What do you think of the resentment of the poor relatives in the countryside by the workers who came

I think that such a person's thinking is particularly ridiculous, and I think that no one in this world can be qualified to look down on others for no reason, because, first of all, whether blood is dissolved in water or not, I think everyone should be kind.

I think it's a kind of ignorance of my identity, and I think it's very good. Not good, because everyone is equal. Just because you are a worker from a small place should not be disgusted with poor relatives in the countryside.

I think it's a very bad thing for migrant workers from small places to resent their poor relatives in the countryside, and they themselves have changed from a poor person to a rich person.

If you have money, it's not you. Thinking that he earned money by working, he looked down on those poor relatives when he gained knowledge, and when he saw them, wasn't this his original self?

I don't know what to say? Because it is understandable that some rural people do have some bad behaviors.

I feel that donors from small areas are disgusted with poor relatives in the countryside. They may feel that these poor relatives have no money and no knowledge or cultural ability, and they feel a little too embarrassed when they come.

I think this is because I have become rich and classy, and I look down on my poor relatives before, but I think this is wrong, because you can't be poor and love rich.

First of all, it is understandable that migrant workers from small areas are disgusted with poor relatives in the countryside. Because you're in a big city, some of your mannerisms have improved.

I think that such a person's thinking is particularly unbalanced, not that everyone's background determines his future development.

I don't think this kind of behavior is very good, after all, the countryside is also my hometown, and I can't forget my roots, even if I am working, I can't help but be grateful for the land that gave birth to me. That's my homeland.

This statement itself has the connotation of discrimination against rural people, and this slightly condescending attitude is unacceptable. In addition, it is also an indisputable fact that there are few opportunities for employment and entrepreneurship in rural areas, and their own incomes are indeed not as high as those in urban areas.

With the development of China's economy, many people have seized the opportunity given by the times and become the first group of people to get rich. After being rich, some people still do not forget their hearts, are down-to-earth, and are kind to others. But there are also people who lose themselves because they get rich and start to look at no one to afford it.

The saying that rural people must have poor relatives" is a typical representative of losing oneself.

First of all, this statement itself stands on a high meaning, as if he was born rich and has never been poor. You must know that according to the development process of our country, counting up to three generations, many of them were glorious workers and peasants of that era, and no one was born noble. You should not use the countryside as a prefix to advertise that you are an urban person, because you must know that it is easy to be beaten.

Putting aside the inner meaning, there is nothing wrong with this sentence in itself. Rural areas have fewer opportunities not only for employment but also for entrepreneurship than in cities. Therefore, many people in the countryside are still mainly planting and breeding, so their income will inevitably be less.

And in the city, people often need to hold it and wrap themselves, which has become a habit over time. However, because of the small social circle in rural areas, they basically know each other, and they don't need to package themselves, so they are even more unscrupulous. As a result, when urban and rural people come together, urban people often can't get used to this and look down on that, and all kinds of problems collide.

Finally, some rural people, after seeing that their relatives are rich, clearly have impure intentions. is even afraid that there is everything to cheat, so it makes a bad impression, so there is this slightly derogatory sentence.

The inequality of social wealth is the root cause of all these problems. However, this kind of question is also an indispensable question on the road of economic development. In the face of this problem, we must look at it with an equal and open mind, and we must not allow ourselves to gradually become arrogant.

When it comes to kinship in the countryside, I have to say that there is an old saying in the countryside that no one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, to be honest, as a second-generation farmer, my understanding of this sentence when I was a child is only literal, and when I grow up, I really have a deep understanding of this sentence, when you are rich, all your relatives will treat you as a family member, and even provide you up.

You tell him that you have no money, and all he does is lock them up and live on his own. Some people say, why do people help you when you are poor, remember, why did I start writing, I first said that I was rich, that is, because I helped these relatives when I was rich, because of the constraints of blood relations, I think they and I are a family, so I usually endure some losses, I think it doesn't matter, when I fall down, they are the ones who will help me.

When I was down, not only did they not have a word of comfort, but on the contrary, he wanted to take advantage of you when you were not completely down. Some people don't agree with my statement, but I want to tell you that what I'm experiencing now is the practice of authentic rural relatives, whether you recognize it or not, it's your business, and people only have this kind of desolation when you are really down. It is normal for young people to resist associating with relatives, because the way of life is different nowadays, and the level of education has increased, so although they have less experience, their thoughts are indeed rich.

Many young people clearly understand what their relatives are like, if the relatives are really good people, I believe that no young person will resist associating with them, I have always believed that you are good to others, others will repay you, that is to say, good is mutual, if you just blindly suffer and pay, only see you lonely good, do not respond, will you still associate with such relatives?

The villages of Liu Naoku are as follows

As a rural person, I have also observed this phenomenon, and after careful consideration, I think the reasons are as follows.

It varies from person to person: there are two sides to everything, and some rich people are indeed like this, once they lose the banquet and become rich, they have long forgotten who their surnames are, not to mention these poor relatives, they are afraid that people will worry about his money bag, and they will put a cold face when they meet.

Some of the rich people are enthusiastic and generous, willing to give, ask a boss who is worth tens of millions, but often mingle with the workers, eat and live together, and get rich without forgetting the villagers, building roads and bridges, and returning to their hometown.

Self-feeling: It is said that things gather by like, people are grouped, the poor themselves are very sensitive because they are poor, and they have a bit of a glass heart, and the other party is a little abnormal, they will accuse others of looking down on people, being selfish and indifferent, and even not letting people explain, so they will be labeled as "not benevolent for the rich, and the six relatives do not recognize", and publicize it everywhere.

