Would you choose to have a time limited relationship?

No, not in this life, if it really appears, then I did my best, the most beautiful thing about time is that you have a person who loves you, and at the same time you also love him, this is the most beautiful love. However, the premise is that men are unmarried and women are unmarried. If you give up this relationship only because of the limitations of geography, time and space, will you leave infinite regrets when you grow old in the future?

Love knows no age, no time. If you love, love deeply. If you don't love it, please leave.

Love is as simple as that, if it is mixed with other things, it will become sour. If you do have a chance to have a relationship with a limited date, then please work hard to renew it and make it an indefinite one. What I'm going to talk about is definitely an indefinite love, that is, a possible breakup, and the incompatibility between us that we later found out, rather than going back to choose a timeless love at the beginning.

If you want me to say no, if you really love each other, what deadline will there be, abandon the person you love the most, what are they, why do you need to talk about falling in love and afraid of getting hurt, you are sure to talk about one, the 21st century, don't manage the love you ask for as if it were boiled water, you will have true love, cherish it, true love is indefinite, love with a time limit is fake, it is empty, today he laughs with you, you think he loves you, the time is up, tomorrow he will laugh at others, Others will also think that he loves her, so why waste time talking about a false love with a deadline. I think love is eternal, and love with a time limit is not love at all.

Some people think it's immoral, you clearly know that it's a limited time to be in love, why do you want to delay others? Just like Qiu Chen said: Won't your conscience hurt?

This kind of story happens all around us all the time. Most of the love in high school will be separated because of volunteering, and the love in college will mostly be separated because of work. Love after work will also be separated due to family, too different conditions, or various other reasons.

However, most people still choose to talk about this time-limited relationship, what if? We always look forward to this just in case. People often regret missing out more than they are at fault.

The things that have been done, even if they are stupid and stupid, will become a conversation after a long time, and the things that have been missed will become resentment after a long time. I'm not going to talk about it, not because I don't want to, but because I don't want to hurt people.

Theoretically, a year of falling in love is no longer a hot love period. The hot love period generally refers to the first three months of a relationship. However, if two people have a good relationship, every day is a period of love.

There are four stages of love in the hot love period:

1. Coexistence stage.

This is the initial stage, two people want to be tired of being together all the time, and they are inseparable from each other, just like a pair of conjoined babies. At this stage, both parties see each other's good in each other and are indifferent to what is happening around them.

There is a saying that the lover is in the eye, and couples in the coexistence stage of the love period will always feel that the other person is perfect. Therefore, it should be noted that everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings, and as the understanding deepens, the image of the other party will be worse than at the beginning of the understanding, which is a normal phenomenon.

2. Anti-dependency stage.

After two people have been together for a long time, love inevitably tends to be flat. Because you have been in a state of excitement for a long time, and now your brain is also in a period of fatigue. You will feel that the other person is not so good, and you will start to want to have some space for yourself and do your own thing.

At this time, it will be difficult for the two parties to communicate, or it will be difficult to communicate, and in severe cases, there will even be a quarrel of "why have you become so unreasonable now". At this stage, the most important thing is to calm down and give yourself and each other more freedom and personal space.

3. Independent stage.

This is a continuation of the previous phase, where both men and women have their own work, life and separate social circles. To be honest, there will be a lot of potential crises at this stage, because it is not as inseparable as in the early days of love, and now it is time to start doing your own thing.

Two people no longer interfere too much with each other's emotions, and are basically busy with each other. At this stage, you should pay attention to communicating with the other party more and sending warmth. You can not care about the other person's work and normal social interaction, but you should care about the other person's life and psychological state.

4. Symbiotic stage.

Through the trials of various circumstances, you begin to find that you have run in with each other and are called your closest lovers. Support each other and attract each other, and begin to adapt to the ordinary life, but no one can do without anyone. At this stage, your relationship is basically very stable.

Falling in love is a matter of two people, everyone has their own different ideas in love, and liking a person needs to have a correct view of love in order to go on for a long time.

1.Single-mindedness, honesty and honesty There is no room for a third party in the relationship, and the relationship needs to be single-minded, and you can't step on two boats. The treatment of feelings also requires the two to be honest and not to deceive and conceal it.

2.Like-minded and tacit understanding In love, two people need to have the same three views, and each other's personalities can tolerate or complement each other. They have common goals, hobbies, etc., and can communicate with each other spiritually. Pursue your dreams while tolerating each other.

