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The question of finding a partner depends on fate, but some people don't feel it at first, and it will get better after a long time.
Generally speaking, you should start looking for a partner in the second semester of your freshman year, and it has been a year since you came to university, and you are familiar with both school life and classmates, so it is very suitable to find a partner.
Both boys and girls are in a hurry to find a partner. Especially when I feel lonely and lonely, it is the most intense, and there are people in the same bedroom, looking for a partner, I have been hit by some blows, and I want to find it.
You're a boy, so boys don't have to be in a hurry. Of course, a good girl is a sought-after, if you see that you are more satisfied, don't hesitate, otherwise you will be snatched by others. If you don't have something to worry about, there's no need to worry, it's okay if a boy doesn't have a partner.
Let's talk about myself, I fell in love with my class secretary when I was a freshman, but I don't know why she didn't feel good for me. One of the girls in her dormitory had a good relationship with me and had always been friends. But there is no friendship between men and women, and after a long time, I got along with that girl.
In fact, you should see if there are any such girls around you who can be friends with you. Maybe she wasn't the best candidate at first, but slowly realized that she was actually quite good. Hehe.
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In fact, many things are fate.
Don't do anything you can to meet a relationship.
PS: I'm a junior and I'm single so far.
And I'm a girl too.
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I feel like you're asking this question so stupidly, don't be intentional about it at school, look at fate! That feeling is the best.
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In fact, according to the big data survey, girls are 5 years younger than boys, which is the least likely to cause contradictions, and the divorce rate of the two people is also relatively low, the marriage is happier, and the children will be more. If the husband and wife are more than 10 years apart, the relationship will also be happy. But in fact, the intersection of these two age differences between men and women in life may be smaller.
Men who graduate 5 to 10 years early and work in society may already have someone they like. The most stable age difference between husband and wife The man is 5-8 years older than the woman, and his married life is the happiest and the most solid. The age difference between husband and wife is maintained at 5-8 years, and the man is 5-8 years older than the woman, and their marriage is happiest and stronger.
The researchers analysed thousands of couples with an age difference of 3 years, 3-5 years old, and 6 years of age and older, and found that couples living happier times in between. In fact, this is only the data obtained through the survey, but whether the two people are really happy or not depends on what kind of efforts the man and woman have made.
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It is still suitable for college students.
Of course, most parents may think that the most important task of students in the school stage is to study, and there should not be any messy ideas. Therefore, campus love has also become a taboo topic, not only students dare not discuss it, but parents are even more discouraged.
However, compared to secondary school, the university environment is relatively relaxed. The gradual growth of students also makes them more curious about the opposite sex. After three years of hard work in high school, many students enter college and enjoy the sweetness of love.
College students may be looking for a partner for the following reasons
1. There are more college students who are interested in falling in love in their spare time, in the final analysis, because the time in college is relatively abundant. College students have relatively more free time, and after three years of depressive life in high school, they are in a state of physical and mental exhaustion. Entering a less stressful university will also reinvigorate their attention to the opposite sex.
It is this state that makes them enter the stage of falling in love and finding a partner in college.
2. It is easy to have a common discourseAfter three years of high school baptism, most students will pay all their attention to studying, and the good bridge of external things and the yearning for college life are all buried deep in their hearts. When I entered the university, I had a common three-year high school experience, had the same goals, and gave a strong yearning for my future life. These have become common topics that college students cannot ignore, so that when they get along with each other, they have more to talk about and look forward to their future life.
They are in the emotional germination period, once they can feel that the vitality shown by the other party is similar to their own, they will also sprout a good impression of the opposite sex, and thus enter the stage of falling in love.
3. It will be more stable after graduation. Nowadays, the reason why so many college students choose to fall in love on campus is not because they are not doing their jobs, but because they know that they will face cruel competition after graduation, and the pressure of employment is also very high.
The years of youth are limited, especially the 4 precious years of college life, if you don't cherish it, it will only pass in a flash. They choose to fall in love in college in order to be more stable in employment, without any worries, and having like-minded alumni by their side can also reduce the hardships in the process of struggle. No matter how Min Zhonghong is a college student, falling in love has become an unavoidable phenomenon nowadays, however, the following precautions for falling in love at the college stage must not be ignored, otherwise it is likely to affect your studies.
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Personally, I don't think it's ideal to find someone while you're in college. The first is to affect the studies of both parties, and the second is that there are many variables in long-distance marriage. The journey of life is high and wide, and the end of the world is far away; And we are always easy to get lost, so that we make wrong choices, but no matter what kind of mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct, it is not too bad.
Buddhism has clouds: the sea of bitterness is boundless, and the shore is turned back. "No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out.
To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life. Don't doubt your own ability because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a mistake can be changed. Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes today are indispensable tests in life, and they are also for that more wonderful tomorrow.
Life in the world is always half good and bad, right and wrong; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken. The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad that on the journey ahead, every rough hail mistake is another growth of human beings, and we can only find our own correctness by constantly exploring and making mistakes.
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I think it should be, but never fall in love for the sake of falling in love, when you meet someone and you are really tempted, then chase it. Falling in love can bring spiritual comfort to both parties, and it is very warm to have someone who accompanies you and cares about you when you are in college, and your relatives are not around.