Can a broken love really be recovered? Is it normal for it to be difficult to recover after a breaku

Updated on healthy 2024-08-01
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    It's very difficult, and it takes a long, long time to recover I once watched the 8090 program of the Hunan TV station A psychiatrist said that the impact of falling out of love on everyone is different, and you should forget it slowly, and if you recover, some people may have half a year, some people may have 5 years, some have 10 years, or longer, I think what can really be forgotten is to have another happiness, you said that you have had a relationship again, but you still can't forget the pain of the past, I think the relationship you have had again is probably that you are not too involved in it, I can't speak, this is also a little bit of my own thoughts Hope you don't suffer anymore

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Life is like riding a bus, and love is the same, if you miss it, you can wait a little longer, even if it is sad at the moment.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It depends on whether you have a sensitive constitution or not.

    Yes, I will be sad for a long time, moody, have a lot of resentment in my heart, and be depressed all day long, and I can't forget it.

    If not, you will subconsciously control your mood and find a messy reason for yourself to relieve your mood, so that you will recover faster.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Yes, time will dilute everything. It's just that you have to try to give up. Always embracing a new future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, start a new life of your own, let him (her) pass in the past, and don't get along with yourself anymore.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Life is good, forget the past and look forward to the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Of course it can be restored. Eighty percent of today's people have fallen out of love.

    Falling out of love must have been painful at the time, and you were in pain for so long because you didn't want to come out of it.

    Think about what is good about him, do not think of his good, remember his bad, and make yourself disgusted with him.

    Just seal this memory.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course, because on that day, you were the only one in the world who fell out of love, and if they all recovered and you didn't, then you would be left behind.

    In fact, falling out of love is terrible.

    It's better to lose now than to get married and she's leaving you.

    You should be glad.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are always a few times in life that you have to go through a few breakups.

    In the first few times, I would feel like the end of the world, as if I was going to die in the next second, and I would feel painful when I thought about that person, or when I thought about all the things we had been together before. Physiologically, I will feel that my heart is tightening one after another, and every time I contract, the blood will flow against my brother's filial piety, and even the tips of my fingers will be numb and painful. You used to call your friends late at night, you used to overeat and try to forget the unhappy things, you used to cry in the middle of the night, and even cried alone on the crowded streets, feeling that the tears would never end your life, and that you would never get better again.

    However, as you get older, the number of broken lovers increases, or in other words, as there are more and more things in your life that you need to think, care about, and grasp, and as you become more and more mature, when you fall out of love again, you will no longer be so desperately sad.

    You know you're going to come out, you know you're going to recover after a while, you know that one day you're going to recover from falling out of love and move on to the next sweet relationship. At this time, falling out of love is no longer as painful as the end of the world.

    However, this is another difficult stage - you know that you will come out of the breakup at some point, but you don't know how long it will take. You know you're going to have to go through a hard time to forget, to recover. It's like watching an abusive movie where you're tempted to fast-forward or skip some of the clips and go straight to the happy finale.

    Helpless life this product, there is no fast-forward button.

    At this time, yours may not be really interested in anything. I don't want to talk to my friends, because you know that no matter how much you say, you will only complain and complain; I don't want to get drunk in the middle of the night or cry in the wind like in a movie, because you know that you have to go to work tomorrow and there are still many things to be done. Don't want to overeat or go on a shopping spree, because you know that the consequences of such an immature behavior can be twice as much as a workout at the gym or a sadder feeling when you pay off your credit card next month.

    You know you're going to come out, you know you're going to have to stay sane, you know you're going to try to get life off track, you know you're going to have to endure this for a while.

    But you don't know how long it will be.

    This is the most difficult time to grow up and mature, and after falling out of love.

    Maybe at this time, doing anything will not help much, you can only wait for time to go slowly, the plot of life will be staged step by step, and one day you finally feel interested in something in a real sense, this difficult day will be over.

    My personal advice is, don't let yourself be idle, go to work if you can, go to work if you can, go to work out if you can keep fitting, read when you can read a book, learn something if you can learn it, and at least tidy up your room when you can't do anything.

    That way, the day you find yourself feeling refreshed, you won't regret that you wasted this time.

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I don't think it can be, he can only temporarily paralyze your nerves and make you forget about it for a while, and he can't ** your pain very well; Because buying drunk can relax their minds, they can temporarily paralyze themselves, and they can temporarily forget the pain of falling out of love.