When there is a conflict between the two people, should they be reasonable?

The reason why a family can be happy is because it knows that the last thing to be reasonable in the face of a partner is to be unreasonable, and the reason why it is unfortunate is because the partners always fight with each other, and they have to be unforgiving to each other. Everyone thinks that they are right, everyone wants to win, force the other party to accept their own suggestions, no one obeys anyone, the estrangement is getting deeper and deeper, there are more and more calculations, and the probability of turning over old accounts also increases. If this continues, marriage and family will be affected. ‍‍

Couples who never be reasonable in their marriage may sound more stubborn and petty-tempered, but in fact, the husband and wife are more harmonious and live a happier life. We are united because of love, because of family affection for a long time, if everything has to be reasonable, fight for right and wrong, how bad should life be, even if I win the argument, in addition to frustrating the other party, what can I get? Home is a place to store love, not a place to reason.

Not everything has to fight for right and wrong, marriage can be tolerated and forgiven, but it can't be said right and wrong, and the meaning of who is right and who is wrong is not as important as understanding each other. ‍‍

Of course, you should be reasonable, if you are not reasonable, you will always be in conflict, I think that after the two people have contradictions, they must sit down and solve the problem.

As long as it is not a matter of moral quality, there is no need to argue about trivial things, the family should be about love, more tolerance, everyone will have some advantages and disadvantages more or less, to see more of each other's advantages, if you always grasp each other's shortcomings, a family is indispensable to quarrel every day, and in the end it will only destroy the relationship between the two parties and bring about the breakdown of the family.

Between husband and wife, there are contradictions, there are quarrels, just like what I said above is not terrible, what is terrible is that no one is willing to bow their heads and admit their mistakes, so they treat you like this, so men should take the initiative to admit their mistakes and be generous. So, reasoning doesn't work at all.

The love and harmony between husband and wife often takes years to achieve. Many people don't realize that there is no reason in marriage, only adaptation and forbearance. An important secret to a happy marriage is to be tolerant and good times will come. ‍‍

In fact, I think there should be an agreement between husband and wife like to draw three or eight lines at the same table when we were studying, and I think there should be such an agreement between husband and wife, for example, you can make an agreement between husband and wife, that is, no matter how noisy or noisy, you must remember to communicate well that night and solve the problem. ‍‍

Home is not a place to be reasonable, there should be tolerance and love, there is no need to compare everything, needle-pointed.

Be sure not to talk about hurting the other party, the bottom line, and don't talk about the divorce, because Chan Hong will have a great impact on the relationship between the two people, and there will also be a lot of one-sided ideas.

When the husband and wife quarrel about which to rent in a marriage, they can't say bad things about each other's family, and they can't talk about each other's pain points, and they can't easily talk about divorce, and they can't say cool things.

What Tong Lu can say is that if two people want to separate, if two people want to divorce, if two people want to break up, if two people want to break up, if two people want to split up, if they want to run away from home.