In this case, when the rich man sees him again, he must be as far away as he is. To sum up, poor relatives are not necessarily really enthusiastic, and rich relatives are not necessarily really indifferent, and they should be treated rationally and differently from person to person. May we be able to develop if we are not poor, and we can be rich and long-term.

The above is the original village of Liu Zhen, I hope to solve the problem for you.

As the saying goes, "Cold does not depend on the lamp, and poverty does not depend on relatives." "Especially those relatives who are not very close, everyone gets angry. In addition, he was a wealthy relative.

In rural areas, people are most afraid of borrowing money because it is difficult to ask when they will pay it back. However, from the point of view of a wealthy relative, it is sometimes difficult for a wealthy relative to be afraid that the relative will come to borrow money or rely on their own resources.

After all, all relatives, there is still a lot of money, they say they don't want to help, acting as if they are impersonal. So for those people, just be firm in your heart and sweep the snow away from the door. Because rich relatives definitely want to have a relationship with rich relatives, so that the resources in everyone's hands can be used by each other, while poor relatives cannot.

For poor relatives and poor relatives, they are very enthusiastic, because without money, the relationship will naturally be simpler. Because there is no money.

In rural areas, many people go out to work, and their families arrange for help with job introductions through them, and so on. Otherwise, they will go straight out and find the answer themselves. First, their parents are worried about the chaos of the outside world.

Second, children at home who have just left for work are not familiar with their hometown and are cared for by many people. But for those relatives who have taken refuge, the mood is very unpleasant.

When people came to take refuge in themselves, they felt a little uncomfortable. However, due to the affection of relatives, people should treat them well when they first come, otherwise they will have a reputation for being stingy. As a result, many people do not want to live with relatives after four or five days or a week of living with them.

Because people are always knocking on the door and asking you what to do when you have time, adults mean when you leave. People would rather spend a lot of money on food than stay at home for a week or two.

In fact, this sentence is a bit too absolute to generalize, and some people are still more generous.

How to say this, I don't think it's all about it.

There is this law. Because rich relatives may look down on you people.

This is not absolute, and we should not generalize and not look at the problem one-sidedly.

Some people say that poor relatives in rural areas are more warm-hearted, and rich relatives are more indifferent, I don't think that's the case, after all, everyone lives in a different place, and their personalities are different, and they are not warm-hearted, but people who treat you sincerely.

This is a very normal reason, because you are poor, so relatives do not go to you, if you are rich, many relatives go.

Really, because rich rural people are a little arrogant, and sometimes they look down on those who are poorer than them.

Clause.

First, the issue of benefit distribution.

Most individual businesses have a very difficult start, and in the early days of the establishment they have to rely on family, relatives, friends, and all the connections at their disposal. After the initial stage of the establishment, it was a little more profitable, and the next problem was to expand the scale. When expanding the scale, it is inevitable to think of recruiting migrant workers.

Migrant workers have always been favored by some small and medium-sized enterprises for their low wages and high intensity. And when you recruit your relative as a basic worker, you must be thinking that you will never treat him badly, and maybe you will pay more. And this person who came probably thought that I would do so much for you, so much for you to save so much worry, but you gave me such a small amount of money.

You must know that any enterprise is for profit, and it is useless to say a thousand things and ten thousand yuan if it is not profitable. When a basic worker's demands exceed what the boss expects of them, then it is time to be fired. At this time, the boss will pay several times the price to hire a newcomer who is not as good as this person.

This is the distribution of benefits.

Clause. Second, the issue of face.

When a person works under another member of their family, subtle sensations arise. It's nothing more than that: I'm not as good as him or something.

This situation belongs to the anger of a person who has lost his mental balance, and when you have this kind of thought, whether you praise him or joke with him, it turns into sarcasm. Especially among some jealous men, this anger can have a very tragic effect after it cannot be suppressed. Of course, there are many successful cases of family-owned businesses, but they are very few.

Clause. Third, the integration of ideas.

After migrant workers come out of the countryside, most of them are worried and proud; The anxiety is full of longing. When he worked for his relatives, he thought about getting a salary and supporting his family, not about long-term development. But his relatives don't think so, when a person becomes a boss or entrepreneur, his thinking begins to change, and it is no longer the same as when he was working.

Every day is planning for the future, how many people can be born with a golden soup spoon in their mouths? So the collision of ideas began, and the contradictions were also contained in it.

To sum up, it is understandable who to work for, and whether you want to or not is the choice of the market. But how to go in the future is all in a thought. The wise lead the way, the wise follow, and the foolish do not go.

Relatives are the most reliable, but some relatives don't talk about credit, and if they don't fulfill their promises, they can't say anything, so they are simply unwilling to pay it back.

This problem does not exist in migrant workers, working for relatives is a problem for both parties, as the boss of the party, if you hire relatives, you will be embarrassed in terms of management, causing unnecessary trouble to the enterprise, so the boss of private enterprises is not very willing to recruit relatives, and migrant workers feel that going to work with relatives will damage their face. This is the will of both sides.

It's hard to talk if you're sleepy, it's good not to say it, it's annoying to mention it, and what others don't say, you can't do it, and you can't talk about the conditions for what to do.

The main reason is that there will be disputes in the future, so that the relationship between relatives cannot continue!

Maybe the salary is unreasonable, maybe they have to work a little more, and a little bit is not good, they may nag, and it will affect the relationship between relatives.