3.Take love seriously Love is not the whole of life, don't fall in love brain. All kinds of pressures in life have to continue, don't feel willful that you don't accompany you, and recognize the proportion of feelings in your life. Even if there is no love, you can live well on your own.

4.Responsibility The best result of falling in love is to finally enter the palace of marriage, and you need to be responsible for your feelings, and love is not a one-sided request. The responsibility for the other half of the infiltration friend and the explanation of the family should be assumed.

5.Mutual Respect Two people in a relationship are independent individuals, and they need to give each other space to understand and respect each other. Don't take it for granted that the decision for the other party is easy to cause conflicts.

6.Be good at expressing your feelings need to be expressed, and only when you express them clearly will you feel your love and reduce unnecessary misunderstandings.

The correct view of love is the most important part of the relationship, and the correct view of love can make us see that the best state of love is more relaxed and comfortable. The two who can enjoy the feeling of falling in love with each other and adoring each other will eventually walk together.

In fact, men are like onions who want to know, so they peel and cry, and later find out that they have no heart. But what you keep peeling away is his heart. He gave you the heart at first, but you didn't believe it.

Maybe I really forgot that I might encounter a similar scene in the next second. The person you love the most in your heart is also the one who makes you suffer the most. Experienced all the grievances and the hardest time.

You'll find out. You still love her so much. It's just not so obvious anymore.

Looking at it again, I still want to have it for myself. Saying that time will make you forget everything. But in the end, it always reminds you of the one to whom all youth is directed.

Being with you is just constant heartache.

It's always good when two people are together, and everyone's love is always desperate to love regardless of the body. I think a person has experienced the sorrow of love. Then the next time the relationship will always be careful.

People meet a lot of people in their lives. Some people shine in your life, and some people leave after hurting you. Someone can meet someone who can take care of her whole life like buying a lottery ticket, she wins the first prize, and the rest of the people keep buying it and winning the lottery, but it is just a small pitiful reward.

The period of love between the two is about 3 months, the first 3 months are in love, and the last 3 months are dull. From special care to cancellation, from chat to cancellation, from a separate group to a public group, it's all deleted from the place of your name, from the software that cares about each other to the library, from your things to **emptying, I don't have you in my life anymore, I want to cry, I can't cry, I can't laugh if I want to laugh, I have to pretend that nothing happens every day. I know that no matter how much regret I feel in my heart, I can only come here with you for the rest of my life.

Have you ever met such a person, obviously he broke into your world first, but when you gradually liked it and left, you waited for a long time, withered, you always remember the original warmth, but the person who came to your world seems to never want to come back, at that time you naively thought that it would come forever, and in the end you found that the original person will always become!

The hot love period generally lasts for three or four months, and the interests, hobbies, and advantages of the other party are just beginning. I want to understand these living habits slowly, I feel that everything about her is beautiful, and I look forward to meeting every day. It feels like every day is short.

After three or four months, it slowly calmed down.

When you are in love, how long the love period exists, it still depends on the degree of love between the two people, if the relationship is deep, it feels like it has always been in the love period, and the relationship is shallow, then it won't last long.

The hot love period generally lasts for 2 to 3 months. When you are in a relationship, you must stay calm so that you don't fall into a situation where you lose your mind.

Generally, it will exist for a month, because the novelty is only for a month, and it will be annoying after a long time.

I've never really considered such a hypothesis before, but if one day I was told that I only had 24 hours left in my relationship, I would take the following steps to get through the rest of my life.

First of all, I will cherish the last 24 hours of time for the two of us, I will be completely with each other, even if I know that after these 24 hours the two will be separated, but I will also enjoy this last time, in the remaining 24 hours, I will try my best to bring each other happiness and my lover to remember the good time between the two from the acquaintance to the present, will give up all the quarrels between the two people, Think more about the beautiful and unforgettable impressions that your lover left on you.

Then the two of us will choose to go to the restaurant where the two of us first met to have dinner together, and go to Jian Ji to return to the two of us, the feeling when we first met, I said that in this process, my heart will be very painful and uncomfortable, but I will still try my best to suppress my inner feelings, show my own calm and calm in front of my lover, of course, I will also give each other more blessings for the remaining 24 hours, Understand her plan and vision for her future life, in addition to these, the two of us will also choose to watch a movie, so that both of us are impressed by the movie to make the best farewell to this relationship, in the last time when the love of the two people is about to end, I will also do my best to infiltrate Zen to adjust my mentality to suppress the loss and pain in my heart.

Yes, if you have been in love for a period of time, you can't go further, and you can't decide to join hands for a lifetime, it can only prove that there is no need for two people to continue.