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<> in life, older leftover men and saints are very common, this is not an uncommon thing, for the previous society, the older leftover women are very few, and for the older leftover men, they adults send women they are also very enlightened. So in the blind date, why do some boys particularly dislike older leftover women, they may be because of why the older leftover girls are so old, and the age has not yet been leave. Marrying out may be a problem, for them, this may be the first thing a boy thinks, why he didn't get married, is it because he has a defect there, this is also the discrimination of boys against girls.
So it's the same for those older leftover men.
1. Because girls are easier to find husbands in life, they think that there is a problem if girls are older and do not get married.
Second, boys are more disgusted with older girls, which may also be because of their own reasons.
3. Whether it is an older leftover man or a leftover woman, as long as they are not old and have not married, they may have their own ideas.
In life, it is also very common for older leftover women now, because women nowadays are also very advanced in their thinking, so they are older, and they have their own ideas if they don't get married, not because of their own reasons, so they don't get married, because they feel that they see more clearly.
So in life, you don't need to go to the dormitory for those older leftover men or saints, because they have their own ideas, and their ideas are also relatively advanced, maybe some older leftover men are because of family reasons, they are not married, maybe because of personal reasons, but for girls, they are also very easy to get married and get married, so for them not to get married, they must also have their own ideas, which may also have their own people and their own temper or character reasons, which is why they did not get married.
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Because boys like to find women younger than their own age, they feel that they are okay when they are older, but the other party must be young, more demanding, and young and good-looking.
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This is because he feels that the other party is older, and he also feels that the other party's conditions are not particularly good, so he is more disgusted.
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Because women are older, they are not attractive to boys. And they are too mature for boys, and it will be difficult for boys to control this kind of woman.
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Older leftover women are difficult to give birth and have high requirements. Who wants to buy a hen and waste only food and not lay eggs.
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Because they think that these girls must be left because they are not good enough, and they don't like others to pick the rest, so they are very disgusted.
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Because they feel that older leftover women are selected and are not worthy of their social status.
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This topic, the average girl who is easy to find a boyfriend does not need a blind date, the older leftover woman in your mouth only needs to go on a blind date, and the one who can't find it is a blind date. Nonsense.
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It's not wine, the older it gets, the more fragrant it is...
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Haven't you heard of old age and decay? Who doesn't want to marry a young and pretty.
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Many boys are prejudiced against older leftover women, where does this prejudice come from? Is there really a problem with older leftover girls?
At present, the life pressure of many young people is very great, because in such an era, if they do not have certain economic conditions, most people are unwilling to start a family, because of the establishment of a new family, to understand many influencing factors, because the two are not only in love, but for a hundred family considerations, so many people do not get married because they do not want to be bound by marriage, can not bear the pressure brought by a family. In real life, why do many people often have certain prejudices about older unmarried girls?
This concept has always existed in everyone's hearts, and they always think that girls should marry when they reach the age of marriage, and if they are very old, they will be looked down upon by others. Influenced by traditional concepts, we all know that in the era of a very feudal society, boys' dominance was much higher than that of girls, and there was almost no dominance in girls' society. The idea of traditional concepts is deeply popular, to the marriageable age should be ready to get married, older, always feel that they can't find a boyfriend, and if the girl is too big, it is also a difficult thing to have a child, because the older maternal generation is more risky, so many people always feel that older women can not find a boyfriend.
Now is not the era of patriarchy, but it is very difficult to wash away the previous consciousness that we must respect every woman around us to respect everyone's thoughts, in fact, some girls can create their own space in their own area, and there are more working women in the workplace. Every lady is great, because she can shine in the workplace and create new life, and we need to respect every lady and not define these older girls by the name of older young women.
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Since it is prejudice, it will certainly not be accepted by the public. There is nothing wrong with older leftover women, this is just a lifestyle chosen by a woman, just like Qin Lan Cong Nian said, "Do I need my uterus to do anything to others?" "Ran Zheng Collapse" is also like Yan Ning said: "If I don't get married, what does it have to do with others?
Everyone has different life requirements and lifestyles, just a choice, there is no right or wrong, as long as you like it, don't care about other people's eyes!
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Many people think that when they are old, they should enter into marriage. Actually, I think marriage is a free choice.
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Mainly from the age aspect. No problem, they just have their own life plan.
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I think this blind date man is a person with no quality and no education, which is a kind of disrespect for women. Each person believes that he has his own conditions, no matter how old he is, he must go on a blind date to find a partner according to his own ideas, and it cannot be said that older women can't put forward conditions.
The first to learn about the ant Gaoxian, the blind date conditions, this is everyone's freedom. No one has the right to interfere. Marriage is a lifelong event, and no one wants to find someone to get married in a daze.
Everyone has their own ideal goal, according to their own ideal conditions to find their own person. Some people even prefer to lack rather than abundant, and finally find someone who is compatible with their own love.
Second, prejudice against older girls should be discouraged. In fact, many older girls are very good people, because they are relatively good, so they must be very picky about finding a partner. The requirements for the other half are also very high.
So that they failed to find a suitable love partner at the best age, but this does not mean that they have no right to speak and lower their standards. There should be no prejudice against these older young women.
Third, older girls should be given more care. Indeed, in real life, some older girls have more or less low self-esteem in their hearts because they have never been able to find a suitable love partner. Because there is such a colleague around me, who is in his 40s and still not married.
The more this is the case, the more we should care about them, and we should not discriminate against them and ridicule them. This is a reflection of our high quality.
Besides, 30 years old is not very big for girls, especially in big cities, 30 years old without looking for a partner, there are many girls who are not married, you can't show disrespect to them because they are older, or you should understand them more, tolerate them, so that they can be more confident in themselves, and find their favorite love partner as soon as possible.
I think that when girls go on a blind date, in addition to understanding the boy's family background, they need the boy's character and the character of their parents, because in a family, in fact, the parents are very good at getting along with the parents with more positive views, and the children cultivated by this kind of family are basically not bad, on the contrary, if the parents are the kind of family with feudal ideas or very strong, the environment will basically not be very independent.
In fact, they didn't think about anything, they just wanted to be calm, they didn't want to talk to women more, they didn't want to talk to women, so they didn't want to talk, and their brains were blank.
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