Do you think your child should attend pre school classes?

When I was young, there was a preschool, but it was voluntary, not forced, so I didn't go to preschool, and I went straight to the first grade of my age. As for preschool, Xiao Yuganer thinks that it is okay to go to it or not, if I can, I don't want my child to go to it, or only go to preschool for a year and a half before going to elementary school. Why?

First, now preschool does not teach any cultural knowledge, for a period of time, preschool is to teach children to learn some pinyin, arithmetic and other knowledge, so that children go to preschool and then go to primary school, learning will be relatively easy and not difficult; And now preschool and kindergarten are basically just for children to play and play games, so they all start from scratch in elementary school, so it doesn't matter whether they go to preschool or not. Second, it is better to take the children around more time in preschool, play and play games with children in preschool all day long, which may make children happy and can integrate into collective life, but it is not of great help to increase knowledge, but it is better to use this time to take children around and gain knowledge. Don't say that the child is small, maybe he doesn't remember when he grows up, in fact, he has seen a lot, and his vision is different, and there are several pairs of parents around me who educate their children like this. ‍‍

I don't think it's okay, today's children are already under a lot of pressure, many children begin to sign up for various specialty classes after kindergarten, and let the child take a break before the age of three.

In the past, children did not go to kindergarten and preschool classes, and went directly to the first grade of primary school, but in the 80s, the establishment of preschool classes became a solution to the rights and interests of "difficulty in entering nurseries". Preschool is a form of education for preschool children, for young children to enter the first grade of primary school has played a role in the connection between the past and the future, if the economic conditions permit, children can go to preschool education classes, parents are not willing to let their children lose on the starting line, the starting line is the first grade of primary school, now the starting line is the preschool education class, and even some parents have let their children start preemptively starting in the kindergarten small class. Some parents think that their children should go to kindergarten first, and then go to a preschool to enroll, complaining that their children are always playing in kindergarten and not learning anything, in preschool will recognize the pinyin alphabet, will calculate addition and subtraction within 100, parents only pay attention to the accumulation of children's knowledge, ignoring the development of children's interests and the cultivation of ability.

When children from preschool first enter school, because they have already learned the knowledge at this stage, they will be relatively easier to learn than children from kindergarten for the time being, but children from kindergarten are better than preschool children in terms of learning interest, hands-on ability, and thinking ability. Children in preschool have a high IQ, and children in kindergarten have a high EQ.

Children only really belong to their parents in the first few years of school, although it may seem exaggerated to say, but in fact, it is true. Only the years before the child enters the school are the time when the child really and completely accompanies the parents, and they should really accompany each other well. If I say that the benefits of preschool, I can think of that it can help children adapt to school life early, and when the real primary school starts, children can adapt to the school environment and rhythm, based on this, children can adapt to the school in advance for a year and a half before children go to primary school, otherwise, I don't think children need to go to preschool.

You can cultivate their sense of collective consciousness, under the leadership of the teacher, hold hands, walk together, the pace is the same, quite coordinated, otherwise you will step on each other's feet, which is also the result of training from an early age. It can cultivate children's spirit of unity and cooperation. For example, if the teacher takes the children to play a game of eagle catching chickens, everyone must work together and follow the command so that they will not be caught by the eagle.

For example, singing and dancing, in addition to learning, you must also have the same voice and consistent movements, not before and after, so that you can listen and look good, this must be trained! At home, it's different, you study alone, there is no such problem, and when he enters school, he seems out of place with other children. It can develop children's courage.

Parents with children know that the first time they sent him to kindergarten, there was no one who didn't cry, leaving a familiar family, to a strange environment, always feeling lonely, and there were so many children to get along, from the original fear to familiar and fun. According to the curriculum of the Ministry of Education, the education of school teachers is planned, such as singing, dancing, playing games, reading poems and nursery rhymes, and various aspects of life, and the above five aspects must be involved. At home, it is different, parents teach children what problems they encounter.

It is necessary to be on. Because preschool is the bridge between kindergarten and primary 1, this transition can help children to ease the discomfort of the new environment and the disconnection of knowledge.

I remember that I used to go to school and only went to the first grade, and the preschool I went to was also in vain, and I also studied the first grade curriculum, what preschool education, nursery school, I had never heard of it at all. Before I was 8 years old, I was still running around the village every day, and I didn't have any education, but I felt that I hadn't become a worthless person, I should have been admitted to college, I should have found a job and found a job. Some people may disagree with this view, saying that it is different now, how to do it, others are proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and what if they don't catch up.

In fact, I feel that this kind of thinking is completely unnecessary, and I should not impose my will on future generations. There is a joke that there is a kind of hateful bird that has no ability to lay an egg and let the offspring try to fly. There are many examples around me of mediocre and mediocre all my life, and I have to bet on my children, saying that I will count on them in my life, and then all kinds of cram schools, all kinds of expectations, and finally end up in a mess.

I think the focus of preschool education is not education, but to let children adapt to group life, what can children learn, only 3 or 4 years old have learned enough, there are still 10 years to learn in the future, how to persevere? The most important thing in children's preschool education is to cultivate the ability to get along with other children, to adapt to life without parents, rather than to learn how many words to know and how many to count.

Now many parents are letting their children in kindergarten from small classes, small classes, middle classes to large classes to the graduation of young children, not to preschool education classes, kindergarten classes can meet preschool education, preschool teachers do not understand preschool education, indoctrination.

