Is it that the older leftover women are so anxious that they see that men like to find younger girls

Oh my God, what age is this, how can anyone still have such an idea?! What's the hurry, would you rather lack than understand? What happened to the leftover girl?

What about being young and beautiful? True beauty is not based on looks. Although everyone has a love for beauty, and many men are also eager for young and beautiful girls, but really loving someone is not looking at her surface.

Inner cultivation is the most important thing.

1. Although I am married and have children, I still want to try to analyze the so-called "leftover women" from my perspective. There are indeed a lot of "leftovers" around me, and most of them are independent and excellent. It's not that I don't want to fall in love, but I'd rather lack than abuse.

Their attitude towards love is relatively strict, and some of them have a very high vision, but it is understandable that they want to pursue a true soul mate.

Second, there is no shortage of suitors around the older leftover women in many cities, and they are not in a hurry, but they don't want to be perfunctory and get married hastily. Indeed, many leftover women have the mentality of "hating to marry", but they will never marry for the sake of getting married. They have a higher pursuit of marriage, in addition to the longing for love, but also have a spiritual fit.

Seeing that the sisters around them are all out of singles, they are not in a hurry, but they will never find someone to fall in love with in order to get off the single.

3. Many girls who live exquisitely are also wonderful alone. For them, marriage means all kinds of trivial things in life, such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, etc., which is not the life they want, and it makes sense to live themselves. I am financially independent, live independently, and live happily, why do I need a man to hold me back?

It must be the voice of many "leftover women". A lot of what is left is not actually "left", but they don't need it. If one person is more exciting, then I don't need others to disturb my life anymore.

So men, don't overestimate your status too much, many people don't want to get married, but they don't want to marry.

To be honest, capable girls also like young men, after all, they are capable, and the ability of men is not necessarily linked to age ......

Are all young women blind? Their parents are also blind? Or do they like your pleats and old man's smell?

Like you've talked about it so many times, like dirty? Only men like to be fresh and young, and women like to be old and decrepit in physical fitness?! I'm not afraid of being disliked.

Not necessarily, it depends on what kind of leftover woman it is, the older women around me are looking for objects that are similar to their age, of course, they are not the kind of people who are looking for objects that are too high or lower in their requirements, just look for something similar to their actual situation.

As long as it's not very rich, it's basically a dead duck with a hard mouth.

No, who you like to find! There are poems and distances in life!

No, because if a young girl is good at everything, how can she like old bacon like yours? Do you want to take care of an old man in the future?

It's all about how to make money, who has to dream of men.

No, women nowadays are not so superficial, okay, now they are all focused on making money, as long as you work hard, your boyfriend is still in high school, and the young little brother has always had.

Personally, I don't think that's necessarily, older leftover women have their own advantages, mature and stable enough to be good, so some men don't meet their conditions at all, and we will slowly look for better men.

Yes, because they have a sense of crisis and feel that they are old and not good-looking, they are a threat to them, and they are very anxious in their hearts.

Of course, older leftover women will be anxious, because good men are looking for young girls, and older leftover women have no market at all, and they are also worried that they will not be able to marry at all.

No. They are hoping to find the right people to be left, and they are not in a hurry at all.

Yes, definitely. Because the older leftover girls are already very inferior in their hearts, if they see their beloved boys and like young girls, they will definitely be more anxious.

Yes, this will make the older leftover women feel a little worried.

Due to the openness of today's society, men and women are becoming more and more educated, and the perspective of viewing the worldview is also getting higher and higher. As a result, there are many older leftover men and older leftover women, but it is not all smooth sailing on the road of pursuing affection, and it is difficult to meet the right person at the right time.

Is the older leftover men in the society in a hurry or the older leftover women in a hurry?

In fact, judging from the relevant data now, it is indeed that older leftover men will be more anxious than older leftover women.

1. In fact, whether it is an older leftover man or an older leftover woman, they will be more anxious. Because in the later stage, it is necessary to take into account the problems of birth, old age, sickness and death, as well as loneliness, which belong to the common nature of human beings, and naturally both men and women will be more anxious.

2. Ideologically, China's thinking is not so open, and on the whole it is still relatively traditional. Therefore, men will be more anxious than women, because men need to marry a wife and have children to continue the offspring.

