What do you want a real family to look like?

The family is harmonious, the family is healthy, and then you can have a good job and no longer make your parents so tired.

Ideal: Like a fortress, everyone in it is united and absolutely trusts each other, so that you can feel safe. Reality:

In reality, your family may have a lot of irreconcilable conflicts, with many family members and complicated relationships, and you have seen these negative influences since you were a child and were deeply disturbed by them.

It's good to live a peaceful and comfortable family life, and you don't need to be rich and rich. The days are dull and happy, even if they are a real family.

It is enough to eat and drink without worrying, and I can afford to go to school for my children, unlike me, who dropped out of junior high school to work to earn money to support my family.

At least it should be a harmonious family, not like my family, where my parents have a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every five days.

I have a stable job and a stable income. I don't ask for too much, it's good to be able to support my family, I have a wife who loves me, understands me, and is considerate of me, and I have a cute little baby!

Being able to have a well-paid job and own a house of their own allows parents to live a better life.

A family of three or four, if it is a family of four, I hope it is a twin, and the dragon and phoenix fetus are the best. You don't need much money, you can make a good life for your family. In short, life is dull, and happiness is good.

I can earn a lot of money and let my son live like a rich second generation, with a harmonious family and healthy parents.

My parents live a long and healthy life, I have a loving soul, I live a prosperous life, and I no longer have trouble with money.

I just hope that the relationship between my mother and my daughter-in-law can become a little more harmonious, and there will be no more quarrels over a little thing.

In my understanding, the most important thing in a family is to have love. When there is harmony at home, you can work outside with peace of mind. There is a cousin who has always wanted to start a family, and he will feel that family is very important.

My cousin's current family has become what I like, my cousin is in the house, and my cousin is outside. A family of three is happy, with love and warmth.

Earn a lot of money, take your family and children to travel all over the world, and travel all over the world.

What kind of family dares to have three children now: first, the first two children are boys or girls. People, they all lack what they think, those who don't have daughters want to have a daughter, and they think that their daughters are intimate; Those who don't have a son want to have a son, and they feel that the son is the one who relies on the elderly.

The second category is people whose families are not short of money. The cost of raising a child is really not low now. In the first two years of birth, I bought milk powder diapers, learned my specialties after going to kindergarten, had to make up classes after school, and had to worry about work and marriage after graduation.

It costs at least hundreds of thousands to raise a child, and this is still when the child is not sick or sick. So the average family really can't afford to raise three children. After all, it is no longer the time to give your children food.

The third category is that there are people in the family who can take care of the children full-time. The first three years of the child's birth are inseparable from human burial, and they must pick up and drop off on time when they go to school, prepare lunch, one child is fine, but the three children must not be unified in time, and the family is really busy without special logistics.

The fourth category is those who like children, can enjoy the process of raising children, and enjoy it. A child goes from ignorance to babbling, and then gradually grows up to be sensible, and the bitterness and joy can only be experienced by those who have experienced it. If you are willing to repeat this process over and over again, you must really like children.

Thinking about his own family, he has neither money nor idlers, and in order to raise this only child, he is already anxious, and he can only be discouraged by the second and third children. In addition, those who have three children don't care about the subsidy.