The knowledge of the first and second grades will make the child unable to do so in preschool and go on to school.

In the first and second grades, it seems that they will not pay attention to the lectures. The point of view is to cultivate children's learning habits, preschool is a good transition from kindergarten to primary school, your child is in charge!

According to the latest kindergarten education syllabus, in the three years of kindergarten, to exercise children's hands-on ability, does not involve cultural teaching, especially in the domestic public kindergartens, the implementation of this policy is in place, resulting in many public kindergarten children, hands-on ability is strong, take the basketball as an example, one person holds two, the basketball is like a fish in water, but also ashamed, after entering the primary school dumbfounded, when they also have learned to write, when they have learned to write, when they have learned to count, people have opened a lot of cultural classes, Many children have big heads, parents have bigger heads, and children really can't keep up. Some smart children can gradually keep up after more than half a semester of training, but there are also many children, step by step, step by step, and this time they will completely lose at the starting line. But in some private parks, in order to better obtain students, they are quietly working kindergarten education, first in accordance with the education syllabus in training children to play, hands-on ability, etc., but in the leisure time, from the small class to learn to recognize the card, to the middle class after the completion of the can know hundreds of Chinese characters, to the kindergarten class began to learn to write, to the second half of the kindergarten actually opened the course of the young and primary cohesion, so that the child to the first grade, a lot of habits have been formed, a lot of things have been somewhat understood, In terms of cultural subjects, it is obviously better than that of children in public kindergartens.

I think it is very necessary to educate children step by step.

I think it's still necessary. In terms of knowledge, parents can actually complete this stage of education at home, but parents do not have this time. Moreover, preschool education is mainly to cultivate a sense of reading, so that he can get used to getting along with others.

As we all know, the purpose of kindergarten education is to be relaxed and happy, and there is basically no homework. In the process of doing homework, children gradually have the awareness of writing homework and slowly develop the habit of learning. In terms of life, to take the simplest example, in the past, the kindergarten did not have to carry a schoolbag at all except Friday, and there was basically no concept of textbooks, and when it came to the preschool class, I had to organize my schoolbag every night and replace the books of the day for the next day.

Although it is only a small link, it has exercised his habit of being responsible and serious.

First of all, why go to preschool? The kindergarten is mainly play-oriented, with short class time and loose discipline; Elementary school begins to formally learn culture, and there is very little time to play at school. Discipline is strict in standard lessons.

Children need an adaptation process that changes with their environment, which is the main reason why I chose preschool! So, how do you go to preschool? Since preschool is a young transition, how do we achieve our goals.

As a parent, I first have to be clear about my goals: let my children understand why they want to go to school, and know that going to school is serious; What kind of sense of accomplishment can be obtained when going to school, so that children can take the initiative to learn; How to make learning easierThe cultivation of learning methods is a child's lifelong ability, and it is also the decisive factor for parents to study hard during the 12 years of primary and secondary school; How to make learning more enjoyable Although this is also a method of learning, I must make a separate list to remind myself: since small animals learn through play, why should people make exceptions?

Let's replace rebuke with laughter, confrontation with joy, and work hard!

With the goal in mind, the next step is how to achieve it: parents take the lead in abiding by school discipline, not being late, not leaving early, and not easily asking for leave; Parents should definitely cooperate with the school. If you have any questions, talk to the teacher individually.

Don't question the teacher in front of your child and say that the school is wrong. Otherwise, the little head will be messed up, and the result is that the child gradually becomes disobedient (including parental discipline); Don't complain about letting parents check homework. You are bored with this and expect your child to be bored with their homework.

I told the baby clearly: this is your homework, not mine.

Because you weren't proficient at first, I'm looking for you. I helped you, so you should thank me. If you're sure of your assignment, you don't need my help.

Now I basically don't need to check his homework. In fact, I'm still checking just to keep him from knowing, and I won't remind him if I find something wrong. After grading the assignment, I will work with him to analyze the reasons for the mistakes.

No matter how busy you are, you should spend some time each day with your child. When your child is older, he is reluctant to spend time with him.

The baby now likes to play class games: he is the teacher, I am the student (I can review everything). Or shopping games:

He's the boss and I'm the customer (practice calculations). I also like to play with monsters (calculate the damage value).After talking about this topic, everyone should have their own answer, and my answer is:

Learning attitudes, learning methods, parental counseling methods, home-school cooperation methods, and cultural learning are just the carriers of the above.

The reason why children go to preschool is to prepare for the transition between the young and the primary, and only when they go to preschool can they have the ability to learn better in the first grade. Preschool generally teaches children a lot of things, such as teaching children to know some Chinese characters, being able to form words and sentences can also increase children's reading, and in mathematics, they can not only teach children to count, but also do some basic math problems, in English, they can also teach children some simple words and oral skills, in social practice classes can teach children some basic principles of life, and in physical education classes can exercise children's physical fitness. In dance lessons, you can develop your child's ability to coordinate his limbs and so on.

The reason why children go to preschool is because it lays a lot of foundation for children, and after the child enters primary school, there will not be so much stress. Preschool generally teaches a lot of things, such as ancient poetry, arithmetic, painting, English, Chinese and physical education.

Sending children to preschool is about letting children learn more knowledge and more abilities. Preschool will generally teach children some simple arithmetic methods and simple words, and will also teach children to wear clothes and eat and cry quietly, and will also tell children to respect their parents and teachers, which are what children learn in preschool.