3. If physiologically speaking. Although women are subject to time constraints, when they have passed the optimal pregnancy period or are no longer able to conceive, they will no longer be in a hurry, let alone get married because they have to get married. But for men, the opposite is true of women's thinking.

So why don't boys like chasing girls anymore?

1. The cost is getting higher and higher. Today's women, unlike women in the past, have many holidays every year, and men also have to buy all kinds of small gifts for women. It can be a burden for men with average income.

2. The threshold for love is getting higher and higher. Now itself is in the material age, if the boy's own conditions are not good, it is not that he does not want to find a partner, but he cannot find a partner. Because he knows his own conditions in his heart, even if he confesses to women, the final result is extremely unsatisfactory.

3. Ideological aspects. After all, there are many only children in this era, most of whom are self-centered, and if the other party cannot meet their needs, it is easy to have conflicts, and eventually lead to breakups.

I think that the society is older and more anxious; Because they feel that chasing girls is very troublesome, they have to pay their own time, money, and energy, and they may not be able to catch up, but waste their time, money, and energy, so they don't like to chase.

But now in this society, in fact, older leftover women are more urgent. Today's boys don't have much patience and feel that the process is relatively long, so they don't like to chase girls.

I think it must be that boys are more anxious, after all, many parents know that their sons are married, and they drive their sons to find a partner. At this time, many boys know that chasing girls is a troublesome process and will waste a lot of money.

After all, I want to get married, I'm a man, post-95, I don't want to get married, I don't want to socialize, I don't want to be of the opposite sex, 20,000 or 30,000 12900+3090ti can make me happy for more than 8 hours a day, for 5 years or ten years, why waste it on women, or marriage, or real estate?

With the development of society, women are becoming more and more independent, and they are engaged in intense and complex social work, and they have no time to take care of their love, of course, some women are also because they are too good and want to find a good match with the other half, and they have become older leftover women in this busy or different ideological concepts, and they will generally realize that they are gradually eliminated at the age of forty, and it is already very difficult to win the favor of boys with good conditions.

1.Most of the boys with good conditions are also at the age of 35 and above, and most of the men with good conditions around the age of 40 are also married, so the boys with good conditions between the ages of 35 and 40 will not consider the older leftover girls at the age of 40, after all, boys in this age group also hope to find a partner of the same age or younger.

2.With the passage of time, many older leftover women even if the face is very well maintained, like an eighteen-year-old girl, but the age of the body is the fact that it cannot be changed, at the age of forty will feel that their body is no longer about thirty years old can be crazy to stay up indefinitely, their hearts will also feel empty, and they hope to have a companion to accompany themselves, at this time look back and want to find a man with good conditions, their bodies may not be able to eat, even if they have the opportunity to meet men with good conditions, will also face the double contradiction of marriage, childbirth, family and career like other women, after all, it is necessary to consider whether your forty-year-old body can afford it.

3.As women get older and older, after many failed relationships or blind dates, at the age of forty, they gradually lose confidence in themselves, and many older leftover women gradually realize that the current age is no longer suitable for love, and their thoughts have changed from the initial impatience to a natural attitude, and then they understand that they are on the verge of being eliminated.

Of course, older leftover women don't have to deny themselves because of their age, although we are left, but we don't feel inferior, forty years old is just an age number after all, no matter what, we have to live out of our forty years old, let others speak coldly, calm down, and always meet the one in their minds.

There is no one definitive answer to this question as everyone's situation and ideas are different.

Some people may think that 27-28 years old is considered an older leftover woman, and some people may think that only those over 35 years old can be considered an older leftover girl.

Some people may give up looking for love and marriage when they get older, and some people may continue to work blind dates or try second marriage.

You say you want to find a man with good conditions, but men with good conditions like girls in their twenties. This may be a common phenomenon, but it is not an absolute rule.

Some men with good conditions will also value women's connotation, temperament, personality, etc., not just age and appearance. You can try to show your strengths and charm in the blind date and make the other person feel that you are different.

Of course, you also have to have a clear understanding of yourself and don't overestimate or underestimate yourself. You can set a reasonable blind date standard and goal according to your actual situation and expectations, and stick to it.

Hope this information is helpful to you.

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