. Because for each of us, we all like to associate with someone who is better than ourselves, so when we pursue such a boy, we should also be not much different from each other, so that we can better pursue the boy we like.

2. Silently accompany each other

Time is the best proof" is a sentence that I have always believed in, and it is also an attitude I have towards feelings. Because when we really like someone, even if the other party still doesn't like us, we will still choose to stay by the other party's side and help him silently, until he finds out his goodness and sees his sincerity clearly, so that our efforts will not be in vain after all. When I liked a guy in the past, I was by his side in such a way, although I was very inconspicuous at the time, and he was surrounded by many suitors who were better than myself, but I still did not give up such a relationship, and more used time to prove my love for him, so in the end the two of us still walked together.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that when you meet someone you like, you must firmly grasp each other and boldly express your love to each other, so that we can truly grasp our own happiness.

First of all, you have to see what kind of girl the boy likes, and pursue it according to the direction that the boy likes, and you must also add your own leisure to study and make yourself better.

Try to be good and let him see you! Slowly become excellent, hard work can be compared with him, only in this way is the long-term solution, if you just blindly pursue not want to be in the future, you will be more and more distant from the excellent him, the results speak for themselves.

Work hard to improve yourself and make yourself better, I believe it will be easier to chase such a boy again.

If you want to pursue a boy who is better than yourself, then first of all, you must become very good, only in this way can you better attract the favor of boys to you, and it is possible to be together.

First of all, you have to be very good. Read more books and participate in more meaningful activities. Strive to improve yourself. And then go after it.

You have to make yourself very good, and then make an opportunity to meet each other, so that the other person notices you, and then confess your heart.

In the relationship between men and women, most of the time, boys are more active, while girls are more reserved and restrained, but sometimes when a man loves to the bone, he will be afraid, and his plans will scare you away, so Sun Que will make you feel his love through some small details that make you take the initiative to acknowledge him. So do you know what guys are waiting for you to take the initiative? If a boy behaves and moves like the following, it means he's waiting for you to take the initiative!

1.Insidious insistence.

If a person likes you very much, but does not dare to take the initiative to express his love, he will give you crazy verbal hints, such as "I want to fall in love", "I want to travel with his beloved", etc., these all represent, this guy has hinted that he likes you, waiting for you to take the initiative to express your love to him!

2.I want to be with you all the time.

What's more, he will want to be with you all the time, shopping with you, shopping with you, as long as he can be with you, no matter how happy he is. Like to find all kinds of reasons to ask you, if you find a man who often tries to ask you to go out to meet, and not like you to prove, so this person must like you, but dare not take the initiative to like you to prove it is filial piety, want to wait for you to speak first!

3.Caring about you very much.

If you like someone, you'll love everything about her. He will care about you and pay attention to everything about you. When you post a post in your circle of friends, you will find that his comments and likes are always necessary.

When you are bored, in a bad mood, and want someone to accompany you, you will find that as long as he is free, he will definitely appear in front of you for the first time. It's his expression of affection for you.

4.Looking into your eyes is tender.

Loving someone's eyes is not a lie, as long as you are on the occasion and the eyes are inseparable from you, you will find that he is looking at you with tender eyes, when you can see that he is full of love for you. But he will never take the initiative to express love like you, because it wants to impress you and make you take the initiative!

Men don't take the initiative because they like it too much, because they don't know if they are important in your heart, they are afraid of being rejected by you, and they are afraid that they won't even be friends if they don't confess. It's also a sign of lack of self-confidence, so it makes sense for men to prefer you, but not so proactive!

What kind of man will pursue you, I see what kind of man your personality and your appearance are more attractable, and what kind of man likes the type. So if you want to find a good man, then you have to make yourself excellent, so that you will attract excellent men, and the Lord will pursue you at every turn.

This man may have employed several strategies:

1.Genuine concern: He may show genuine care and concern for you, making you feel valued and respected. This kind of care includes not only words but also actions, such as helping you solve problems, taking care of your physical and mental health, etc.

2.Encourage growth: He may encourage you to pursue your dreams, help you recognize your potential and abilities, and encourage you to be brave enough to pursue your goals. This encouragement can help you build self-confidence and improve self-esteem and well-being.

3.Provide support: He may be there to provide support and help when you need it, such as providing guidance and advice when you are facing difficulties or challenges, or providing substantive support when you need help.

4.Respect your decisions: He may respect your decisions and choices and will not force you to do anything you don't want to do. He will give you enough space and freedom to be able to make your own decisions autonomously.

5.Build trust: He may build a trusting relationship with you and make you feel safe and secure. This trust can help you open up and share your thoughts and feelings with him to build a deeper relationship.

Through the above strategies, this man can make you feel loved and respected, and at the same time, you can make you realize your own worth and importance. He doesn't force you to find a partner directly, but through his actions and words, he makes you realize that you need to find a suitable partner to share your life with. This allows you to have more autonomy in deciding your future and lifestyle, while also cherishing the man's care and support for you.

When two people are together, just like a chemical reaction, only mutual attraction will have the possibility of development. Boys will try to get close to the girls they like, while girls who are not interested in only oaks will avoid them. Girls have a unique sixth sense and can feel who has a crush on her and who wants to try to pursue her, so they are also curious about boys.

If the boy can take the initiative to create opportunities to meet and show the girl confidence, fun and sincerity, then the psychological distance between the two will also become closer. If you want to pursue a girl, you can use friends or classmates to match you and slowly shorten the distance and relationship between you. Remember not to rush it, as confessing or dating too early may risk losing the day.

Girls usually pay attention to the appearance of boys and the details of doing things, and they can reflect their sincerity in the details, such as taking the initiative to help girls carry bags, hand over coats, and so on. Love needs to be managed slowly, and it doesn't need a big confession or a big move that touches the world. Chance encounters are also a kind of romance, and girls are equally eager for providence to bestow favor on them.

If you can meet her in a place that girls frequent, and keep creating coincidences, you will naturally be able to attract her attention and generate good feelings. Girls are usually fickle, so you need to show your masculinity and tenacity instead of trying to please them. The relationship between two people needs to slowly warm up in getting along, don't rush to make the identity of the lover public, you can be an ordinary friend first, gradually understand it deeply, and become a bosom friend.

Finally, how to develop the relationship between the two still needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and it cannot be rigidly copied.

I think this man may really like to tell you about you, but he also knows that it takes time and effort to build a relationship between two people. He wants you to find the right person and wants you to do well. Therefore, he will not force you to accept his pursuit, but hopes that you can slowly get to know him and see if you are willing to be with him.

If you feel that there is a future between you, then you can try it, but if you feel that there is no common language or feelings between you, then don't force yourself. The most important thing is to respect your feelings and choices, and not to be swayed by other people's words.

It may feel like it's impossible to be together.

That's why you can find a suitable object again.

That is, to find one's own home and happiness.

After all, the graduation is not too young.

Don't pick and choose.

He's a very good talker.

Nature knows how to take care of people.

Maybe it's just lip service.

It's not for you to find a suitable partner.

He said this only out of concern.

Since you can't be together.

It's not good to pretend to be like a favor.

In this way, if the other party doesn't look down on you, or if you don't have an eye, no matter how you pretend to be yourself and improve yourself, it is impossible to win the trust and struggle of the other party. Nevertheless, we work hard to improve ourselves and keep learning, and only then can we get more opportunities.