How do you deal with the relationship between your mother in law and daughter in law?

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mutual, mutual respect, mutual goodwill, after all, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and happiness is contagious, mother-in-law and mother are happy, and we are all happy. After getting married, I am no longer irritable, because no one quarrels with me, in this eighteenth-tier town, it is not easy to find a daughter-in-law with a monthly income of 3w, and it is forgivable not to wash the dishes, right, in terms of housework, my mother-in-law does not force me, and the aunt she is looking for is clean once every two weeks, 80 yuan each time. ‍‍

I've been with my mother-in-law for seven or eight years. A lot of unpleasant things happened in the beginning, but now it's peaceful. For example, I was eating grapes and my husband was using pesticides.

When I heard my mother-in-law coming downstairs, I immediately sat next to my husband and fed her. The scene that the mother-in-law saw was "the son playing a game while enjoying the grapes fed by his daughter-in-law. And when the mother-in-law occasionally blames her husband, don't be stupid and stand aside, but also see the right time to help her husband speak.

You can say, "Mom, my husband didn't mean it, you have to understand him." Although the mother-in-law didn't necessarily listen to it at that time, she was definitely happy afterwards, and felt that her daughter-in-law really felt sorry for her son!

Sometimes I don't want to do housework, so I just chat next to my mother-in-law. Let's talk about news gossip and watch serials. Before Sun Li's "The Flowers Bloomed and the Moon Was Full That Year", I watched it with her every day, and scolded Yu Haoming for the role of "Du Mingli" with her.

It's also a great way to communicate. Sometimes I will help them solve mobile phone problems, upgrade or how to use it, and I also teach her how to have fun and have fun, and then my mother-in-law is addicted to games and can't extricate herself.

My husband and I discussed it before marriage, I cook, he washes dishes, I wash clothes, he mops the floor, etc. But my mother-in-law would occasionally come to our house. Once, when I was off work, I was cooking in the kitchen, and my mother-in-law was watching TV in the living room and sitting on the sofa without moving.

After eating, my husband rolled up his sleeves and was about to wash the dishes, and my mother-in-law immediately stood up and said to him: "Oh, what dishes will you wash, you can't wash them every time, I'll come, I'll come!" As he spoke, he walked to the kitchen.

It's really embarrassing for me to watch this scene in the living room, how does this make me play with my phone leisurely!

A woman who is unhappy in her marriage is either obviously inferior to her in-laws, and she still thinks about being a hostess through the remarks on the book, and then she is slapped in the face. Either they are more than their in-laws, and they have wronged themselves to cater to their in-laws, and their in-laws have kicked their noses in the face, and they themselves have been wronged. Men are the same, men who are unhappy in their marriages either can't recognize what kind of character they are, and are disgraced by their wives and parents-in-law, or they know that they are the pillars, but they make their wives and parents-in-law angry.

Distance produces beauty, everything is not more serious and not serious, don't look at it so much, it is naturally no problem to understand each other.

Square dancing is simply a killer for middle-aged and elderly people, my mother-in-law can't dance, I will teach her** and learn with her. Later, I accompanied her to find a neighbor to jump together, and later, the neighbor kept praising me, and my mother-in-law was very happy, and when she came back, she kept holding my hand on her arm. ‍‍

First, a smart mother-in-law will choose to let go.

If you look at it, the harmony of the family actually depends on the woman. The smart mother-in-law understands this truth deeply, and in getting along with the small family, they have a boundary, that is, they do not easily indulge their sons, and they know how to let go and get along with their sons.

If a mother-in-law doesn't know how to let go and always treats her son as a child, then there will inevitably be a lot of disputes in the family.

She will think that her son still needs to be taken care of, so the mother-in-law will cut off the wings of her son's responsibility, so that she does nothing at home.

The smart mother-in-law deeply understands that the growth of a son must be responsible, and he will be willing to use his son, rather than not willing to use his child.

In the variety TV series "Mother-in-law and Mother", the key to the frequent conflicts between Zhang Duo and Chen Songling and their mother-in-law is that the mother-in-law is always worried that her son will not be taken care of in distress, so Wang Xiaoshan is angry with Chen Songling, which also causes many viewers to feel particularly angry.

When Zhang Duo was boxing, Po Buchapo angrily ripped off the bath towel on Chen Songling's body and gave it to Zhang Duo, which angered Chen Songling.